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how do girls feel about touchy guys on E

mapleleaf

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I get really touchy feely when im on E. I go to my fair share of raves and whenever i lose my friends i just go dance by myself. whenever i see a cute girl i usually start to dance with her and sometimes i get pretty touchy. i never grab their chest or ass. a lot of the time if i can tell a girl is into me ill just let her make the move the first. a lot of the time girls grab my hands and rub them on their tits but they dont like it when i do the rubbing myself. anyways im just wondering how the girls in here would feel about a guy coming up to them and getting touchy.
if it depends on the person im the guy on the right in this picture.
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E is more tactile ... I guess if a Lass is on E then she'll be more responsive but then it's not really a good idea to invade peoples space unless you are invited. Common sense .. slowly slowly catch the monkey ;)
 
I'm a guy, and I abhorr random chicks coming up to me and getting all touchy when I'm pilling...

It just shits me to tears that they'd think I'm all into itjust because I'm on pills....
 
so you guys are saying you wouldnt want girls coming up to you and touching you while youre rolling.

sorry thats just wierd
 
Ive never been to a rave. People actually wear shit like that and suck on pacifiers? Haha.

I wouldnt mind if a (attractive) girl came up to me and touched me while i was rolling. I dont know how it is for girls though.
 
^Maybe I should rephrase.

I have no problems getting touchy-feely with a girl if we're both at an E party. But that's probably because at an E party, we're all friends and know each other. So that kind of intimacy actually means something. With total strangers it pisses me off because, as Swifty alluded to, it's just because of the substances we're on, and so feels very 'fake.'

If I take E at a rave, it's because I regard the music as the main thing that the culture is built around. So I want to just concentrate on building on the natural synergy between E and the music through the dance. I'll frequently smile at like-minded dancers and give them a knowing look. But when I'm in the middle of channeling the energies, building up the euphoria and working the experience higher, ever higher, few things piss me off more than having someone come interrupt me and go "Oh WOOOOOWW! You're rolling so haaaaaaaaaaard! Here let me run my hands through your hair and rub ice all over you." I know they mean well, but once I've gotten rid of them it takes quite some time to get back to where I was before they came and interrupted me.
 
i totally agree. 90% of a rave is all about the music and dancing. it actually makes you roll SO much harder if youre on a dancefloor dancing. im just saying when you need to take a break from dancing your ass off for 4 hours straight its always nice to makeout/feel up some cute girls. even if they are strangers. i mean it all seems so acceptable on E and thats all that really matters.
 
Look man, If you're both into it, then cool, if you're not, then don't, the best you can do is to be cliche about it and go with the flow... :|
 
There is only one girl that I ever felt comfortable around (although she was the one to approach me) while pilled. For almost 2 years now we have been seeing each other. I never even tried to make the first move.... it was all her fault %)
 
mapleleaf said:
I get really touchy feely when im on E. I go to my fair share of raves and whenever i lose my friends i just go dance by myself. whenever i see a cute girl i usually start to dance with her and sometimes i get pretty touchy. i never grab their chest or ass. a lot of the time if i can tell a girl is into me ill just let her make the move the first.

... I can't wait until the next rave!
 
no offence but your comments make you sound kinda sleazy.....its obviously sexual because you only do it to cute girls
 
His meaning of "cute" may be size 16 women that are 5 feet tall. Of course you're attracted to people who you think are "cute". That's the fun part isn't it, feeding that desire?
 
In the UK from what I've seen from going to commercial dance clubs/not so commercial clubs and raves no one on E acts like this. No one stands/sits around rubbing and touching and massaging each other anywhere I've been and if you randomly started doing it to any of the girls they'd tell you to fuck off or slap you.
 
im a girl...and i kno that if a guy was to come up 2 me while i was rolling and started touching me i wouldnt lik it very much so coz im one of those ppl that lik my space and in my own world wen im dancing...
 
Depends whether i find the male doing it attractive ;)
Don't get offended by random touching, because that's always going to happen with people drunk/pilling/whatever, and wasted people are amusing, so long as they get the hint and go away if i'm obviously not into it
 
swifty said:
I'm a guy, and I abhorr random chicks coming up to me and getting all touchy when I'm pilling...

It just shits me to tears that they'd think I'm all into itjust because I'm on pills....

Damn I wish that would happen to me!!
 
Well I don't know about you guys but I'm a complete male slut at raves. I'll make out with almost ANY chick when I'm rolling really hard as long as she is somewhat my type and attractive. I can't help it...but there are much worse problems to have than that.

Oh yeah but I usually make sure the girl is rolling as well and don't make the first move. I just let her know it's ok to make a move and see what happens.
 
If it's someone I know, I don't really have a problem with people being touchy unless it's truly sexual.
It's fun when the guy makes the first move once in awhile because then I know he's totaly into me, but I've always had fun making the first move. That way my guy knows I'm having a good time. It's always fun to get a bit crazy on the dance floor when rolling.
 
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