hi cyber friends

[Masterofllamas]

just llama dude here postin in this thread.

wondering if someone could give me some "know if the girl likes me" tips.

Had 4 girlfriends, 5 or 6 if you count the not really girlfriend but we totally made out a few times.

sex with two of them.

not very skilled in this field

i have no idea what im doing half the time



I've been single for 3 years now. I've been getting lonely. Im super nice and friendly. Not gay (cause i know you were thinking it) jks
but really not gay.

whenever i feel like i should confess my feels to a girl. i dont get any kind of response. or a dodgy one at best. like forreals. wtfmengs

anyways. i just wanna see what other people have to say cause im too shy to ask or talk to anyone about this irl.

Thanks.

im 20.34 starting out this thing called life in america. so far not bad. lots of stuff to do though. its kinda fun.

 

[llama112]

Every girl is different. What one does to indicate she likes you is different than what another would do. Sorry
If you're 20 and you've had 4 girlfriends (sex with two of them) and a couple other girls you've made out with... that seems to be pretty normal?

Perhaps you're confessing your feelings "early"? Maybe you just need to take some more time.

 

[Tude]

If you're trying to figure out if a girl likes you, ask her. Not every girl is going to like you, it's a part of life.

Just curious, why do you keep denying you're gay? Nobody said you were, and there would be nothing wrong if you were!

Back to your question, what exactly are you saying to girls when you confess your feelings to them? A lot of times, it's not what you say, but how you say it.

 

[stormcharger]

I think you might be gay

 

[alasdairm]

an alternate approach, early on, is to not worry about whether she likes you or not - focus on letting her know how you feel about her.

alasdair

 

[bunge]

It depends aswell how flirty the girl is naturally.
My gf's sister for instance is very, very flirty to me but has told my gf (her sis) and their mother that its just because she feels safe because im with her sis and not about to jump on her.lol
My point being that flirty signals arent always thrown out by women to mean that they want ti have sex with you, it could be a little bit oi f fun and thats it.

 

[Factin]

Every girl is different. What one does to indicate she likes you is different than what another would do. Sorry
If you're 20 and you've had 4 girlfriends (sex with two of them) and a couple other girls you've made out with... that seems to be pretty normal?

Perhaps you're confessing your feelings "early"? Maybe you just need to take some more time.

Absolutely just take your time and don't be hasty.

 

[axl blaze]

it seems like you could be over-thinking things?

having four girlfriends and having sex with two of them is about average at your age, I wouldn't let this be a mental road-block, if I were you

instead of worrying so much about "getting" a girlfriend, just let your relationships pan out naturally. if there is mutual attraction there, get better at noticing that, and then make a move, when you're almost sure it won't fail