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how and when to tell a girl u have hep c

Hep C is blood on blood, It requires blood going into a cut or open sore, which takes the exact right circumstances to occur...Herpes requires much less to transmit...If you use a condom, the risk of contracting Hep C is virtually non-existent, considering it's extremely unlikely even without a condom....

Unlike HIV, there's virtually none of the virus that occurs in bodily fluids other than blood, such as semen....

There's still a chance of it happening, which is why...having unprotected sex is unacceptable without telling someone, IMO...
 
I'll reiterate what everyone else has said and answer before sex without a doubt, and if you guys are waiting a bit for sex then whenever the relationship starts to really become one...even if you aren't going to have sex for a while she should definitely know how she feels about the situation early on.
 
I know people who have Hep B, and some who have Hep C and they tell people while they are dating or getting to know the person before sex.
 
i would want someone to tell me straight away, and if i am honest it would put me off.

hepatitis (c) is really bad for your liver and i like mine too much.
 
There is no answer that is going to be the easiest. Telling nay girl that you have Hep C or any type of STD is going to be hard. But for her sake TELL HER! Don't hold back. There is a cure for Hep C. my Mother had it before she passed away, and she was taking a shit ton of meds for it. It takes a long time but eventually it will clear up. Talk to your doc about it! And make sure you tell her!!! If you don't tell her and you have sex with her and she gets it, that is illegal! And could end up badly for you!
Good luck
 
BlueHues said:
Do the same people who insist that someone should tell someone straight away if they have Hep C feel the same way about Herpes? Herpes is a lot more common, a lot more communicable and a lot easier to pass on...
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honestly herpes doesn't attack your liver (without which you cannot live) as far as i am aware. Hep C may be hard to transmit by sex but blowjobs and gingivitis may cause issues
 
itsabirditsaplane said:
There is a cure for Hep C. my Mother had it before she passed away, and she was taking a shit ton of meds for it. It takes a long time but eventually it will clear up.
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Yeah, uh... your mother was taking "a shit ton of meds" because there is no cure. Hep C can be treated, y'know, with a shit ton of meds, but it cannot be cured.
 
Basically, you tell her before you have any sexual contact. SPECIFICALLY any sexual contact that would transmit it from you to her. I'm *presuming* you can't get it from kissing (please correct me if I'm wrong), so that means yeah you can kiss her. BUT if you're doing anything more than that (specifically - oral, anal, or actual sex) then you NEED TO TELL HER.
 
Id bring it up in light conversation about medical stuff before you have any contact. like 'unfortunately my hep c has me at the hospital often lately'. If its an 'on the spot' situation things will get pretty awkward for both of you.
 
Yeah bro a lot of ignorant responses but whaddya expect on a public forum. Hep c Is a chronic condition people. It doesn't affect u for generally 20 years. Herpes is going to quickly give u sores within a year. Hep c less than 5% chance contracting sexually. Not advocating silence, but the passion for hr in some of u zealots is mildly irritating. And yes, I'm just mad cuz I have hepc. You guys probably do too I youre an IDU.
 
therealog said:
I have hepc. You guys probably do too I youre an IDU.
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whoa easy there, killer! Don't you mean... "You guys probably do too if you're an IDU and share needles" ?


Wobblier said:
Where a condom and then you don't have to disclose and rightly so it is no one else business but yours.

If the condom breaks you will have to disclose by law.

If you are living in Canada and some other countries with draconian views on STI's you will have to disclose before sex by law.
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uh... what? Are you sure that this is the law? "One does not need to disclose their contagious, potentially life-threatening infectious diseases unless the condom breaks..." ? Because that just doesn't seem to make much sense to me, and maybe you know more than I do, but I would think that one would need to disclose such a serious thing when such an insanely life-changing possibility exists, condom or no condom.
 
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tell her first night don't be scummy... unfortunately that's the only kind of chick u'll get telling the first night. Still..
 
I've always told my partner I'm clean, and then that's his opening to tell me if anything is up. You should definitely do it before you have sex with her, because it's just plain wrong to do if you know you have something that threatens her life.
 
The minute you think something sexual is going to happen you need to say, "I have Hep-C and we need to talk about this." Anything else is truly irresponsible.
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
Absolutely before sex. That shouldn't even be an option not to tell here. You can't get much more messed up than that not telling somebody you have a communicable disease before intimate contact.

I would be incredibly upset if somebody didn't tell me right away.. I'm talking first couple dates.
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This right here. My world would be crushed if my lover didn't tell me. You tell the person at the right time when you feel comfortable enough to bring it up. But just say it before sexual intercourse please.
 
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