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Sorry to hear that melange <3 Do you have anybody that you feel comfortable talking to?
 
I dont know you but i am very sorry for your pain, it must be horrible.

My thoughts go out to you and your family.
 
I am so sorry for yr loss and the pain you are feeling. Please do not think about suicide as it is not the answer to anything. Your family have just lost one daughter so don't compound the pain by making them lose another child.
I know it doesn't feel like it now but you will feel better in time. My wife passed away 9 years ago and i thought that was the end of my world.But I stuck in there and now I am so pleased I did.
I really feel for you but stick in there please, yr sister would want you to live your life for her and yourself.
 
I'm so sorry melange. I couldn't imagine if either of my siblings died; I'd be a wreck. And we spent most of our lives at each others' throats (well, my sis and I at least).

Much love and strength to you and yours. And please remember that you can't follow her-- please don't try to. We're all here to listen if you need to talk, PM if you'd prefer.
 
Suicide seems like a reasonable solution to pain that feels like it will never end. But the pain will soon fade into joyful memories of your sister. You will definitely need time to recover but life always goes on with or without our loved ones. Stick it out mate and remember the good times you shared with her. Good luck and i am sorry you or anyone has to feel that.
 
melange I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot even imagine the pain you are going through.
I know this is a really difficult thing for you to go through and it must hurt like nothing else, but please believe that the sun will shine once again. Sure, it is going to be really hard for a while but then, with each day that passes it is going to get a little bit easier, and it will hurt just a little bit less.

Your sister would've wanted you to stick around and to live your life. Please think of her, and of your parents too, before you make any decisions.

If you need to vent/rant/offload any thoughts, please PM me any time. It will help to talk about how you're feeling so even if you don't PM me, please make sure you seek support from your loved ones and friends. Take care okay? <3
 
All my deepest condolences melange... I dont really know you, but know what loss feels like...
Hang in there hey, theres a whole community here behind you for support and whatever comfort whilst you go thru the process of grieving<3
 
I am sorry to hear that, we may not know each other but know this, you dieing will not help your family, but you living will. They need you. We all need you.
 
Oh sweetie..... HUGS <3

Be strong and know that you will always carry her in your heart. After the pain lessens I found comfort in sharing stories and pictures as well as when I do something good I always think of her and feel awesome because I did her proud.

I hope you can do that one day. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
I know this is a few weeks old but I wanted to say that I'm really sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what losing a sibling would feel like... Be strong--I'm sure she's with you. I'm not sure if you're into the whole counseling thing, but grief counseling can work wonders for some people. My thoughts && prayers are with you and your family. <3
 
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