What brought you to the site? Any drugs you have an interest learning about? There's also a social aspect here, if you're looking to just chat with people I would suggest checking on the various social threads in the forums. There's also The Lounge, please read the guidelines before posting and also explore around and see how/what people are talking about.
Oh the irony is real. I am also new here, just joined. I also live in N.J myself haha. Not sure what is going on with you but i hope it is aalll going well.