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I want to have sex with a girl that doesn't exactly know me.

Wasn't there someone on BL with the username "OP"? I thought I remember posts from him
 
everytime i go drinking @ the bars,this happens all the time.
i guess im so drunk i hold the door open for a chick and shes in my bed. i think its the door opening thing that makes their panties wet.
 
You don't know her - you don't know if she would like to have sex with you. - That has a name? Rape. I was going to say never ends well but really depends on if your role?
 
To OP so after you wank off to porn and this causes you significant social impairment. Like porno lets you know what each womans bits and pieces are gonna look like. You can just predict things like nipple/labia size/shape. I used to feel alot less nervous after dumping my seed so I wouldnt be getting boners when I was a young teen. So anyways have you gone on a date with this girl yet?
 
I think if you go into this, OP, with the assumption that you're going to be sneaking into each others rooms or whatever else this fantasy entails, you're probably going to scare her off.

Best way to go about this is to put all that out of your mind and just hang out with another human being. That's when you'll be you, and without sending unconscious cues of sexual intent.
 
The only way your gonna know what this girl is about is to see her, so yeah what Venrak said. Hang out with her. Its probly not a good idea to build it up in your head to more than it is. None of us really know the score more than you. IME women Ive met online where slutty but this was different circumstances and Im a bit older than you. Your still a virgin, so yeah go hang out with her. Even if you dont put it in her, you will learn some stuff about women and relationships. If you do like her, try not to get friend-zoned. If she talks to you about her bf or something like that, maybe ask her if she has any friends you could meet.
 
Right - sort out your anxiety, then sex will come more naturally to you. If you don't sort out your anxiety then well. You're not getting pussy. You need to put yourself out there, meet people, try and make friendships, and take the lead with a woman to fuck her, mate.

THat being said - what EXACTLY has she said? We need the posts - copy and paste dude. Then we can tell you for sure whether you are getting laid or not, as you're clearly not sure. Therefore it could be nothing but your hope.
MountEdenDubstep said:
I met a girl on facebook earlier this week and I would love<3 to see her naked. She seems interested in me and I think that helps.

I live close to her and we could actually sneak to each others house at night.

The only real problem is that I haven't talked to her a whole lot and I don't know what to say. Porn has ruined my relations with girls. I feel nervous and need help.

I really think this is my chance to get laid and I don't want to let go of it or accidentally get stuck in the friend zone. I don't know if I should date her or not.

And don't think that I'm getting pressured into doing this by friends of mine.

Sincerely,

Kind of Anxious
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I think the OP either gave up or caught some sex charges. Did you read about his porn-induced xray vision powers?
 
pokepoke420 said:
Let me give you my experience with meeting a girl on Facebook.

She randomly messages me and says Hey you're cute what's up... And we had some mututal friends, and we talked for about a week. I find out this girls a total whore, and I was 18 so I didn't give a shit. I go and bang her out no rubber only to discover a few weeks later I have the clap.

If you don't know what to say to her, than chances are you wouldn't know what to say in person, either.. Making the situation extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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Well, point of your post is "don't bang girls without condom", not "avoid girl that you know from facebook".
I got impression that you are sending wrong signals to MountEdenDubstep.

So MountEdenDubstep, my advice is 'go-and-get-it' ! :)
 
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