Water, pee, coffee and sandwich breaks are great, but if you get home at 10pm and need to get up at 9am and you have sex for 5 hours and maybe want to have a bite to eat together and maybe even the odd conversation - you're talking 3 hours sleep. And in the initial stages of a relationship that's fine, but if you have other things in your life apart from your partner (highly advisable) this just isn't practical. I'd say an hour-give or take including foreplay for mid-week sessions is pretty good for most of us who need to sleep at night an juggle other priorities. This means 30 mins of actual fucking. I can have multiple orgasms and stay nice and wet for ages, doesn't mean I want 5 hours marathons more than once in a while... and I would take a loving bf who lasts 30 minutes over an ex (who is always an ex for a reason) who allegedly lasted for hours... but what would I know, I'm just a (sex loving) woman giving a woman's perspective 
OP - this is only bothering you because you let it, you need to develop some emotional resilience and find a way to stop obsessing x
OP - this is only bothering you because you let it, you need to develop some emotional resilience and find a way to stop obsessing x
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