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How much sex is too much sex?

queenbee1127

queenbee1127

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Mostly directed towards the fellas...

I know its hard for guys to have multiple orgasms, and you need a refractory period after banging, but how much would be TOO MUCH sex in a day, week etc...I mean, to the point you're either in pain or just plain uninterested.

Also, I'm talking relatively sober - not on some crazy meth binge.

I always love to go multiple rounds, and honestly, I could fuck until my legs fell off but after two times or so my guy calls it quits.
 
When I was in my early 20's there was no such thing as "too much sex", I honestly could go all day and not get tired of it.

Now that I'm in my mid 30's, I'm pretty much spent after round 2.


 
Is too much sex in a day a thing? Yes you need a rest between rounds but that does not mean that you have to fully stop being intimate - cuddling, kissing etc are a great way to keep in the mood until your ready for the next round.

When he's done, get him to get you off a couple of times.
 
I don´t know, three times a day, everyday?? How long can you maintain a good sex performance and how often you have it would be interesting to know your maximum and you girl´s too!
 
I can't even remember the last time I had a partner who wanted sex more often than I did.

After two sessions in a row, my guy is basically like my dick hurts, I'm exhausted and there's no more jizz - I'm done. He will get hard and let me ride him at that point, but he's not into it and there's no finale.
 
itsonlyme123 said:
Ding ding ding ding, he's out for the count!

Ye same here mate. Although you shouldn't really have to go past round 2 once youve had 20 years of practice.
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I'm confused by your answer, it's not a case of having to go another round. It's a case of wanting to. Whats better than two great rounds of sex - three or more?


queenbee1127 said:
I can't even remember the last time I had a partner who wanted sex more often than I did.

After two sessions in a row, my guy is basically like my dick hurts, I'm exhausted and there's no more jizz - I'm done. He will get hard and let me ride him at that point, but he's not into it and there's no finale.
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If his dick is hurting - are you using lube? If your looking for a longer session maybe go easy on the guy for the first round or two? I know that sometimes if your partner is riding you (yeee Haaa) type of thing your dick can get a bit tender.

Switch to oral for a round? Get him to use his hands, or a toy? Are you into anal? (If not suggest it and I bet that perks him up - then pull out your toy and say no its for you :D)
 
no such thing as too much. As long as you have the time, energy, stamina and nothing else to do why not :)
 
Positions matter.

Is he on top alot? You can take turns with who is in charge.
 
We switch off a fair amount, so neither one of us is putting in all the work. I throw in some oral as well.

As far as lube goes, this guy makes me suuuuper wet on my own, so I've never really needed it.

Every time I've mentioned adding in a sex toy, I don't get much of a reaction. He isn't against it, but he's not really into it either. When we're at his place, I don't have much of a choice - it's not like I carry my vibrator around with me; and when we're at my place I just feel weird whipping one out if it's not something he's especially interested in.
 
Bearlove said:
I'm confused by your answer, it's not a case of having to go another round. It's a case of wanting to. Whats better than two great rounds of sex - three or more?
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If you do it right the first time why would you need to carry on another x amount of times? Don't rush it and have one good knee trembler where when you have finished you just wanna have a post coital embrace and go to sleep both totally satisfied and not needing to continue havine sex.
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queenbee1127 said:
We switch off a fair amount, so neither one of us is putting in all the work. I throw in some oral as well.

As far as lube goes, this guy makes me suuuuper wet on my own, so I've never really needed it.

Every time I've mentioned adding in a sex toy, I don't get much of a reaction. He isn't against it, but he's not really into it either. When we're at his place, I don't have much of a choice - it's not like I carry my vibrator around with me; and when we're at my place I just feel weird whipping one out if it's not something he's especially interested in.
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Sounds a bit selfish don't you think?
 
queenbee1127 said:
He's a selfish person in general. But even other guys I've been with tap out after two rounds or so.
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You need to find a balance and leave him in no doubt that you wanna feel satisfied. Try not letting him have sex with you until he's given you an orgasm. Make him make you feel like your legs are gonna fall off the first time.
 
It takes two to evaluate when sex is too much or if that is spoiling a couple or holding them together. It also depends on many variables. A little sex can be to much for certain people in certain age, the opposite applies in the same way..
 
Too much sex is why my husband and I share an open Marriage. My husband knows how much I love sex and is approving of my fuck fetish. He has close friends that we invite into our bedroom on a regular basis and have what we call party sex. When we have party sex we invite 4 or 5 of his friends over for a long weekend of fun adult sex play. Which means even after 3 or 4 guys have fucked the hell out of me as soon as someone pops a woody, I'm on it. If there is a hard cock around my legs are on automatic pilot and spread wide ready to take a cock again.
 
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