Hello all,
Ive been in a relationship for 2 years and its been amazing, we have out ups and downs like all relationships but everytime we argue she tells me to leave and go home to your family who are 300 miles away, also my mum has MS which is allways playing on my mind, deep down ive known i allways needed to come home and look after her because its only right i do help out, she hasnt got any body else like a partner or many friends apart from my 2 brothers who are very busy with children and work so i want to help out so we can all help.
Ive mentiond befor that my girlfriend should move with me but each time we speak about it she refuses point blank to leave her own mother and family, we had another petty argument which ended with her to saying go be with you family ect, i said i will and said to her is this what you want because as soon as leave this house i am commiting to going to my mothers , she said yes so i left.
I am absolutly torn up about the whole situation but it isnt my feelings i care about, i know il get over this and 6months down the line i will be ok, whats getting to me is how badly this is effecting my ex partner who is begging for me to come back and said she will do anything to have me apart from move here with me and leave her mother and family, i she has allways been pretty unstable with depression and im fearing this will send her over the edge, she has allready been saying she dosnt want to live anymore and im worried she may hurt herself, ive msgd her mother to let her know what she is saying but i just feel so bad knowing how bad im making her feel.
Am i being selfish and cowardly because thats what she keeps saying and i am so worried about her but i have to come and help my mother, she would never leave her mother and family where they all have eachother where as my mother has just us 3 sons.
Ive been in a relationship for 2 years and its been amazing, we have out ups and downs like all relationships but everytime we argue she tells me to leave and go home to your family who are 300 miles away, also my mum has MS which is allways playing on my mind, deep down ive known i allways needed to come home and look after her because its only right i do help out, she hasnt got any body else like a partner or many friends apart from my 2 brothers who are very busy with children and work so i want to help out so we can all help.
Ive mentiond befor that my girlfriend should move with me but each time we speak about it she refuses point blank to leave her own mother and family, we had another petty argument which ended with her to saying go be with you family ect, i said i will and said to her is this what you want because as soon as leave this house i am commiting to going to my mothers , she said yes so i left.
I am absolutly torn up about the whole situation but it isnt my feelings i care about, i know il get over this and 6months down the line i will be ok, whats getting to me is how badly this is effecting my ex partner who is begging for me to come back and said she will do anything to have me apart from move here with me and leave her mother and family, i she has allways been pretty unstable with depression and im fearing this will send her over the edge, she has allready been saying she dosnt want to live anymore and im worried she may hurt herself, ive msgd her mother to let her know what she is saying but i just feel so bad knowing how bad im making her feel.
Am i being selfish and cowardly because thats what she keeps saying and i am so worried about her but i have to come and help my mother, she would never leave her mother and family where they all have eachother where as my mother has just us 3 sons.
