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I just need to post Vs. wisdom, beauty, and baggage.. here hold this bag and ponder.

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I do not like the smell of wet dog at all.. I do however have an extreme attraction to women with dreads and freckles and the celtic eye's<3 so if any beautiful lady fits this description please post here or PM as soon as possible=D
 
neversickanymore said:
I do not like the smell of wet dog at all.. I do however have an extreme attraction to women with dreads and freckles and the celtic eye's<3 so if any beautiful lady fits this description please post here or PM as soon as possible=D
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This made me giggle. I haven't seen any lady with freckles or celtic eye but ill point them in the future if that helps
 
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my best friend well i asked if she would be my girlfriend but she is pretty ill at the moment so she wants some time to think and i don't know if this is a good thing or not i've never loved a woman the way i love her i was wondering if anyone had any incite as too if she likes me in a way she would want to be with me or if she just wants a good friend it's confusing as all hell but her not saying no made me very happy i always never wanted kids or to get married but i could see wanting these things with this woman in the future which is totally insane to hear myself say but she is perfect in my eyes... beautiful, caring, funny, smart, and we have so much in common it's like we grew up together even though i only met her in high school about 10 years ago and i've always wanted her to be with me but either me or her had been dating someone else at the time and now that we are not i had to ask but does it even sound like she feels the same way
 
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It sounds like she's a little confused to. Just give her some time to work it out for herself. Let her bring it up when she's ready and don't try to force her to talk about it. That doesn't mean you should forget about it and never mention it again if she doesn't bring it up, but give it a couple of weeks.

Good Luck though :)
 
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Maya said:
This made me giggle. I haven't seen any lady with freckles or celtic eye but ill point them in the future if that helps
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Sorta a lady from my dreamz, but for real she has been in my dreamz or minds eye forever.. here is a way to think about it.. when you think about it have you had the picture of a specific person in your mind since almost before you can remember.. but as you aged this person aged as well, someone you have never seen but when you think of who would be your ultimate love or perfect mate this persons just always pops up.. only they seem to age with you.. i guess that freckled celtic girl is has been with me as long as I can remember.. some day.. * shakes head and chuckles a bit* some day rite..
 
^ I know I personally hate stuffy dates! It's too much work and I don't like feeling as if I have to be all proper, and I love doing outdoor things.

The best day that I ever went on involved us riding quads together on a pretty long trail in the woods, then stopping at a lake we found and just talking/laughing and joking. Then we went back to his place and he cooked burgers on the grill, made potatoe salad, etc etc.

Then I had this one horrible date where we went to a "surprise" place. This is an different guy than mentioned above, just to be clear. Well the "surprise place" was this fancy stuffy overly expensive restaraunt where everyone was dressed up. I had asked him a million times what we were doing and he said "it's a surprise". So I dressed how id normally dress, which isn't fancy- IIRC my outfit was jeans & a white fitted v-neck tshirt with sandals cause it was summer. So not only did I feel uncomfortable because I was WAY underdressed, but the food sucked and was overly expensive and I hated trying to act "proper" the whole time.

tl;dr -- make sure you clearly know what the girl likes/doesn't like before the date. If she likes fancy and you end up doing something outdoors, it won't go well, and vice versa.

Sorry. That was long.
 
neversickanymore said:
Sorta a lady from my dreamz, but for real she has been in my dreamz or minds eye forever.. here is a way to think about it.. when you think about it have you had the picture of a specific person in your mind since almost before you can remember.. but as you aged this person aged as well, someone you have never seen but when you think of who would be your ultimate love or perfect mate this persons just always pops up.. only they seem to age with you.. i guess that freckled celtic girl is has been with me as long as I can remember.. some day.. * shakes head and chuckles a bit* some day rite..
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Reading this I can now officially tell that you are a very romantic guy <3. I know what you mean though by that and I too hope that I will grow old with someone. Not sure though if there really is a perfect match but I know for sure that there is someone really meant for us.

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^ I know I personally hate stuffy dates! It's too much work and I don't like feeling as if I have to be all proper, and I love doing outdoor things.

The best day that I ever went on involved us riding quads together on a pretty long trail in the woods, then stopping at a lake we found and just talking/laughing and joking. Then we went back to his place and he cooked burgers on the grill, made potatoe salad, etc etc.

Then I had this one horrible date where we went to a "surprise" place. This is an different guy than mentioned above, just to be clear. Well the "surprise place" was this fancy stuffy overly expensive restaraunt where everyone was dressed up. I had asked him a million times what we were doing and he said "it's a surprise". So I dressed how id normally dress, which isn't fancy- IIRC my outfit was jeans & a white fitted v-neck tshirt with sandals cause it was summer. So not only did I feel uncomfortable because I was WAY underdressed, but the food sucked and was overly expensive and I hated trying to act "proper" the whole time.

tl;dr -- make sure you clearly know what the girl likes/doesn't like before the date. If she likes fancy and you end up doing something outdoors, it won't go well, and vice versa.

Sorry. That was long.
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This made me smile =D I remember my first date was so awkward and the funny thing too was I didn't know that it was a date already because I was so clueless because I thought he asked me out just to hang out. I was 16 years old hahhaha! Then he was trying to hold my hand and I was like "Uhhm what are you doing?" and then he said "Are you serious, I asked you out for a date." Then I laughed hard after that and I was laughing because I was clueless that he asked me out for a date. He got offended after and we ended up splitting the bill lols not that I wanted to be treated anyway but yeah that's how it ended
 
Maya said:
Reading this I can now officially tell that you are a very romantic guy <3. I know what you mean though by that and I too hope that I will grow old with someone. Not sure though if there really is a perfect match but I know for sure that there is someone really meant for us.
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thanks I like a little romance, but not cheese ball romance.. the sick shit shit, like instead of having a big to do all planned with all the cliche romantic shit.. some time I like to just swoop a lady up and send smiles ear to ear all weekend, by surprising her with a weekend filled with all the quirky weird stuff that she finds amazing and romantic, all the idiosyncrasies that she thought I had no idea, or she was never ever going to let me know (talk to a younger brother for those ;) or could care less, or didn't take the time to figure out.. you know a weekend just about all the things that make her her and that make her tick.. now that right there is romantic for sure.


But having fun is where its at for the vast majority of the time

And right i will probably meet her some day and she will be as gorgeous as I always imagined.. but we will be as incompatible as oil and water..
 
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i hate myself idk what i should have done but asking my bff to be my gf doesn't seem like such a good idea now that she wants to wait to talk about it later i mean yeah she is sick just had surgery so i can see how something like that might be a bit much to discuss in her current state of body and mind but it just seems like the way she talked to me about it which wasn't much it really seems like she just want's me as a friend and that is all the love she has for me is the love of a close friend and i of course i love her as a friend but i also fell for her when we first met each other i instantly thought she was pretty and koo and it grew from their but i had a fiance at the time and she had a bf we just reconnected after a few years of no contact a little over a month ago and we hug kisses on the cheek say i love you all that that would be expected in a friendship with someone of the opposite sex you really care about but i keep thinking to myself maybe i should have never asked her to be my gf and settled for one night stands or trying to find someone else that means anywhere near this much too me i want her to be with me forever but i'm not stupid enough to come out and say something like that i don't want to scare her away for good she just means so much to me i don't know if telling her how much she means to me is a good idea cause if i didn't feel that way i'd be a bit uneasy hearing that from one of my best friends
 
Well you have to be honest with how you feel right? Do you think giving her more time would help? She might still need time to think about it as like you said she just had surgery and need time to recuperate. I would wait it out until she feels better and then you can sit down and talk to her about your feelings. I hope it works out for you two <3
 
i really want to be her bf but i don't have a friend as caring and loving as her at least at the moment so i really don't want to mess things up i already asked her if she would be my gf and that i didn't want my question to mess with our friendship but since every time i see her she avoids it kinda like i never asked and we still kiss on the cheek hug tell each other we love each other so i'm not sure how she feels about being my gf and for me this isn't at all about sex i just need her love it's what i want above all else right now but she is pretty and i would i'm sure have a great time making love with her i just don't want to scare away the most important woman in my life
 
Just leave it be then. Give it some time and just let it be. You have already told her how you feel and if bringing it up again will make her feel uncomfortable then hold it off for now and find the right moment. You can't really force someone to be with you if they are not ready right? If you are enjoying her company at the moment that's what matters and try to see if you can hold back your feelings until the time is right for you to be together.
 
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