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Have you ever picked up at a Rave/Doof party ?
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cAmmAc
Bluelighter
I've never picked up at a rave, and I've got no idea how to go about it, so it's really not worth the hassle - however - I did pick up on NYE when I *just* started peaking, and it was absolutely sensational. I just looked at this girl I was flirting with (and vice versa) and jumped her in the middle of the kitchen, and it was on for young and old for a good 20 minutes.
I lost all inhibitions and let loose, unfortunately for me she wasn't rolling, but it was still f*cking awesome having a chicky to cuddle and run my hands over for most of the morning while I was all touchy-feely.
.......so how do you go about picking up at raves?
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I think of my life as a series of sketches; each one funnier than the last
I lost all inhibitions and let loose, unfortunately for me she wasn't rolling, but it was still f*cking awesome having a chicky to cuddle and run my hands over for most of the morning while I was all touchy-feely.
.......so how do you go about picking up at raves?
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I think of my life as a series of sketches; each one funnier than the last
answer is no
although the first night dj kitty and I finally got together (almost 8 months ago
) we were rolling big time and as usual i was on the dance floor for majority of the night, anyway something made me want to go sit down on the couch next to dj kitty next thing I know we are absolutely squeezing the hell out of each others hands then arms and end up having this asphixating experience on the couch cutting of each others circulation just about for over an hour and yet not even the thought of a kiss came into our minds. wonders what it must have looked like to onlookers. When the club finished we walked around for nearly 2 hours and then we went and talked codshit at his house for ages and kissed only once. Even though we were covered in marks from where we had been just about cutting off each others circulation on the next day we have been together everyday since (although we choose not to cut off each others blood flow anymore
)
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'just wait until this song is finished then i'll go
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although the first night dj kitty and I finally got together (almost 8 months ago
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'just wait until this song is finished then i'll go
'dangermouse
Bluelighter
your first eccy kiss is the BEST.... phoar its fucking mind blowing ;-)
i cant pick up at dance events because i feel that anything i say will make me a sleaze (simply because i have sex on the mind ;-))
but when you get on the pills, or any other drug really, you concentrate on the music, or the vibe, rp which dj is playing etc etc and then sex becomes a subconcious thought and you come across not as a sex crazed bastard but just an ordirary guy...
girls be warned though, all guys are sex crazed bastards....
... and i bet you there aint anyone on here that will disagree ;-)
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..dangermouse..
.you've gotta lose it.
.to find it.
i cant pick up at dance events because i feel that anything i say will make me a sleaze (simply because i have sex on the mind ;-))
but when you get on the pills, or any other drug really, you concentrate on the music, or the vibe, rp which dj is playing etc etc and then sex becomes a subconcious thought and you come across not as a sex crazed bastard but just an ordirary guy...
girls be warned though, all guys are sex crazed bastards....
... and i bet you there aint anyone on here that will disagree ;-)
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..dangermouse..
.you've gotta lose it.
.to find it.
Decimal Dan
Bluelighter
No disagreement here dangermouse!!!
Damn - sometimes the truth really DOES hurt...
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BLUELIGHT BENEFIT PARTY
Featuring Bluelight's very own home-grown talent!
Saturday 20th January 2001
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Damn - sometimes the truth really DOES hurt...
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BLUELIGHT BENEFIT PARTY
Featuring Bluelight's very own home-grown talent!
Saturday 20th January 2001
Please visit this thread for the full details.
actually, last time i went to a rave i was the one who got picked up. rolling very hard, and with dark lighting, fuzzy thoughts and feeling too good, i let this guy get on to me repeatedly.
anyway, me and my friend thought he was really nice. he shouted us meth and we were all having the maddest time. then when morning came i thought we would leave it at that, leave on a high note, but somehow we ended up having coffee, me, this guy and my friend. then we ended up back at his house.
i was still pretty fucked, but starting to see how this guy wasnt all that great. in the light of day he wasnt at all goodlooking (not that that always matters). he smoked 2 TOKES of a j and became a complete fucking psycho. talking about conspiracy theories, not believing anything me and my friend said he went all quite and for ages me and my friend didnt notice since we had been talking for 6 hours straight. but then he would just blurt out with shit like "u r all full of shit" for no apparent reason.
he thought this other guy, a friend of mine i had been talking about throughout the night (with a totally different name) was a code word for him. he was like "i know who 'john smith' is, u dont have to pretend". he even said in this really immature stupid way "oh and i'm not 21, i'm 26!" in that stupid "naaa na na naaa naaaa" way.
anyway, he was complete slime, paranoid mothafuck who couldnt handle his pot.
so for that reason, even if i'm rolling, i'm going to make su.re nothing like that never happens again
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Our enemy of choice is ignorance
Our weapon of choice is information
anyway, me and my friend thought he was really nice. he shouted us meth and we were all having the maddest time. then when morning came i thought we would leave it at that, leave on a high note, but somehow we ended up having coffee, me, this guy and my friend. then we ended up back at his house.
i was still pretty fucked, but starting to see how this guy wasnt all that great. in the light of day he wasnt at all goodlooking (not that that always matters). he smoked 2 TOKES of a j and became a complete fucking psycho. talking about conspiracy theories, not believing anything me and my friend said he went all quite and for ages me and my friend didnt notice since we had been talking for 6 hours straight. but then he would just blurt out with shit like "u r all full of shit" for no apparent reason.
he thought this other guy, a friend of mine i had been talking about throughout the night (with a totally different name) was a code word for him. he was like "i know who 'john smith' is, u dont have to pretend". he even said in this really immature stupid way "oh and i'm not 21, i'm 26!" in that stupid "naaa na na naaa naaaa" way.
anyway, he was complete slime, paranoid mothafuck who couldnt handle his pot.
so for that reason, even if i'm rolling, i'm going to make su.re nothing like that never happens again
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Our enemy of choice is ignorance
Our weapon of choice is information
Millsy
Bluelighter
It happens everytime I play
nostalgic
Bluelighter
Oh yeah... At Rush Hour I was so fucked up I went for someone way out of my league (I try to avoid making a dick of myself)... Changed my mind, went for someone else... And then again, I changed my mind and went for the third girl that night...
I didn't get anywhere with any of them, but afterwards the one who is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of my depth came after me. I said no (the drugs were responsible for any attraction).
So I suppose, indirectly, I picked up at a rave... But didn't let it get anywhere
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wisest is he who knows that he does not know...
[This message has been edited by nostalgic (edited 10 July 2001).]
I didn't get anywhere with any of them, but afterwards the one who is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of my depth came after me. I said no (the drugs were responsible for any attraction).
So I suppose, indirectly, I picked up at a rave... But didn't let it get anywhere
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wisest is he who knows that he does not know...
[This message has been edited by nostalgic (edited 10 July 2001).]
I've picked up heaps in the past and it was fun, sure but lately it hasn't even crossed my mind, which is kinda the opposite of my usual
. Although I'm liking this change a whole lot more, so I'm gonna try and keep it this way as I've been having sooooooooo much fun
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BlackMagicWoman
Bluelighter
Hmmm...if by "picking up" you mean going all the way and actually having sex, then no, I haven't.....it's been by choice though....but I kinda sorta intentionally semi-pickup at raves now cos it stops me goin all the way and doin sumthin I regret.....sounds confusing I know, but lemme explain.....
Not too long ago I was out at an event and did the whole E-induced "oooh I am SO clicking with this random stranger" thing, like ya do.....I was feelin kinda frisky and after a few smooches the guy was like "soooo, how far do ya wanna take this??"....I didn't wanna leave with him right then cos I was so luvvin the music and dancin and all that, so we agreed to meet a few hours later when we'd had our fill of partying and were ready for, umm, other recreational activities....it felt really good, cos we kept runnin into each other and exchangin knowin glances and lil smooches, and I was thinking "kewl...I have somebody for later, meaning I can relax and focus on music and dancin now"......well, our meeting time came around, but by that stage my drugs were wearing off and I wasn't feeling as frisky anymore...I talked to him and thanked him for sharin my night, and we parted on good terms......the next day I thought about it and realised what a good night it'd been...I'd had somebody to share those nice emotional smoochy luvvy E moments with, but had kept my self respect by waiting til the drugs wore off before deciding whether or not to go further...and knowing I had somebody to go home with if I wanted to had left me free to just lose myself in the music most of the night...........sooooo, I kinda sorta intentionally repeated those actions at the next event and it turned out the same way, which was kewl........so now whenever I get really frisky from E at an event, I find someone to connect with, make plans for sex at the end of the night, knowing that I'll be free to focus on the music then and by the time sex time comes around I'll be less trashed and won't wanna actually let go of my morals and go through with it..........sounds nuts, but it works for me...and I'm kinda proud of myself for bein able to say that, as flirty as I may be, I've managed to resist sex since I've been in the scene (and no I ain't tellin ya how long it's been...hehehe)
Not that I have anythin against casual sex....I don't judge anybody in that respect, cos we're only human and we all have needs....but it's just not my thing at this point in my life (yeah yeah it's damn hard to resist sometimes though...haha).....and I think casual sex on drugs increases the chances of gettin hurt - it's way too easy to think somebody is really interested in you when they're trashed, only to realise they're not when the drugs wear off...........and, for me personally, I'm not sure I could handle it even if the guy was still interested afterwards....cos I don't really want a relationship where our first sex was drug-induced.....but that's just me....I'm just an old-fashioned romantic at heart...hahaha ewww way too mushy!!!
So yeah....haven't had sex from a rave, but I luv doin the smoochy thing with people I meet out and feel a connection with - some of those E connections are daaaaaaamn nice at the time.....and smoochin on E is super super super nice....big thanx to you know who for remindin me of that at DC Sat night
Not too long ago I was out at an event and did the whole E-induced "oooh I am SO clicking with this random stranger" thing, like ya do.....I was feelin kinda frisky and after a few smooches the guy was like "soooo, how far do ya wanna take this??"....I didn't wanna leave with him right then cos I was so luvvin the music and dancin and all that, so we agreed to meet a few hours later when we'd had our fill of partying and were ready for, umm, other recreational activities....it felt really good, cos we kept runnin into each other and exchangin knowin glances and lil smooches, and I was thinking "kewl...I have somebody for later, meaning I can relax and focus on music and dancin now"......well, our meeting time came around, but by that stage my drugs were wearing off and I wasn't feeling as frisky anymore...I talked to him and thanked him for sharin my night, and we parted on good terms......the next day I thought about it and realised what a good night it'd been...I'd had somebody to share those nice emotional smoochy luvvy E moments with, but had kept my self respect by waiting til the drugs wore off before deciding whether or not to go further...and knowing I had somebody to go home with if I wanted to had left me free to just lose myself in the music most of the night...........sooooo, I kinda sorta intentionally repeated those actions at the next event and it turned out the same way, which was kewl........so now whenever I get really frisky from E at an event, I find someone to connect with, make plans for sex at the end of the night, knowing that I'll be free to focus on the music then and by the time sex time comes around I'll be less trashed and won't wanna actually let go of my morals and go through with it..........sounds nuts, but it works for me...and I'm kinda proud of myself for bein able to say that, as flirty as I may be, I've managed to resist sex since I've been in the scene (and no I ain't tellin ya how long it's been...hehehe)
Not that I have anythin against casual sex....I don't judge anybody in that respect, cos we're only human and we all have needs....but it's just not my thing at this point in my life (yeah yeah it's damn hard to resist sometimes though...haha).....and I think casual sex on drugs increases the chances of gettin hurt - it's way too easy to think somebody is really interested in you when they're trashed, only to realise they're not when the drugs wear off...........and, for me personally, I'm not sure I could handle it even if the guy was still interested afterwards....cos I don't really want a relationship where our first sex was drug-induced.....but that's just me....I'm just an old-fashioned romantic at heart...hahaha ewww way too mushy!!!
So yeah....haven't had sex from a rave, but I luv doin the smoochy thing with people I meet out and feel a connection with - some of those E connections are daaaaaaamn nice at the time.....and smoochin on E is super super super nice....big thanx to you know who for remindin me of that at DC Sat night
Airwalk
Bluelighter
I'm one of those people that does the snogging thing at a Rave (albeit not very often as I prefer to dance, thats why I'm there). But on a couple of occasion when things did get a little hotted up I've pulled the pin. The reason for this is that I feel that I'm taking advantage and the chances of the other person getting hurt would be higher. Another reason is that I see trollers at Raves occassionally who are there to pick up and I just shudder at some of their actions, ie finding a trashed little raver and trying to use that to there own advantage.
Me thinks that if you find someone you are attracted to at a Rave then meet them straight and see if its real or not.
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"Have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moon light?"
"Well I have actually and it turns out that the devil is a real top bloke."
Me thinks that if you find someone you are attracted to at a Rave then meet them straight and see if its real or not.
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"Have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moon light?"
"Well I have actually and it turns out that the devil is a real top bloke."
KiTTyLiCiOuS
Bluelighter
Picked up... Hmmmmm ;0)
I've done this twice, poor fella's. If I find myself interested in someone, god save them, b'cuz I end up pouncing on them. I do some weird @$$ shit, eg. licking non stop. But when it comes to anything further then a bit of snuggling/pashing, I aint interested. I likes kissing on E, mm mmmm, cept the next day I always find myself thinkin..poor guy! ... I didn't let go of him! plus, its always a bit messy..
..So I end up feeling ashamed of my over-powering ways. ;0P
With having said that, I like to kiss, and cant say I wont pounce again. *reow*
beware the kitty ;0)
I've done this twice, poor fella's. If I find myself interested in someone, god save them, b'cuz I end up pouncing on them. I do some weird @$$ shit, eg. licking non stop. But when it comes to anything further then a bit of snuggling/pashing, I aint interested. I likes kissing on E, mm mmmm, cept the next day I always find myself thinkin..poor guy! ... I didn't let go of him! plus, its always a bit messy..
..So I end up feeling ashamed of my over-powering ways. ;0P
With having said that, I like to kiss, and cant say I wont pounce again. *reow*
beware the kitty ;0)
B
blufluffybunny
Guest
Yeah. This was a few years ago. I was with a friend of mine at The Globe nightclub, Perth. i was sitting upstairs, talking to my friend (we were both very farked) and I noticed this gal sitting next to me. She was absolutely STUNNING..obviously not a big clubber. We were wearing sneakers and shit, she had the tightest little dress on with high heals. Her name was AMBER! (If anyone knows this girl...please send me an email, I was so fucked I forgot to get her number!)
Now, I turned to her and asked her what was wrong..she didn't look happy. She told me she had taken her first pill and her friends had gone off to dance. She then said she had no idea what was happening. I talked her through it (smacky pill) then we went for a wander. We ended up behind the BIG curtain on the stage and well.... she was SO friendly. I think I fell in love with this Gal...she was so sweet, and goddamn sexy.. She was VERY naughty too..hehe.
AHHHH. Seriously, if anyone knows an AMBER, ask her about it. If she happens to say she remembers the first time she took a pill..please tell her to email me @
[email protected]!
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*Adventure, excitement, A Jedi craves not these things*
Now, I turned to her and asked her what was wrong..she didn't look happy. She told me she had taken her first pill and her friends had gone off to dance. She then said she had no idea what was happening. I talked her through it (smacky pill) then we went for a wander. We ended up behind the BIG curtain on the stage and well.... she was SO friendly. I think I fell in love with this Gal...she was so sweet, and goddamn sexy.. She was VERY naughty too..hehe.
AHHHH. Seriously, if anyone knows an AMBER, ask her about it. If she happens to say she remembers the first time she took a pill..please tell her to email me @
[email protected]!
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*Adventure, excitement, A Jedi craves not these things*
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
I don't really think any guy would complain if you pounced on them KiTTyLiCiOuS... Myself included
icantfeelmylegs
Bluelighter
I am Sooo going to have to agree with Tars at this point, Who would not want t be pounced upon. *grinz&winx*
Never Mind
Bluelighter
Well, I sorted picked up at a Rave, my first stage in fact.
We had kissed a couple of times before, but nothing further and then at Wild Things 2, we both decided that we wanted to be together, and so we kissed some more.
Now she's making me as happy as I've even been.
WE FIT
You know who you are!
BASS OUT
We had kissed a couple of times before, but nothing further and then at Wild Things 2, we both decided that we wanted to be together, and so we kissed some more.
Now she's making me as happy as I've even been.
WE FIT
You know who you are!
BASS OUT
De Quincey
Bluelighter
i had similar experience. a girl who i had known for about 18 months, and had spent quite a bit of time with. we knew each other pretty well and had kissed (while both very drunk) once before. i liked her a lot as a friend and thought she very cute.
then she appeared at Paul Van Dyk, on her first pill, and we just started kissing and it was SOOO nice... spent the night barely separated, and a couple of days after tentatively decided to hook up together.
now she and i are going very VERY well and i absolutely adore her
and kissing someone you really care about while you're both on pills is one of the nicest possible things in the world... and so are the hugs and the conversations... in fact everything about her is wonderful.
awwww......
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then she appeared at Paul Van Dyk, on her first pill, and we just started kissing and it was SOOO nice... spent the night barely separated, and a couple of days after tentatively decided to hook up together.
now she and i are going very VERY well and i absolutely adore her
awwww......
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