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I want a child...what about you?

due to personal memories i don't usually associate the idea of family with anything purely positive - my relation to 'family' is ambivalent at best -- and yet lately I have been thinking about having kids quite a bit. seems it would add a purpose to life that i can curently not see. as if the universe was saying 'hey man, here's yer life, no go add some meaning to it' - going full circle. but i still have some doubts. what would that purpose be? to love and to share, to care, to encourage my kids to be (true to) themselves... and to do it better than my parents did I suppose
 
eras3r said:
oh, and i am not trying to conceive felix. :)
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ah well, gimme a shout if so. i just need to look at a chick to get her up the duff.

but that's a whole journal entry in itself. :o
 
I've been wanting a kid since high school, lol. I would love to play sports with a little boy (or teach him friendly mischief). If I had a girl, she would probably be a tom boy... Having a girl might be tough. My little sister breaks my heart all of the time (she's getting into dating...) I'm not ready for kids yet, though. Hopefully in a couple of years when my life is a lot more stable. I move too way too much now.

I also almost always see myself raising a kid by myself for some reason.
 
I intend to have one or preferably two, once I can afford it. :/
 
Yea I want a kid or kids one day. I know I'd be a good dad I'm pretty good with kids and helped raised my much younger brother. Plus how tight would it be to make a person that is half you. That's some shit to trip out on, for real.
 
Yeah I constantly think about having a kid. I'm in no relationship and haven't been in one for a while. The good thing though, my best friend just had a baby 9 months ago. So I get to play with her all the time, but don't have to worry about the other things that parenthood brings. So that's great in the mean time.
 
bow-viper1 said:
I think that's BS. Having a child is ALL about feeding your own ego.

You want power over someone, someone who will look up to you, and someone to carry on your genes.
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prior to conception, sure. your ideas are all about you and how having children will benefit YOUR existance; but it doesnt take long at all to realise that your children arent infact yours. theyre their own person with their own dreams, desires and personality; and your simply gracing their presence and there to provide for and care for them.

...kytnism...:|
 
kytnism said:
prior to conception, sure. your ideas are all about you and how having children will benefit YOUR existance; but it doesnt take long at all to realise that your children arent infact yours. theyre their own person with their own dreams, desires and personality; and your simply gracing their presence and there to provide for and care for them.

...kytnism...:|
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To a varying extent that changes often over time.

How individual is an infant? It eats only when its fed, it wears what mommy puts on it, and it goes where people take it.
How individual is a small child? It eats what its served, it wears the clothes given to it, does generally what its told, learns its values and ethics from its mentors (usually parents/teachers/older kids)...

Children have to assert themselves and build their own lifes, after they have absorbed much from their parents(guardians) while under their control(care).
 
I just got great news that my brother and sister-in-law are having a baby :) <3

I am going to be an uncle! :)

I am so happy for them, also I admit I am a lot excited for myself...I can't wait to play with the baby.....it will be so amazing I think to watch this little baby grow up!!!! :)
 
:) first up congrats S_S on ur news of soon to be uncle.... always better as nephewes or nieces... u an always give em back!!
all i can say as far as kids go is i got one biologicly, one that i help look after like my own. as a young father i could have easily shed my responsbilitys there and fucked off, i no many that did.... my thing is i cant understand how. the muinuite my daughter came into this world she was wiped and wrapped, i cut the chord, and she was placed in my arms and tha little shit looked @ me and tok ahold of my little finger with her little hand... i dont think i willl ever experience a feeling so divine. to no that little life is in ur hands and u have to guide it theres nothing quite like it=D
now there grown up more there nothing but shitheadz at times... still luv em though... speakin of whici i gotta go now.. destruction of house by these luile bastards is imminent:|
 
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