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I ate his ass but I think he's embarassed (I'm his girlfriend)

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Julianabanana

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So I got really stoned with my boyfriend (as per usual) and we ended up having intercouse twice before I decided to give him oral. After that, we were on the verge of falling asleep when I got super aroused out of nowhere and started playing with his asshole using my fingers. I eventually had him fully awake and I made him get on his hands and knees and I started licking his asshole and eventually ended up sticking my tongue in his ass while holding his balls and dick. I had never eaten ass and he had never had anyone eat it. It was one of my favorite experiences and I loved having his ass on my mouth and face. He fell asleep again before me and I was still so horny from eating his ass that I wanted to do it again. This morning I was still pretty horny from the night before yet he was acting very awkward. I know he liked it however since right after he came he told me I was so hot for doing it. I have no idea as to why he is deciding to act like it didn't happen. I for one loved having him in that position and eating the fuck out of his ass. I would do it again but I don't know how to bring it up to him? Or if he would be up to it without the feeling of needing to smoke weed and get high.
 
For some reason, men can sometimes link pleasure from anal stimulation to homosexuality. Despite there being no connection. Also, being in the position he was in- hands and knees, asshole exposed- is a vulnerable position that some men feel uncomfortable in. I am male, and am happy to have whatever sex my girlfriend wants including rimming, but I am generally dominant sexually and do not overly enjoy being in more submissive positions (unless in same-sex situation) in heterosexual intercourse. It is not arousing or sexual for me.

There's also the whole fact that an asshole comes in close proximity to odious susbtances and, as such, has a hint of shame attached to. Probably few people want their partner to know what their asshole smells like. For me, I like rimming both doing and receiving, but I only feel comfortable doing it after I have showered (as both recipient and rimmer). I would really not feel comfortable having my ass eaten first thing in the morning.

First time my ex-GF did this to me was utterly mindblowing. It was passionate and utterly hot. I did feel kind of weird about it. Got over it though. :)

I had a difficult experience with this ex-GF in that I did it to her and found a tiny ball of toilet paper on my tongue. The horror! That was the last time I did it to her outside of a shower. :|
 
lol toilet paper on the tongue would be pretty gross

I had a Serbian gf that used to like licking my butt hole

Didn't like kissing her after, though, nor did it feel real good imo
 
It was honestly a first for me. I thought eating ass was kinda gross but for some reason it just so happened to-- well, happen. But we are very comfortable with each other and we take turns being submissive/dominant with our sexual acts. I have always played with his balls and taint, I just ventured a bit further down lol. To be honest I would never eat anyone else's ass out. But I love him that much and his arousal and reaction is what I loved about it!
 
lol your awesome dont worry about it he will get over it and u will be stronger cuz of it hahahahaaha
 
swilow said:
For some reason, men can sometimes link pleasure from anal stimulation to homosexuality. Despite there being no connection. Also, being in the position he was in- hands and knees, asshole exposed- is a vulnerable position that some men feel uncomfortable in. I am male, and am happy to have whatever sex my girlfriend wants including rimming, but I am generally dominant sexually and do not overly enjoy being in more submissive positions (unless in same-sex situation) in heterosexual intercourse. It is not arousing or sexual for me.

There's also the whole fact that an asshole comes in close proximity to odious susbtances and, as such, has a hint of shame attached to. Probably few people want their partner to know what their asshole smells like. For me, I like rimming both doing and receiving, but I only feel comfortable doing it after I have showered (as both recipient and rimmer). I would really not feel comfortable having my ass eaten first thing in the morning.

First time my ex-GF did this to me was utterly mindblowing. It was passionate and utterly hot. I did feel kind of weird about it. Got over it though. :)

I had a difficult experience with this ex-GF in that I did it to her and found a tiny ball of toilet paper on my tongue. The horror! That was the last time I did it to her outside of a shower. :|
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rofl bro that is horrifying. What is even more scary to me is that she let you do it. No fucking way id ever let someone do that to me b4 a shower. Even still. Id probably rather want it in the shower. I've def ate some assholes after the shower though. Good times. We humans are truly hilarious creatures.
 
Yeah, humans are fucking bonkers :D Thing is, she didn't know. She was quite unclean, on at least one other occasion I could tell she hadn't wiped properly. Not the most arousing realisation. :\ :D
 
Swap the weed for some mdma if you guys really want to experience heaven.

But honestly, why feel pressured to talk about it at all? Some of the best stuff just happens naturally in the moment, and often discussing sex acts to death can make them feel more clinical than erotic. If you're that turned on again in the future, just go for it. Often times the problem is that such things are so pleasurable that you start assuming they will always happen when you have sex, and the sex may even feel bland if it does not happen. I have gone down this route with this topic before. I know it's difficult, but it's the kind of thing you at least want to try a "less is more" strategy with.
 
RedLeader said:
But honestly, why feel pressured to talk about it at all? Some of the best stuff just happens naturally in the moment, and often discussing sex acts to death can make them feel more clinical than erotic. If you're that turned on again in the future, just go for it. .
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If the guy is evidently uncomfortable, I think talking it out is vital. Any sex act that one person really enjoys but the other is iffy about should be discussed. Just shoving your face in his ass isn't the way to go. Personally, I enjoy doing this but I have certain requirements before I will eat ass or be eaten; I'd be annoyed if my gf just did this without asking. I respect the idea of spontaneity in sex but it doesn't always play out in reality.
 
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So, this truly is a less is more type of thing! He recently asked me to do it again and I obliged. I of course did not just shove my face in his ass the first time. I've always done a bit of butt play with him such as rubbing my finger down there, I just never used my mouth. He told me he had also wanted to venture further down with me but he was just too scared I'd react negatively. It's now something we are both open to doing once in a while, which is lovely. He spread his own ass cheeks for me last time! So hot.
 
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