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Have you ever fallen in love while on Ecstasy?

This girl keeps texting me of funny things that happened between us, it makes me miss her :(

Try an experiment. See if you and her truly have a love connect outside of drugs. If that feeling is still there when you are sober with her then, by all means ----> go for it! Or you know what? If you wanna move anyways, then do it. Wouldn't do it for her specifically but maybe you will find lots of joy in that city regardless.
 
Well, I felt an emotional connection to a girl I had barely talked to before... that was 2 years ago, and after a LOT of drama :\ AND!! Court TV is online 24/7. I think I'm going to have to suck up my nuts and talk to her, considering she told me to fuck off last time.


Try an experiment. See if you and her truly have a love connect outside of drugs. If that feeling is still there when you are sober with her then, by all means ----> go for it! Or you know what? If you wanna move anyways, then do it. Wouldn't do it for her specifically but maybe you will find lots of joy in that city regardless.

Love IS a real thing... it's a hormone! MDMA causes massive amounts to be released that come out otherwise in breastfeeding or other natal care
 
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My wife and I knew of each other before we started doing MDMA for a few years. We had our first "connection" while on MDMA, I had done MDMA with other girls and never felt a connection like we had. I remember just falling in love with her right then and there, after a few dates we made it official, We have been together since May 19th 2006, and have 2 children and I love her more now then ever! So for the OP, I fell in love while on MDMA!
 
My wife and I knew of each other before we started doing MDMA for a few years. We had our first "connection" while on MDMA, I had done MDMA with other girls and never felt a connection like we had. I remember just falling in love with her right then and there, after a few dates we made it official, We have been together since May 19th 2006, and have 2 children and I love her more now then ever! So for the OP, I fell in love while on MDMA!


That's beautiful.

Update on my own personal life for those who care:


I got over her today. I had another absolutely incredible weekend you couldn't have found this in an academy award winning script, this was some true mission spectrum levels. Anyway; explaining it to everyone I had to send about 30 texts because I would max out the characters on my phone per text, she asked how it was and since it legit took an hour to write it all up I just copied and pasted it and sent it over to her.

Sent over like 5 and she replied with "Omg wow I cannot be bothered reading all of that right now", it just clicked out as fast as it clicked in when I fell for her; although I did hook up with a girl on the Friday when I was out of town and again this morning with a different girl.

Maybe my self-confidence has come back over the last two days because of these egotistical victories with attractive women; making me realize I don't need to stick around in a shitty situation like this.


Thoughts?
 
Have you ever fallen in love while on Ecstasy?
haha yeah, like every fucking time i take it. Some awkward mornings realising it was all the drugs when you don't even know the person you are in bed with :?
 
haha yeah, like every fucking time i take it. Some awkward mornings realising it was all the drugs when you don't even know the person you are in bed with :?

Aussie :( Smile !


Old friend just came around and introduced me to her new good friend she's been chilling with lately. She's awesome and really friendly, said she's coming to chill on the weekend when we all go out clubbing.

I am now even more keen for the weekend and its only Sunday night.

FUAAAARRRRRROUUUUUTTTTT.
 
Ecstasy will bring the lovey-dovey emotions and to answer your question no because for me the feelings are artificial and after waking up the next day, my true emotions are back.
 
Well, I felt an emotional connection to a girl I had barely talked to before... that was 2 years ago, and after a LOT of drama :\ AND!! Court TV is online 24/7. I think I'm going to have to suck up my nuts and talk to her, considering she told me to fuck off last time.




Love IS a real thing... it's a hormone! MDMA causes massive amounts to be released that come out otherwise in breastfeeding or other natal care

Well, yup. I hit her up and she told me to fuck off with balloons and streamers galore.


looks like it is bull shit.
 
Yep, that was about two and a half years ago. We live together now and have a dog. We've had some very rough times in between and almost have broken up. The last time we rolled together was just as magical as the first time, and that was nearly a year ago. We've been working through our problems too which is good. Who knows! It's certainly a helper. There's a difference between the sexual urge you get on E compared to actually falling in love. Granted, I knew her a bit before we rolled together, that night just kinda set things in motion!
 
Slight update in my personal life if anyone wants to know:

Talking to a nice girl lately, we were supposed to roll together last weekend but we didn't. My brain needs a massive break from consuming but I have friends coming up from out of town next weekend and they all want to get on, going to see what I can do to not roll because my brain and my body will love me so much for it because I've been taking it pretty hard over the last month, been probably the most incredible last few weekends of my life but I need to cut down or my serotonin receptors will be shot.

PLUR
 
It's possible... although, I believe the true feelings of love develop after the drugs wear off. I'm very attractive sober too, and I have game know how to talk/get girls. I'm not some loser relying on drugs to lower my inhibitions lol. That's why I stoped taking MDMA, MDA is much better for my underground rave lifestyle.
 
sometimes its just e induced infatuation and your not actually compatible, other times it's real and there's interpersonal compatibility while sober (which the intense roll launches into motion fast enough for it to take off whereas under normal conditions it wouldn't within the same timeframe). i have a tendency to get too attracted, the experience is very intense for me (i suspect im on the autism spectrum). i slept with a girl after a rave once and was convinced it would have worked out, unfortunately she had to leave the country not long afterwards. personally i haven't got beyond short relationships on e, but i know allot of people who have. a friend of mine met his gf when they where both on e, theyv been together over a year now. your certainly more likely to pick up with people when md is a factor.
 
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@Hapomen, people aren't losers for taking MD to break social barriers at all.

If it gets to the point where people *have* to roll every single time they head out just to talk to someone, then yes, true that is a bit beyond the borderline of compulsive, but you have to admit for the vast spectrum of people who have consumed in their lives, that MD has broken social barriers (permenantly in some cases) and has given confidence that lingers in millions of people to this very day, surely you must agree?
 
@Hapomen, people aren't losers for taking MD to break social barriers at all.

If it gets to the point where people *have* to roll every single te they head out just to talk to someone, then yes, true that is a bit beyond the borderline of compulsive, but you have to admit for the vast spectrum of people who have consumed in their lives, that MD has broken social barriers (permenantly in some cases) and has given confidence that lingers in millions of people to this very day, surely you must agree?

That's a very good point, I totally agree, if you have social anxiety, MDMA would be a perfect drug to help you out. I just honestly think taking MD as a way to find a lover, just isn't right at all, the emphaty is just too strong and then when you go back sober, it's just awkward if that girl thinks you are interested. I've had that happen plenty of times. As 90sdance said, you might get lucky, and find a true connection that will work out sober too... but most the time... it will fail and people will think of you as a player. (happened to me). This and other personal reasons I stopped doing MDMA and will only ever do it again in a close setting with my gf or something along those lines.
 
I agree with you here too; using MD to specifically and solely find a lover isn't the most noble of intentions that is a bit frowned upon.. just a bit..

Doing it to get loose and have a mad time, that's what it's all about :)

Very interesting to hear some of these stories how people have found their long term partners through MD, I haven't yet but I do have many years of my life left and a lot of missions to embark on, not in a real hurry for a long time :)
 
Falling in love on MDMA is a lie, seriously you can have the most amazing in depth experiences with nearly ANYONE
However using MDMA to become closer to someone you already have a relationship with is a different story.
 
seriously you can have the most amazing in depth experiences with nearly ANYONE

Yeah how good is it.

But
Falling in love on MDMA is a lie,
I have to disagree there, this was unreal, intensity in ten cities, I've only felt that kind of level for two people ever, yes wheile on adulterants we develop special feelings and relationships towards others but this was pure magic.
 
I am so happy that I happened upon this thread. I had my first experiences with it in only the past couple of months...With someone I have known for a really long time, who is older and much more experienced with it than me. We've been close for a long time, and I have certainly had a thing for him, but never really wanted to go there for whatever reason. We already shared a lot with each other, mostly him to me. I watch out for him and am a very loyal friend. In the past seven months things definitely escalated.
Then the rolling.
I don't really question how I feel. I realize that I wouldn't have felt this way this quickly without it, and would have been too defensive to let some of my guards down. I've just been concerned with how he might view it, because while I was seeing changes in his behaviour towards me, I saw much more, much more quickly after those experiences together. From what he had said to me I couldn't decide if he viewed it as being a real thing or a "its just the drugs" thing, just that it was a thing that would stick around. The fact that he KNEW that it would change some things makes it all more convoluted for me. We already had a bond before. So you can imagine how it feels now.

I suppose I could come out and seriously ask him, but for now some cards are being held close to the chest on both sides due to the awkward situations we are both in.
And I am also a coward.

In short, I'm really appreciating all of your opinions on this. I don't feel quite as silly!
 
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