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Evolva

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Hi there
me and my girl are almost 4 years now and the quality of our relation is quite low we dont do much things togheter and also our sex life is not so good we barly doing it once a week
now latly ive been going out with my girl and she brought her old time girlfriend along with us we went to some movies and usually i never talk or comunicate with my girlfriend's friends cuz i dont like them
but this 1 we had good talking and shes intresting and few times she gave me some compliments that made my girlfriend jealos and worried
i sometime making skype calls using soundboards and i called her 1 time and she knew it was me and she talked to my soundboard and we had a 30 min talk that in few times got hot and after the call ended i was worried what will happend if she tell it to my girlfriend and i think she was thinking that my girlfriend and me tested her so 1 day after she told my girl about this call but never metiond that it got to some sexy talking only that she had a call from a soundboard and it was funny and when my girl confronted me about it i said it was a friend of mine and not me and she was ok with it
anyway my girl is worried about the whole thing cuz even touh shes 1 of her best friends for 15 years she knows that shes kinda sluty and have cheated on any boyfriend she ever had and that im her style.
now im thinking about her alot cuz i like her i like her personality and her looks and her big desire for sex unlike my girl but i wonder if thats even possible for me and her to have something considering that she is my girlfriend's best friend

how shoeld i approach her?

shoeld i try it at all?

hope for some inspiring comments:)
thanks
 
Don't.
You've been with your girlfriend for 4 years and now you're considering cheating on her with her best friend? What on earth has she done to deserve that?
I sincerely think that would be an awful thing for you to do. My ex cheated on me with a good friend of mine after we'd been together for 2-3 years and it absolutey destroyed me.
You need to address the problems with your girlfriend. Doing something like this will only make them bigger. And if you're most definitely noth appy with her, then you should consider whether it's a relatonship worth fighting for...but cheating on her with her best friend, no.
 
I'm a terrible writer, but that was really hard to read.

I don't see how this could possibly go well. If your not into your girlfriend break up with her before you do anything else. Maybe you could pursue a relationship with this other girl after the dust settles from the break up, but I wouldn't count on it.
 
im not looking for some random sex.
if i knew that me and her could have something then i would let my girl go and try and be with her friend
but i dont know how to find out without letting her suspect that me and my girl are testing her for loyalty
and worse thing is that if she turns me down then she will probably go to my girl and tell her that i flirted with her
 
I wouldn't count on you and your GF's best friend having a relationship. As you already stated she has cheated on every single person she had a relationship with so I'm curious to why your even interested. Those types of girls are bad news brotha. I also have to say if she would do this to your girlfriend she is a horrible friend.
Also, yes your gf can be testing you. I don't think that is the case though because you stated she got jealous about the way she was complimenting you etc. But, really just leave it alone.
 
me and my girl are really not getting along good
we are like a 20 years married couple
and we just used to eachother and i tryed to break up with her few times but we always get back
this situation got me looking on other girls and the past week i couldnt stop thinking about her girlfriend and what shoeld i do with the whole situation
im really confused this days =\
 
If you're so very unhappy with your girlfriend, then break up with her. But don't count on her friend being a good replacement afterwards.
 
Break up, and find someone else. I agree with all above posts. It isn't cool. I guess if it is somehow meant to be, you will find a way though. But it isn't something you should put effort into making happen.
 
Cheating is not the way to go. If you really don't want to be with your girlfriend, break up with her! I would recommend addressing your problems with your girlfriend first, seeing if you can work things out. If not, then break up with her and find someone else.
 
If you have issues with not being close to your girl any more talk to her about it!

Don't go fucking up and cheating with her friend, you will lose everything you have. And if you think you'll end up with a relationship with the bestfriend, remember, she had no respect for your old relationship if she sleeps with you, why would she have respect for any relationship you might have with her. You'll always be a cheater in both of their eyes.
 
Pagey said:
Don't.
You've been with your girlfriend for 4 years and now you're considering cheating on her with her best friend? What on earth has she done to deserve that?
I sincerely think that would be an awful thing for you to do. My ex cheated on me with a good friend of mine after we'd been together for 2-3 years and it absolutey destroyed me.
You need to address the problems with your girlfriend. Doing something like this will only make them bigger. And if you're most definitely noth appy with her, then you should consider whether it's a relatonship worth fighting for...but cheating on her with her best friend, no.
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i conquer. had the same thing happen to me, girlfriend of almost 3 years fucks my bestfriend. shit fucked wit me fashure n its just not right.
 
Evolva said:
im not looking for some random sex.
if i knew that me and her could have something then i would let my girl go and try and be with her friend
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So, if you find a replacement you'll break up with your girlfriend? But until you do, 'she'll do?' That sounds so selfish and weak. If you don't like your gf, break up with her. Man up and stop being so self centred. Your girlfriend isn't there to comfort you until you find someone better. From everything you've said, the r/ship is probably best ended, so get some integrity and be honest with her, don't keep her around until you find someone 'better' just because you don't want to be on your own.
 
Evolva said:
Hi there
me and my girl are almost 4 years now and the quality of our relation is quite low we dont do much things togheter and also our sex life is not so good we barly doing it once a week
now latly ive been going out with my girl and she brought her old time girlfriend along with us we went to some movies and usually i never talk or comunicate with my girlfriend's friends cuz i dont like them
but this 1 we had good talking and shes intresting and few times she gave me some compliments that made my girlfriend jealos and worried
i sometime making skype calls using soundboards and i called her 1 time and she knew it was me and she talked to my soundboard and we had a 30 min talk that in few times got hot and after the call ended i was worried what will happend if she tell it to my girlfriend and i think she was thinking that my girlfriend and me tested her so 1 day after she told my girl about this call but never metiond that it got to some sexy talking only that she had a call from a soundboard and it was funny and when my girl confronted me about it i said it was a friend of mine and not me and she was ok with it
anyway my girl is worried about the whole thing cuz even touh shes 1 of her best friends for 15 years she knows that shes kinda sluty and have cheated on any boyfriend she ever had and that im her style.
now im thinking about her alot cuz i like her i like her personality and her looks and her big desire for sex unlike my girl but i wonder if thats even possible for me and her to have something considering that she is my girlfriend's best friend

how shoeld i approach her?

shoeld i try it at all?

hope for some inspiring comments:)
thanks
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dawg, why the fuck would you do somethin' shady shit laddat? c'mon man. I mean, it's all up to you. If you gon play dat game then by all means play it; just don't leave your main girl hanging when she deserve whole lot better. Hope you know what i'm sayin'. Though, if you must... den do it silently and deadly without her knowing lolol. it aint crime if you didnt get caught haha.
 
Instead of putting energy into pursuing another woman, you should put the same energy into fixing the problems in your relationship.
And if you don't want to do that, then you should end your current relationship so you are free to pursue what would make you happy.
 
footscrazy said:
So, if you find a replacement you'll break up with your girlfriend? But until you do, 'she'll do?' That sounds so selfish and weak. If you don't like your gf, break up with her. Man up and stop being so self centred. Your girlfriend isn't there to comfort you until you find someone better. From everything you've said, the r/ship is probably best ended, so get some integrity and be honest with her, don't keep her around until you find someone 'better' just because you don't want to be on your own.
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Agreed.
 
Dear jebus who I don't believe in give me strength to look into these peoples minds and not be altered by the horrors I see within.
 
this thread screams- justify my bad behaviour in advance.

leave your girlfriend if you dont like her anymore. it will hurt her less that sleeping with her friend.

then after six months you try it on with the friend or maybe find some other girl

is that joey grecko i hear a callin'?
 
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