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how many people still live with their parents? or homeless or???

trainwreck45 said:
I tried going to the local shelter, it's full of people that try to bully the new people and steal everything you have! I woke to some a hole with his hand in my pocket! The other pan handlers are mostly selling dope to support their habit and if they get a few free dollars its a bonus! Don't stand near their area or else they will fight. This is a big nightmare and I'm not waking up from it. It's not easy by any means.

I live around a bunch of God fearing catholic Hispanics they believe they have a better chance of getting into heaven if they help the poor and less fortunate.
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I was nevrr in one of those shelters but it sounds really shitty man i hope things stasrt looking up for u asap.. reading about your situation takes me bback to when i was living in my two door.civic.not.fun!!!
 
Been homeless twice.... one time I live in a group home then when I turned 18 and my mom was out of county I went to live with her at a domestic violence shelter.....went to their transitional housing program....then became homeless again. However now I got us a two bedroom and it's almost 900 a month but I'm paying for it...she does help too but I get paid better and am going to college now as well.
 
^ that is such an incredible thing for you to do. Such a bold and mature responsibility for you to take on especially so young. Seeing posts like this is renewing my faith in humanity that we arent all so bad.
 
Thank you to you both. I do get mad at my mother sometimes but she's always been there for me and I know she needs me now so I'm here for her... I could live on my own but I chose to stick around. And I work for a company through zales... not anything major but I work full time now and ended up getting a good refund from college as well. I don't blow my money like kids my age and I pay bills. My mother helps with what she can but my ex stepfather broke her financially and other ways.. we lost literally everything but I'm trying to get her back up on her feet. Literally back in august we were living in at the quality inn but now in a two bedroom. We also got two kittens.... seems small but we lost all our pets and that was hard. However I guess all we can do is move forward now...
 
Awww. Im a sucker for animals (im a "cat" guy i guess you could say). Im sorry to hear you lost your pets :( take care of them kitties :) im sure you will. Just keep pushing on my friend. Ill pray for ya to my higher power (my hp sounds kinda like samuel l jackson when he "talks" to me so hes a badass).
 
Thanks again and I will do but really your kind words do mean a lot. <3 and yes I will take good care of them.
 
mid 20's and am under the roof of my fathers.

my mental health and drug use are of little problem at the moment so things are good. he knows i'm shooting and hasn't been harping on about it because i'm not a babbling mess leaving a trail of destruction behind me, every where i go.

dad's on a disability pension so he'd get pretty lonely otherwise if he were on his own - not saying this to cover up for still living at home. he's mentioned it to me and says he's glad to still have me here and to never feel pressured to move out. we live on acreage as well which needs to be upkept and he's unable to do that all himself.
 
i got a feeling that there will be less and less and less and less of leaving the nest, or returning. i know too many people hurting living on their own, or still living at home. it sucks.
 
elephantskin said:
i got a feeling that there will be less and less and less and less of leaving the nest, or returning. i know too many people hurting living on their own, or still living at home. it sucks.
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Yeah, this is so true and it's sad. Too be honest sometimes I think I shouldn't have stuck around but if I didn't I would have hate myself for it but eventually I will move on. I just hope to have someone with me when I go out on my own... a close friend or a loved one because then it will make it a lot easier. Before everything happened I was suppose to be moving out to live in Santa Monica with these roommates. My only family is on the east coast but I wanted to do it but shit happened so I didn't.... This one friend of mine ended up doing it and she loved California but was so homesick and said it sucked being by herself, so then she moved back. Sometimes I believe I could do it though, I think I need a getaway whether it be temporary or permanent.
 
I'm 20 and I just moved back in with my parents 3 or so months ago after 3 years living on my own. It's been fucking terrible honestly, in the short time that I've been back here, under their "supervision", I've had about $100 worth of heroin found and thrown out, been sent to rehab, overdosed, got caught with rigs and a million other items they consider contraband, had my phone and car taken from me, was forced to detox from opiates at the house for a week (hell, I tell you..), and was kicked out of my house to sleep on the fucking street. I've been allowed to return to their house but now I'm on literal lockdown - I am only allowed to drive to my intensive outpatient program and to AA meetings, and they check the mileage after every trip I take. They installed cameras in their room out of fear that I would steal something again, and I still do not have a phone. I guess it's keeping me sober though....for now.
 
I still live with my parents and I'm 23 and I hate it. They hate me, I hate them. They control my life 100% at the moment. I need to get out of this house but I don't have the money to support myself if I leave. I'm royally fucked.
 
^anonymous, sounds like my situation in spring of 2011. Maybe this is a sign that what you are doing is not working and maybe you should try something different. Im almost 9 months clean (heroin, meth, and mdma were my "loves") and i no longer have the issues you mentioned anymore. Cross over to "the dark side" and we can help you out :)
 
I'm so fucked up this dope is really 10/10.... felt it immediately. Thanks auto correct....
 
I was starting to get looney from shooting too many shards and my mom got tired of my moodswings when I didn't have dope so she kicked me out. I'm grateful she did now, but I was homeless in alaska for 8 months and then moved to la and was homeless for a year. Something finally clicked and I saved my money and rented a room and just last month I bought myself a car. I still shoot heroin but use in moderation and no more Meth. I work as an escort though so making and saving money isn't too difficult, but since you work for yourself you really have to push yourself to make more Money than to just float by on. Having money saved up really alleviates stress.
 
25 and still living with the parents. My dad is getting up there in years (78, although still really healthy) and my mom is a total nutjob/on and off drug addict, and they totally need me there. I'm really enjoying it, I'm at the age where I really appreciate all the opportunity I've and am truly grateful for it, and grateful for the fact that I can stay there while I finish up school.

I would have moved out a long time ago without some severe neurological problems effecting my sleep that kept me out of the world and made my life hopeless for four years (I'm being treated effectively and in remission right now), but now I've kind of come to terms with it (living with them, that is) and really wouldn't have it any other way. I do whatever I want provided it is respectful to the house, they do what they do how they would do it without me there, and they really don't want me to move out. We had such a horrible relationship growing up that I find it really nice to have some years where I put the past behind me and get along with them for a little bit.

I also work part time for my dad (formerly full time before I returned to college) on paperwork and not living here would make it a trillion times more inconvenient than it already is.
 
being homeless and this young is defiantly the hardest thing ive done so far in my life.
 
Still living in my car, was contacted by a very nice person here who I can only pm once every 180 minutes I'm in southern ca, it rained today, it usually doesn't get too cold till January so hopefully ill have a place to stay by then?
 
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Good luck w everything living out the car man... i just got outa detox todsy and if i fuck up agsin im out. I have a way i could blow ip to $500loose but its guaranteed id be caught and homeless if i did though lol... but i lived ib my car before too good luck dude!!!
 
trainwreck45 said:
Still living in my car, was contacted by a very nice person here who I can only pm once every 180 minutes I'm in southern ca, it rained today, it usually doesn't get too cold till January so hopefully ill have a place to then?
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What part of Cali are you in? The rain the other day flooded my room. I tried to message you but you need to delete your old messages your inbox Is full.
 
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