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I miss my ex.

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kayladelmo

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I dated this guy for a couple of months, but we had previously been friends for about a year. I ended things with him about three weeks ago because I didn't feel like I was ready to committ to being with anybody. I still care about him. Right after I ended things with him, he said "I want you to know that I got this girls number the other night and we almost hooked up, but only kissed. Sorry. I know you get jealous." I assumed he was trying to make me jealous so I asked him if he was trying to make me jealous. He said no, but he literally could not look me in the eye and it just felt like I caught him red-handed. It was so stupid, but I let it go because he can do what he wants.

Literally three days later, he posts pictures of himself and this girl and how much he cares about her, etc on his blog. That really hurt me but I never said anything because he's free to do what he wants. But it still hurt. I assumed he moved on and so did I. But yesterday he texted me telling me that he missed me, and that he refuses to be in my friend zone. I told him I couldn't be his friend while I still had feelings for him. He told me not to lose those feelings(?) until I'm ready to be with him. I said I'm taking care of myself right now, & whatever happens, happens. Right after that text convo, I look at his instagram and he was posting pics of him and the girl he's seeing.

IM JUST CONFUSED. Why text me if you've apparently moved on? What do you want from me? This is like the first time I've been in a relationship as an adult, so it's weird. I know I need to just let him go but his behavior is pissing me off and making me jealous.

I don't know what I'm exactly asking of you guys, but if anybody has been in a similar situation I'd love some insight. His behavior just confuses me. Thanks for reading.
 
Yeah, he's playing games, trying to make you jealous, wanting to get back to you for breaking up with him, whatever. I'm not sure what else to say. It is immature, yes, but don't let it bother you. You chose to break up with him.
 
I agree with Llama, he's leading you on and trying to mess with you.


Don't let him win, move on girl-frand, ditch that zero and get yo'self a hero!
 
Stop checking his blog or whatever source he's providing these photos. Unless you want to take him back as your boyfriend. Even still, I think that I would have trouble trusting him after this behavior. You're better off without him.
 
I'm just gonna reiterate what everyone else is saying. He's trying to manipulate you into making you jealous --> getting back with him. Don't play along with it. My best advice is to cut all communication/contact with him for a while, until you've at least started to move on. Don't check his blog, facebook, twitter, whatever, don't ask about him...just do everything you can to get him out of your head.
 
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