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Hurting a virgin?

I imagine that having someone finger you as a woman is a bit like getting a handjob as a man; it's alright, but ultimately you could do it much better yourself. Head, on the other hand, is just top.

Dunno man, sometimes they're actually really good at it. :D But not this one. :\
 
duuuuuude get her fired up nice and slowly, even tease her to the point where she's begging you to fuck her.

WHat I mean is - try touching her EVERYWHERE but her pussy...working backwards: pussy, breasts, inner thighs - the pussy should be touched last, then it will be nicely engorged and drippng and she'll be easier to work with.

But yeah - then concentrate on her clit, and add your MIDDLE finger (to start off) in when she's ridiculously wet and try and work your way up the inner roof - hitting past the rough patch and finding a small smooth patch, which should swell up the more aroused she is.

Use your mouth! Much more forgiving on the pussy than fingers if you're a bit of a novice.

Also, ask her to touch herself in front of you, ask her to show YOU how she likes it, how she plays with herself - then you'll have a better understanding of how to get her off...and then you can do it quicker, or draw it out nice and long - just experiment, but get her to show you how she touches herself, and you'll learn infinitely quicker.

Then you can fuck her - I still haven't had a virgin, I always chickened out, I like more experienced girls, and I usually droop when a girl shows real pain...go for it!

Damn...I'm really horny now.
 
You need to do a little more foreplay and turn her on more, not to be graphic but in order for her to not be sensitive or tender down there, she should probably be wet first. You can do this without even laying a finger on any of her genetals. Or her chest, just caress her and whisper in her ear and use your lips. I would love that and that would definetly make me very comfortable and comforted and willing to partake in sexual activity. and whatever you do, dont force her to do anything, swith it up and try something new with her besides sex, be creative and honest with her. Make her comfortable is your best bet into making her feel good and ready. Try to ease her into a calm and relaxed state of mind

Goodluck
 
duuuuuude get her fired up nice and slowly, even tease her to the point where she's begging you to fuck her.

WHat I mean is - try touching her EVERYWHERE but her pussy...working backwards: pussy, breasts, inner thighs - the pussy should be touched last, then it will be nicely engorged and drippng and she'll be easier to work with.

But yeah - then concentrate on her clit, and add your MIDDLE finger (to start off) in when she's ridiculously wet and try and work your way up the inner roof - hitting past the rough patch and finding a small smooth patch, which should swell up the more aroused she is.

Use your mouth! Much more forgiving on the pussy than fingers if you're a bit of a novice.

Also, ask her to touch herself in front of you, ask her to show YOU how she likes it, how she plays with herself - then you'll have a better understanding of how to get her off...and then you can do it quicker, or draw it out nice and long - just experiment, but get her to show you how she touches herself, and you'll learn infinitely quicker.

Then you can fuck her - I still haven't had a virgin, I always chickened out, I like more experienced girls, and I usually droop when a girl shows real pain...go for it!

Damn...I'm really horny now.

This guy knows how to work it, lol
 
So I'm seeing this girl, before she met me she'd never even been fingered by anyone else.
The first time I did it at a moderate pace but didn't finger her for very long. The second time, I did intermittently it for over an hour but not particularly fast or hard, and afterwards she was "sore" there for a few days, though she was fine at the time. She even said it was painful to walk. Yesterday, after the pain had gone, I was fingering her again for just a couple minutes and when I picked up the pace she stopped me saying it hurt, and she's still in pain now. I used two fingers every time.
Anyone have any advice how I can stop this happening? I've never had a virgin before so I really don't have any experience with girls this sensitive.
i would ease up on the fingering, perhaps your going in a bit to deep pal.
 
I am a woman and far from being a virgin. I do not like to be fingered as no matter how gentle and how wet I may be for a few days after I'm sore. However, I do like my clit being stimulated with fingers. Some women just can't handle fingers inside their love box.
 
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