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Hickies on Adults whats that all about?

Lol I know I see the argument, hickies do look stupid/ trashy and should be kept to a minimum for sure. Ignore my previous drunken rant.

Heh, I guess i did tear in there pretty hard, I just had one of those evenings where everyone was complaining at me about something, so I just wanted to rip into something. I could have gotten that worked up if someone told me they didn't like a song i do or something. Sometimes you just gotta flame up a little, my bad.
My brain works differently at 1am than it does when it's 9am... :\
 
RecklessWOT said:
Unprofessional my dick. I think that while they don't look 100% professional maybe, what are people supposed to do, stop having sex? Maybe its time to grow up, I understand it, but holy shit, what if her partner likes giving hickies?? What if it turns her on to GET them?? what the fuck is she supposed to do, say "oh no don't fuck me and get me off, I have to look good at work tomorrow, boo hoo"...? It's part of life and people shouldn't be so bitchy and fucking judgemental about it. Some people have more fun than others. Don't be mad just because you're stuffy and boring in your old age... doesn't mean everybody has to be.
Let me guess, you're one of those people who drives a Volvo and gives me a dirty look for going 10 over the speed limit when I pass your ass because you're going 30 miles an hour??? Yeah, let's all complain because people are getting laid... OH NO!!!
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L2R said:
hahahah, i assumed everyone got over hickies when they were like 16.
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agreed. i think if you're still marking your partner so others can see when you reach adulthood, it's a sign of immaturity and tackiness. with that said, since those that support it are jumping on the "if you don't like it you must be a prude" bandwagon - i like to be given marks and like to be left marks in places not so easily visible by the public. kissing and nibbling my neck is nice, but the spot i want my partner to suck is normally covered by clothing and a bit more south (and i'm sure he'd feel similarly).

if a co-worker came in sporting one, i'd definitely make a catty joke about it: "wow. were you attacked by a vampire this weekend?"
 
I didn't like the look of hickies in high school and still think they are unnecessary and cheap looking.
Scarves are a pretty accessory :)
 
What other people do on their off time is not my concern, unless they plan on terrorizing me, my friends, or my frickin' family.
 
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