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How do you deal with a very small penis? Support and advice needed:

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Thanks for all the advice. It does help quite a bit after reading all this. And yes, that was me that posted in the nudie thread. Sorry about that, as I'm sure Ya'll probably would rather have not seen it. I just felt the need to do it to kind of make me feel better if that makes sense. I just think about it all the time. Constantly wearing shirts that are too big to cover my "bulge," constantly looking down when I'm sitting to make sure my bunching up jeans is covered by said over-sized shirt, I don't swim anymore because of the sticking swimsuit issue when you get out of the pool that I'm sure everyone knows about. I just needed the liberation if that makes sense. I've just been tired of holding this secret, which sadly is my deepest, darkest, in my head, and needed to let it out. I'll try all the suggestions given. Once again, thanks for the advice. It was truly needed.
 
venus_ said:
have you ever had a girl like me ??
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body to groin massage, followed by sensual kissing and slowly-building-up-in-speed cunnilingus for x minutes before finger penetration, and eventually penile stimulation.

There are a million ways to give an orgasm to a ladyfriend without having to use your penis. Your penis is definitely long enough. You have decent girth anyway...finish off the fantastic oral and manual stimulation with your penis and you're good to go. Or do it different. Mix it up. Be creative....most of all, be confident.
 
Another idea: Find a girl who also has confidence issues. Someone who might be afraid to take off her clothes for you but who you find attractive, regardless. Then imagine how happy she will be with you when she's naked and you let her know that you're into her. She will be thrilled with that, and with you, including with your hard cock. Wouldn't that take the pressure off for you?

But avoid sluts who just want to get laid. They will not believe any compliments you give, and shed their clothes without a thought so it will be all about the physical and not about the connection between you.
 
^ sorry but he's no longer a member so he can't reply.

(and NO we don't ban people for having a small endowment... ok, maybe we do)
 
You are just psyching yourself out thinking about having a small dick. Most girls talk a "big" game, but can't actually handle a dick longer than about 6", and the g-spot and clit are pretty much right there. You can reach them with fingers, so you shouldn't have a problem with your dick. Just be glad you aren't well-endowed, which can make sex impossible with people you love.
 
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^ sorry but he's no longer a member so he can't reply.

(and NO we don't ban people for having a small endowment... ok, maybe we do)
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Dam it I am such a curious creature, I went through his lasts posts trying to see what got him banned and although you said you dont ban people for small endowment such as his 4.5" length, I eventually figured you succumed to the green eyed monster and banned him for his fairly large 2" girth.
 
^ I thought only the cheap prostitutes flashed. I guess you learn something new everyday.
 
hun listen, most women dont care if its a little small. all we care about is if you know what to do with it. ;))
 
confidence is everything my friend. Women will notice the confidence you carry and that will aid in the bedroom aswell.
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This is very true indeed. I know the OP is no longer with us, but it's worth reiterating the point for anyone else worried about this issue.

It's no use feeling sorry for yourself and worrying you're inadequate. Forget about the size and just use it to the best of your ability and concentrate on being great with your fingers and tongue! I used to dread getting it out for the first time with someone, as I am really quite small, but all that anxiety just leads to bad sex.

If you forget about the size, use it as though it were massive and just generally remain confident, most girls are unlikely to really be too bothered. Sure, they'll notice you're small, but it won't be an issue at all.
 
It's all in your head

From what I read, it seems you are aware of this already...

Let me just tell you again, though. 4.5 inches is by no means small! I actually prefer smaller penises. The biggest I ever had was about 7 inches and that started to be too much. I actually refused to have sex with a guy who had a penis that was about 9 inches and VERY thick (2.5 inches in diameter?).

Some people just have body image problems. Sometimes they are brought on by the media (where everything is larger or smaller than average). Sometimes, some psychiatric issues can cause us to think that our bodies (or parts of it) are horribly deformed. If you just can't convince yourself that 4.5 is normal, and there is nothing to be ashamed of, talk to a doctor and see if you can talk to a psychologist.
 
I had a boyfriend with a very small penis and not a lot of confidence. The combination of the two was a problem. I've also had a boyfriend who was smaller than average who thought his junk could move mountains. We always were in bed.
Love what you have and enhance your positives. Learn great oral techniques and how to stimulate the G spot with your fingers.
 
Wtf. 4.5 inches is not 'normal' people. That is below average, statistically. However, most girls arent 'fussed'. Much like most guys dont give a shit/'arent fussed' by what kind of nipples a girl has. Of course we all have our preference, but we arent gonna say no because a girl has puffy nipples instead of small pointy ones. I cant believe i use to think my penis was small tbh. I look at it now and im like wtf.
 
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