nearjat
Bluelighter
Yeah this situation is no fun, you just have to let them know you want none of it. Even if you do like the attention (which is totally natural and ok) you just have to use your brain and cold shoulder the chick.
bros always come before hoes amigo - and this situation should be no exception.
read a great quote on selfishness the other day:
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
- Oscar Wilde
i just described my reality, my perspective. idgaf if you don't agree.
of course, i'm not the one making gross assumptions and personal characterizations based on such a thing. bad karma what?...
Now I, as always, must reevaluate the integrity of my friend, and wonder if he is the man inside i thought he was, or if he is just seeking a false, utopian reality.
reading the inner thoughts of people who treat other people like possessions, services, or goods, really creeps me out.
why does any and all contact between a man and woman have to be deemed sexual? or with some ulterior motive?
why even ask the question? tell the girl it makes you uncomfortable when she enters your personal space, enough said. if it makes the situation "weird," id say to reevaluate the stability of those whom you call friends. if your friend holds anger inside himself that his girlfriend's attention loses focus from him for a moment, well, lets just say id never vote for that guy as emperor of the world.
I tried so long to show my friend that she is the perfect example of not being able to tell the difference between "I love you" and "I love everything I get out of this relationship" and he chose to grow apart from me. He wasnt comfortable with my perspective on his otherwise utopian world. Now I, as always, must reevaluate the integrity of my friend, and wonder if he is the man inside i thought he was, or if he is just seeking a false, utopian reality.
I'm getting the vibe the OP is considering it. DON'T DO IT. You said yourself your friend fell hard for this girl. It would be so shitty to give into this.
lol hi hyrollerGreat advice as usual!! I agree!! So fukin funny.
Id laugh if you cold shoulder this girl and then she likes u even more. Typical.