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NicksDad

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My name is "Ray" and I am the step father of one of your newer members, "iluvdaddy". While "Nick" likes to experiment he is a very sexual being. Please allow him the latitude to express himself. I would appreciate it.

I will rarely post on this site and I will never make comments on postings from others when it regards Nick. But from time to time I may ask technical questions regarding delivery or dosages because that's my interest. I will never get in the middle of a discussion Nick is having with others. This is his thing so I don't want to infringe on his pastime, and he will never get in the middle of something I am asking. We respect each others boundaries so this will never be a problem. I keep an eye on him at all times because of his sexual nature and because he's my responsibility. However, he needs to learn what the world is about and he's old enough to know better. I also ask that if you have a problem with something he may say or write, comment on or otherwise post, that you take it up with him and not with me. And conversely, if you have a problem with what I say, write or otherwise post that you bring it to my attention and not his. Again, he needs to learn about the world and all of you can teach him, no matter the consequence. I already know about the world so you'll find it hard pressed to insult me.

I will say this: Nick can be annoying at times because he types things in text speak or texting language. I suppose its just the way young people are these days. He's a straight A student even if he gets some of those grades my means some may find disturbing, but trust me he's extremely smart. He's just a little lazy when it comes to scholastics because some of them are too easy for him. He's also very athletic and you probably won't be hearing much from him now that he's back in school and doing other more scholastic things. I may be wrong though.

In the past we have been accused on other forums and blogs of being one person. This means alter egos or other similar things. I will not and refuse to address this issue with anyone other then the moderators of this site. To put it simply, when you have a child, under the age of eighteen then they will do things no matter what you do to stop them. They will find a way. I would rather know what he is up to then guess or assume, and since we are actively sexual together then this complicates things. Additionally, I would rather not hear from others regarding our sexual relationship unless I ask specifically because it's a choice we made together and has nothing to do with the rest of you. You may have similar experiences but again, these are yours to cherish or otherwise solve on your own.

Lastly, I may be opening a big can of worms on this next part but it is something that I would like discussion on. It also infringes on some of the things I just said. Please try to keep an open mind when reading it. I saw a closed thread regarding "Underage (girls)" that I may comment on by starting a new thread. There are many similarities in this post that also refer to gays. But there are some extreme differences because I feel that those differences are a direct result of how the gay community, at least in my observations sees sexuality. I would like to hear [your] thoughts and feelings when it comes to this issue.

Thanks again for giving us a place to share our experiences, in particular MDMA and Sextacy, and sexual issues. I've witnessed that most (99.99'%') of you have been very polite. I'm sure I can be the same with all of you.

Ray
 
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Hi Nicksdad, that is very cute the two of you are on here together. We all can respect that boundary of two related people being on the same website while retaining their individualities. Many of us are exercising this right now; whether it be an emotional or sexual relationship, friendship, or parental/child relationship. My mother has an account and although she rarely posts, she does give me my space and I give her space as well. It appears as though you guys have it mastered so carry on as such, and don't worry, you probably think it's more uncommon than it actually is--and that is especially sure for Bluelight.

So welcome to you :). I look forward to having you both on the site :). We have an awesome section called Sex, Love and Relationships that deals with a lot of the topics I think will be of your interest.
 
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