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How would you want your funeral to be held?

anna! said:
For those of you who want to turn your funeral into a doof/party - do you think you'll still want that if you die when you're in your 40s? Or 70s? I mean, you may very well, I'm just curious.
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yes i would, doof is a very big part of my life and is one of my passions (in case anyone didn't know that already ;) ) It's where i go to celebrate life, my friends, myself and the world i live in. When i discovered doofs i discovered me and i found my place in life. I plan on doofing until i physically just can't do it anymore. Having a "doof" as a funeral would be very appropriate and significant way to celebrate who i was and the life that i led :)

Its not like the club or rave scene in my opinion , its an actual lifestyle and you don't grow out of it but rather become more and more part of it as a community. I've spoken to people who have been doofing for ten years plus and asked them if they get sick of it and they say it just gets better and better with time. You get more and more comfortable with the doof "family"
 
I've always thought that a funeral was more for the people left behind then for the dearly departed. I really couldn't give two shits about how my family and friends choose to say their goodbyes [but I would prefer if the alcohol was flowing].
 
I don't see it as morbid....it's gonna happen to us all....death is an intergral part of life, more so than a wedding, or a party, or football match or anything....it think it's important to go out in a way that truly represents who we are, rather than what is expected of us.

That's what I was trying to say here.... *steps off soap box*
 
taliana: not really. much of the posting here has actually veered toward the positive side of things - celebration of life and all that jazz. as for me, i hope people are super pissed when i die (unlikely :)), but everyone else seems to be pretty positive about things.

i guess my sense of morbidity and morality is kinda skewed though: my dad used to be an undertaker :)

edit: yep, tnargus - exactly :)
 
^^^So cliche, If I knew I was going to die, then I would have the wake the week before, so I can party too. Regardless I'm having "Gone Away" by the offspring played.
 
Pleonastic said:
I don't care. I'm not really going to be actively involved. Whatever makes my folks happy (well as happy as you can be) would be fine.
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same.

And if you were to attending the funeral of a relative or a friend, would you honestly be putting on music and doofing away?

I know personally I'd be mourning the loss of the person and doing something to honour their time.
 
I have to agree with Haste, having been to funerals. It would be nice if we could have a laugh and not be sad, but unfortunately you are sad because you know you'll never see that person again.

The cool music is a good idea though! Just not sure I'd be dancing at a funeral.
 
I mentioned dancing, but not actually at my funeral.....i would like my 'wake' to be that way....like you said Haste, "doing something to honour their time", that's what i think people would be doing if they were having a great time dancing away for me....
 
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