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How to Spot an Ego maniac?

morpher001 said:
Airy fairy and hit and miss is the best I can say. Naieve, judgemental, indifferent, lazy and unhelpful would more accurately describe what I've seen, albeit from outside the room.
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You forget that since all of us have different chemistry (both brain and body) that there is no "fix-all" treatments for ailments. Patient A may respond better to medication X while Patient B who has the same perceived ailment may need therapy and medication X and Y. Unfortunately psychology and psychiatry is not an exact science so a guess, test, evaluate procedure is the most effective method as lots of ailments manifest in very similar manners such as bi-polar disorder and PTSD, and certain kinds of schizophrenia and schizoid problems, or the many different roots to people's anxiety disorders. There is also chemical imbalance related depression that can be treated with medications while some people have an organic brain problem causing depression which doesn't respond well to medication. What works for one doesn't work for some, and what works for some doesn't work for all.
 
while interesting this thread is so subjective it will run forever without a satisfying answer to the original question posed.


eggy maniacs are easy to spot but its your gut that tells you they only wanna hear about themselves.

a small smount of self obsession combined with charisma can be very fun. a large amount of self obsession with a disgusting personality is another story entirely
 
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^ psh my ego outgrew bluelight long time ago :P no ones ego or arrogance can top mine ;) only playing (or am i?)
 
not all of them are obsessed with their appearance. one such person who i can think of is this person who is in my class. he constantly says smart arse comments that flick a switch in your brain that makes you want to beat the shit out of him . points out flaws, and criticizes other people as well as criticizing their own work. i can see why he does these things as i study animation and he is utterly terrible at drawing ( worst drawer in the class , i was better when i was 8 ) and his other work that is done on the computers like 3d work is nothing special. he is lazy and messy , always leaves his bowls in class and in the kitchen often uncleaned . he also likes to tell me all the time ( and mostly me as im sure he can tell i havent had sex with many girls ) how many girls he gets with, txts girls send him and how he is the boss in the bedroom. i fail to see why women are attracted to such a narcissistic prick but most likely all the girls he does get with are drunk and probably complete sluts and i really dont understand why he is like this why and why he treats people this way.
 
Computer was down, finally had the chance to read this thread.

I against I, I think you feel me with what I am getting at. Good point to the person who mentioned listening to hear if they constantly talk about themselves instead of listening or asking about you. Ive dealt with this w my now ex and other people in my life, unfortunatly. Im not saying that if someone is preoccupied with their appearance, or cleanliness, etc. that it makes them an egotist.. I am talking about the those who truly believe the world revolves around them and they dont know any other way of thinking (not meerly arrogant) so they dont realize they are self centered. These people find a way to manipulate everyone they come across and use them as pawns to get ahead. Egotists ive encountered, dont come off as the "look at me!" . They dont come off as overly cocky, just confident, but deep down theyre veryyy insecure. In the beginning they dont raise any obviously blatant red flags, its a hard type to spot out and once you do realize youre dealing with an egotist, if youve come far enough with them that they let their true colors show, youve already gotten too close with them emotionally and have more to lose... which is why im asking if anyone else has encountered the type and knows of any warning signs to look for from the gate b4 its too late.

They come off as great people, everything looks good on paper, but as I against I said if you have been loved by (or have loved, even as a family member or close friend) someone with narcissistic (not by DSMIV definition) its terrorfying when you realize this person was not who they claimed to be. I did some googleing and apparently this type is very dangerous to be with, prone to becomming psychologically and physically abusive. They will convincingly pretend to be in love, they will pretend to have feelings, they will pretend to care about others, but at the end of the day they are utterly incapable of caring about anyone at all.
 
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