I won't advise you what to do except for this: listen to your body.
As for me:
I exercise fairly soon after I wake up, giving my body at least 30 minutes to get the blood flowing before I start.
I never eat until after I exercise. If I exercise very hard, I always drink around 0.5 - 1 liter of water - not too fast - after I exercise, and before I eat (to avoid headaches).
I feel much much better if I exercise twice a day, once at night and once in the morning. Sometimes I only stretch at night, but on the many days when I do at least 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes again later, I feel great all day.
(I get 10 hours a week of exercise, because it is very important to me!)
As for types of exercise, I love yoga, running, walking, swimming, biking, jumping rope, and weight lifting.
"the 7 big boys (deads, squats, pushups, pullups, bents, military's, bench's)" sounds like an amazing workout, though I don't know what "bents" are, and I worry that core strength should be emphasized more, so I would add situps, and something for my lower back.
If you do most or all of those regularly, you will probably be really strong.
It would be good to add some cardio, though, to make it more balanced, I would say.
I eat almost only vegan food.
There is no need to eat meat for health reasons, and you can easily get enough protein to build muscle eating just veggies, beans, and grains.
I talked about the quality and quantity of protein in grains in vegetables recently in
this thread.
I am slim but muscular, with around 5% body fat but almost average weight for my height due to higher-than-average muscle mass (as measured by some fucking cool machines they have at the gyms here in Japan).
I can squat more than my weight, and I can do 15+ chinups/pullups in one set (60 in a day), and 100+ situps, etc., so I am fairly strong as well as having reasonable muscle mass.
I love high-protein grains like quinoa, eat lots of beans, and snack on nuts and seeds, and I take hemp-seed protein 2-3 times a month after intense weight-lifting sessions, but I am not always vegan - I eat some meat occasionally when I feel that my body craves it.
If you want to avoid eating lots of fat, focusing on non-meat sources of protein is ideal.
Meat and beans and some grains and veggies have enough protein, but meat has lots of fat (and saturated fat, and cholesterol) as well.
Vegan foods have zero cholesterol, and most have little saturated fat.
So, I eat meat in careful moderation.
Finally, I find that it is best not to eat too close to bedtime. I try to stop eating at least 2 hours before bed, though 3-4 hours seems better. When I don't eat before bed, I feel clearer and more energetic the next day.
Good luck!!!