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How often do you masturbate with the "aid" of pornography??

How often do you masturbate with the aid of pornography?

  • > daily

    Votes: 18 23.7%

  • > a few times a week

    Votes: 27 35.5%

  • > once ( - ish ) a week

    Votes: 16 21.1%

  • > sporadically ( every couple of weeks )

    Votes: 5 6.6%

  • > hardly ever

    Votes: 5 6.6%

  • > never

    Votes: 5 6.6%

  • > I am saving myself for marriage

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    76
  • Poll closed .
just now.
Because what was I gonna do?
I'm sitting here stumbling through the sexuality topics.]

But there's no body to talk to. so. yeah.
 
ugly said:
just now.
Because what was I gonna do?
I'm sitting here stumbling through the sexuality topics.]

But there's no body to talk to. so. yeah.
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Great Scott, why did I not see the sexuality topic on stumble before!
*adjusts her topics*
 
fapping to porn = not saving yourself for marriage? wtf....

that option should be removed dont even make sense... its not sex?
 
uTranceMe said:
I find the opposite true. Better orgasms when thinking about someone I've had sex with or thinking about someone I'd like to have sex with.
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Totally dude, if i imagine a shag i've had it's much more arousing than some weird bukkake or an old whore saying "fuck my hole" over & over...
 
Heh pretty much daily but I can see pics of people who I find hot who are fully clothed and that aren't necessarily porn or smut and I'll get aroused and get off to them.
 
i try to fap before meetings because i dont lose my swag when i talk to girls. if i dont masterbate b4 i meet a girl i have sex on my mind, if i do fap i think more about a relationship.
 
idk man i go through phases.
Ill go through a phase where i'll jack off more than 5 times a day all to porn.. now i'm going through a phase where i jack off probobly 3 times in a week.. without porn.
Last night i jacked off to porn for the first time in forever. Porn is always great, but its always great to take a break from it for a while.
Usually when i jack off to porn a lot in a day, i do it without getting aroused first. Ill play a video from spankwire and casually get aroused, and not even get a full erection. That phase is just a boredom phase i guess. I jack off to quell my boredom.

This phase i'm in now i don't think of sex or jacking off until i get horny and aroused out of the blue. I won't jackoff until i randomly get aroused with a full erection. then i just close my eyes and think of the times i had sex, or of girls i know that i would love to bone. And when i jack off these times it somehow feels better.. especially after coming down on adderall when i can only get half an erection, but when i come i come for like 15 secs and it feels amazing.. looking forward to doing it after i come down tonight l0l, can't get laid tonight cause i can't get a full erection till tomorrow morning
 
I find my imagination alot more arousing, although as i'm getting older I have started to use porn more just to get the old boy to stand to attention.

(I would like to state for the record that despite how this post made me sound, i am in fact a 20yr old with no erectile problems ;))
 
attempt4 said:
I find my imagination alot more arousing, although as i'm getting older I have started to use porn more just to get the old boy to stand to attention.

(I would like to state for the record that despite how this post made me sound, i am in fact a 20yr old with no erectile problems ;))
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lmao, me too 20 yr old no problems. But I know what you mean. When I'm not sexually aroused even in the slightest, and i want to orgasm and get that feeling, i just through spankwire up and get some reverse cowgirl clips moving and there ya go
 
attempt4 said:
I find my imagination alot more arousing, although as i'm getting older I have started to use porn more just to get the old boy to stand to attention.

(I would like to state for the record that despite how this post made me sound, i am in fact a 20yr old with no erectile problems ;))
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LOL

I'd like to get there asap, porn has caused that to not be enough, and that's pretty fucked up.
 
Well I dont watch "porn" very often when I masterbate,
but I do watch the movies me and my girlfriend made, if that counts as porn (;
 
I used to look at porn every day and pleasure myself. Sometimes a few different times a day, even when I was in sexual relationships. My current GF is not only amazing in bed, but she also dislikes me looking at porn. It makes her feel like she is not good enough, and that I need or want to look at other women.

I explained to her how this is NOT at all how I feel and how porn is just something to look at, but she doesn't like it. SO, I do not EVER look at porn anymore. I mean, we have sex virtually all the time, and I don't really need to.

She doesn't mind if we watch it together, but it just makes her feel inadequate for some strange reason when I watch it alone. So, because I love and adore her, I have stopped looking at any pornography at all.
 
dose pics and videos that you have made w/ your SO count?.i feel bad looking at porn if im really, truely in love w/ a girl, thus the only way i can comfortably masterbaite is by home made videos and pics (and maby her panties if she has good hygine)
evean the i try to wait for her so we can pleaser eachoth better(fuckin cock blockin' opys.)
but if no girls in my life..daily
^^^^^^the bad ass chaos. i belives in self sacrifice in a serios relationship
 
No, none of that (pics(different kind of visuals), personal homemade (that's you getting turned on by yourself - all good) vids, and cool story bro ^ ) counts - just straight up internet/DVD porno.
 
it took years for me to realize that masturbating to porn is a very self-defeating thing to do. The main reason why: it's not real. You're masturbating to a fantasy. In the real world, the vast majority of girls are not that super hot. It really does distort reality. It really distorts how things REALLY are.

Try masturbating for one month WITHOUT visual images. In fact, cut down masturbating to once a week to once every two weeks and see how your overall life changes.
 
i've tried it many times. quality of life did not improve. your post sounds ridiculously pompous, so can you explain to us mere mortals?

why don't you extrapolate about what kind of change you mean? i've read about sexual energy and the like (briefly) but don't know how to utilize it practically. can you be specific?
 
The big question today is... Does the desire for sex always lead to suffering? The answer is, Yes! But the reason may surprise you.

The Buddha in everything he said about sex implies... The activity of sex will never ultimately satisfy the desire for sex.

Now this is a real bummer if you think about it. You can have sex a 1000 times, and want it a 1001. You can be 90 years old... Blind and cripple... Still want to have sex, and not be physically able to. You will never get rid of your sexual desire by having sex. In fact, it seems the more sex you have, the more sex you want.

I think sex is a lot like hunger... And to be honest with you, I'm so tired of being hungry. I have been hungry every day of my life. I'm hungry in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening. Think of all the time and money I could save if I gave up eating!

So what if tomorrow, I get up real early and eat as much as I desire, and anything I want. Whatever looks good, I'm going to eat it and keep eating it, until I am so full and satisfied, I will never want to eat again.

Well, if I were to do that what would happen? I would wake up the next morning and still be hungry and sex works the very same way!

You might be saying to yourself, "Well Kusala is a monk, and monks don't have sex, so maybe if I choose celibacy I won't have to suffer."

I wish life were so easy!

The people who choose a celibate lifestyle ('desire' not to have) suffer in a different way from people that choose to have sex ('desire' to have). But all people (monks too) suffer when it comes to sex, if they have desire.

The only way to have sex and not suffer, is to have no desire to have sex. It sounds like a 'Zen Koan' doesn't it? To end our suffering we need to end our desire, our craving, our thirst.

When a Buddhist does end his/her desire in Nirvana, would there be any reason to have sex simply for pleasure???

The problem with sex according to Buddhism... Is not the activity of sex, but the desire for sex. The sexual desire of a human being will never be ultimately satisfied through sexual activity.
 
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