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I’m a trans woman - AMA

I've got a real dumb question:

Would your horomone replacement therapy treatment have any interactions (pos or neg) with any recreational drugs you're partial to?
 
@arrall: If you can't comprehend or, respond rationally to, the argument I laid out, obviously you are limited in basic understanding.


"Yes, there are a handful of wealthy trans people. That has nothing to do with the assertion I was making" ...this was EXACTLY the assertion you were making!

Listen, Arrall, I have no issue with you personally, or any trans person but there has to be a reasonable debate on these things (of course some are going to throw shit at you; uber-defence is expected (but trans people have existed for years/decades/centuries - the political tripe around it is bollocks imo & syphoning money via culture -wars & pharma) ... anyhoo.

I can criticise the bs pushed on me. Hope you awaken to it too, someday. 😁💜
 
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Axemancometh said:
Would your horomone replacement therapy treatment have any interactions (pos or neg) with any recreational drugs you're partial to
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I think that testosterone blockers (which I do not take) are more likely to have interactions.
Outside of that, while HRT anecdotally can increase sensitivity to alcohol, they don’t really interact with medications because the estrogen and eventually progesterone I am taking are the same as what is in a cis woman’s body.
Drugs like nicotine can affect the metabolism of oral estrogen though (as with the birth control pill)
 
Asclepius said:
@arrall: If you can't comprehend or, respond rationally to, the argument I laid out, obviously you are limited in basic understanding.


"Yes, there are a handful of wealthy trans people. That has nothing to do with the assertion I was making" ...this was EXACTLY the assertion you were making!

Listen, Arrall, I have no issue with you personally, or any trans person but there has to be a reasonable debate on these things (of course some are going to throw shit at you; uber-defence is expected (but trans people have existed for years/decades/centuries - the political tripe around it is bollocks imo & syphoning money via culture -wars & pharma) ... anyhoo.

I can criticise the bs pushed on me. Hope you awaken to it too, someday. 😁💜
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This thread is for asking questions, not political ramblings.

You are asserting that trans people cannot be scapegoats if there are a handful of wealthy transgender people out there.
That is akin to saying that immigrants cannot be scapegoated in America because people like Elon Musk exist.

If you want to rant about politics, take it to CEP.
If you want to ask a polite question about my experience as a trans woman, feel free.
 
Again, you're assertions are incomprehensible- you're making random points that make no sense, also, your previous post mentioned "right-wing" - so, it's a bit ridiculous to curb conversation that involves political reference when you were the one who had brought it up in your former post - you see the hypocrisy here?

Here's my question...what is the connection between Elon Musk & immigrants - why would someone use both, in a discussion about transgenderism? 🤔
 
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"think that it is functionally identical to the Anita Bryant-led gay panic of the 70s and 80s, as people like Contrapoints"

How and in what ways is it "functionaly identical"?
 
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Asclepius said:
"think that it is functionally identical to the Anita Bryant-led gay panic of the 70s and 80s, as people like Contrapoints"

How and in what ways is it "functionaly identical"?
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Take it to CEPS.
I'm not engaging with this here because we have enough threads being derailed with political bullshit as it is.
And maybe if you watch the video, it will answer your question :)
 
arrall said:
No, I have not.
I do not believe it is scientifically possible, and I actually do not want children.
I decided not to freeze my sperm because of the modest financial cost.
I plan to adopt if I ever change my mind.
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theres some neat recent improvements in womb transplant medicine actually, just for cis women currently ofc and highly experimental, but its fun to exist
 
question, since i imagine your rather familiar with psychoactive drugs, any drug expirience ever interact in interesting ways with being trans for you? i heard ket makes some people not have dysphoria for a bit etc.
 
asvarohn said:
so you define yourself by and make your happiness dependent on how others perceive you.
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if we’re being honest with ourselves we have to ask if we would get our haircut, wear nice clothes, speak eloquently, master useless talents, lose weight, do skincare and all this other shit if we lived on an island alone and all other humans on earth went extinct

who is it all really for? us or others?

like i don’t give a shit about other ppl but at the same time i never think im physically attractive enough…its very odd maybe i do care about impressing others even thought i know it objectively doesn’t matter
 
And it's entirely valid for it to be about not just ourselves, is an important thing i'd like to add.

We all need to be on the same team. If someone wants to be a certain way, then that shouldn't have an effect unless it was directly inhibiting one's ability to be part of the bigger whole.
 
Featherfall said:
question, since i imagine your rather familiar with psychoactive drugs, any drug expirience ever interact in interesting ways with being trans for you? i heard ket makes some people not have dysphoria for a bit etc.
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Well, I figured out I was trans from psychedelics as a teenager.
That’s the only thing I can think of right now.
 
arrall said:
This thread is for asking questions, not political ramblings.
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Arral first off thanks for the undertaking. You are taking a chance and laying it out and some of us mature minds will grow and learn, at least understand some of it better. Someone who has taken psychedelics and is brave enough to start a post like this. Moves us all ahead.

One of my most confusion questions. I have a friend in California that let his 13 year old daughter go through with the transformation. Now naturally I asked why not wait till 18? Then I got the whole body dysmorphia concept in that if she went through puberty as a woman it will screw him up for life after the transformation. I stopped my mind there and just left it.

I have friend that knows this friend and he asked me he is not sure whether to applaud our friends open mindedness or we should be taken aback. If it were our kid maybe we would have said make peace until you are 18. And then of course my wise ass self says I wanted a lot of stuff at 13 and never got. I had to make peace. But I admit this is out of my league in understanding. I know someone 13 is still developing in certain ways, how much do we step in?

My opinion as of this point the gender topic is a lot like psychology. Before say 1850 psychology did not exist. And we created a whole area of categorizing. I think with gender that is continuing. Then of course the question comes up is it true? And to that I would say man will make it true, like the topic of psychology. I use psychology as an area of mind space topics that we use today in medicine. I am curious as to where gender falls when it comes to medicine.

I want people to be happy. My largest question, looks like psychology is here to stay. Is that true of the gender topic?
 
JackARoe said:
Arral first off thanks for the undertaking. You are taking a chance and laying it out and some of us mature minds will grow and learn, at least understand some of it better. Someone who has taken psychedelics and is brave enough to start a post like this. Moves us all ahead.

One of my most confusion questions. I have a friend in California that let his 13 year old daughter go through with the transformation. Now naturally I asked why not wait till 18? Then I got the whole body dysmorphia concept in that if she went through puberty as a woman it will screw him up for life after the transformation. I stopped my mind there and just left it.

I have friend that knows this friend and he asked me he is not sure whether to applaud our friends open mindedness or we should be taken aback. If it were our kid maybe we would have said make peace until you are 18. And then of course my wise ass self says I wanted a lot of stuff at 13 and never got. I had to make peace. But I admit this is out of my league in understanding. I know someone 13 is still developing in certain ways, how much do we step in?

My opinion as of this point the gender topic is a lot like psychology. Before say 1850 psychology did not exist. And we created a whole area of categorizing. I think with gender that is continuing. Then of course the question comes up is it true? And to that I would say man will make it true, like the topic of psychology. I use psychology as an area of mind space topics that we use today in medicine. I am curious as to where gender falls when it comes to medicine.

I want people to be happy. My largest question, looks like psychology is here to stay. Is that true of the gender topic?
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18 is an arbitrary number. people can continue to change their self identity into their 40s in my experience. i wouldn’t even recognize the person i was at 28 and now im mid forties.

i don’t know enough about the physiological consequences of pharmaceutical transitions so i cant really comment on if its worth the risk to make a child feel better when they are young.

we drug our kids with amphetamine just to get them to behave and this has consequences too and nobody bats an eye because it’s expedient in the moment. wouldn’t it be expedient to also let them chemically transition to let the feel happy in the moment?

let’s not forget how much of the opposition to this is religiously based also. teenager boys are now using steroids and testosterone at alarming levels, neutering themselves for muscles; nobody is up in arms about it; it’s glorified in the manosphere, it doesn’t conflict with americanized christianity like becoming feminine does.

there has to be a balance between teaching self acceptance but also doing something if the child is suffering immensely due to their self image (ie gender dysohoria).
 
JackARoe said:
Arral first off thanks for the undertaking. You are taking a chance and laying it out and some of us mature minds will grow and learn, at least understand some of it better. Someone who has taken psychedelics and is brave enough to start a post like this. Moves us all ahead.

One of my most confusion questions. I have a friend in California that let his 13 year old daughter go through with the transformation. Now naturally I asked why not wait till 18? Then I got the whole body dysmorphia concept in that if she went through puberty as a woman it will screw him up for life after the transformation. I stopped my mind there and just left it.

I have friend that knows this friend and he asked me he is not sure whether to applaud our friends open mindedness or we should be taken aback. If it were our kid maybe we would have said make peace until you are 18. And then of course my wise ass self says I wanted a lot of stuff at 13 and never got. I had to make peace. But I admit this is out of my league in understanding. I know someone 13 is still developing in certain ways, how much do we step in?

My opinion as of this point the gender topic is a lot like psychology. Before say 1850 psychology did not exist. And we created a whole area of categorizing. I think with gender that is continuing. Then of course the question comes up is it true? And to that I would say man will make it true, like the topic of psychology. I use psychology as an area of mind space topics that we use today in medicine. I am curious as to where gender falls when it comes to medicine.

I want people to be happy. My largest question, looks like psychology is here to stay. Is that true of the gender topic?
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the issue is, it is sadly not a case of "just wait and see" but in many cases, either or, alot of trans people expirience rather horrific dysphoria due to their puberty which scars them for life, if they even make it through. Its not a question about something happening or not, something will happen either way. And as hrt/puberty blockers have indeed been in use for cis children for ages, to restrict trans ones from accesing them seems rather arbitrary. As for surgerys, they are a non issue, they are very very very rare for children and often difficult to get even as an adult, its also something you can wait a bit on. Unlike hrt in alot of cases
 
Featherfall said:
its when you make a penis into a vagina or the other way around or any of the many different variations that exists, its neat medicine if you care for the science behind it
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So it's nothing to do with your arse then?

I'm guessing that 'bottom' in this context is a euphemism like 'nether regions' or 'down below'?
 
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