TDS I am terrified . Help.

[nuttynutskin]

A few days ago I was called up there went up and after a while he started his shit I tried to stick up for myself verbally and you know what he done? He called a woman in the area that I don't see eye to eye with. ( this is the woman that directed him to my house, she is his dad's partner) He said on the phone "she is here if you still want to beat her." And the only reason she did was because he lied to her saying I called her 'fat', I didn't! so I had to defend myself in a fight I never started or asked for. I'm okay got a black eye and burst lip but that's it. Tbh see if I thought I could get into his head and bother him then I would but nothing bothers this guy. Nothing. Pfft. So so fed up.

You've got to stop going there and putting yourself at risk. As long as you keep getting dope from this scumbag you're enabling his abuse.

 

[bunnyrabbitz]

Assuming you're a female (having a mental episode and kinda spacing in and out) arm yourself and move if you must. Best not to get in this kind of relationships with people. Let this be a lesson.

 

[sarajenni88]

So where I'm from if ur a woman and u are being abused they will put u up in a new apartment and help u remain safe. I looked into this and it's a nation wide program. So if ur in the US please call ur local department of health and human services and ask for response.

 

[Soliele]

TAKE YOUR CAT AND BEARDED DRAGON AND GET THE FUCK OUT, OP. You see now what he will do to you if you try anything, he controls your money, contacts, he is ORDERING OTHERS TO BEAT YOU! Pease please, please get out before he puts you underground. The fact that he knows people willing to harm you and will call on them instantly proves how much danger you are in, he would not even have to kill you himself.

Don't you have anyone in your life to stay with until housing sorts you out? These things can take time and you don't know how much time you have in this situation. Stash the animals and yourself separately if you need to, I've had times where people would take my cats but couldn't house me, you can picck them up when you're in a safe situation.

My heart is breaking for you, I wish I lived where you did just to be able to help. This man is crazy and i'm sure he will take you're life if "pushed" to that point, our have someone else do it, and he will forget about you that fast. I know it seems impossible for you to just leave, all your things are here, your friends, your home, etc.. But if you are dead you will have none of that and and who will your animals have then? They'll be abandoned or, worse, he may come fuck with them once he finishes with you, sadistic crazy people like this usually start out with animals, them "move up the chain". He may see it as just another way to harm you or a way to harm you more if he's already hurt/killed you. If you won't listen for your own safety, listen for theirs. You can only reason with reasonable people, we have established this man is batshit insane. Please just get away...