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Have you ever done drugs with your dad/mom?

I dropped a joint on the table at my mom's condo once but since I was the landlord I said "my house my rules" and we all laughed. My niece and I passed it and mom took a hit but she didn't ever ask for another one. She waved off the pass. She knew I smoked but she never watched me do it. It was OK after that. Bear in mind this is a "Greatest Generation lady" who saw "Reefer Madness" in a theater. We all turned a corner that night.
 
My grandmother always wanted me to do pain pills and weed with her. I just couldn't go there :ROFLMAO:
 
Back in the day when I was into smoking pot and hash and using drugs, I would have NEVER wanted to get high with my parents. It would have been very awkward, ruined the high, and just weird, and uncool. They are decades older than me and were not part of my age group or part of the youth culture. I remember just being a teen or young adult and being high around my parents after smoking pot, drinking alcohol, or tripping on acid or shrooms and it was really weird and not fun. Yes my parents knew this, they were not happy to say the least but knew that teens and young adults experiment with drugs and I went to grateful dead, phish, Bob Dylan, and Allman brothers band shows so it was not a surprise that I was smoking pot and tripping on acid and shrooms. I quit everything before I was 30, just stopped as I had done it enough as a teen and young adult.

I am a Gen X'er and there were teens using heroin and opiates when I was in highschool. The lucky ones got off of the dope/heroin/opiates and are sober, and sadly the rest are no longer alive and overdosed. It was literally easier as a teen to get heroin, coke, crack, meth, prescription amphetamines like Dexedrine pills, PCP, MDA/MDMA, weed/hash, acid, shrooms, nitrous oxide, and any pill someone wanted than it was to get alcohol that we did not steal from our parents or get older adults to buy for us at stores. I know people who are in their 50s and 60s, or early 70s who described how they used drugs in highschool and heroin and other drugs were easily available.
 
Funny really, when I was a kid my mum was heavily involved with the Jehovahs witnesses. She never drank, wouldn't associate with people outside of the congregation, thought all drugs we evil, blah, blah, blah. Flash forward to my late teens and she'd pretty much done a complete u-turn in her lifestyle and views. My parents had always allowed us a lot of freedom, we were regularly allowed to throw massive 50+ people parties and they didn't mind a summerhouse that stank of weed 24/7. Since then my parents ended up separating and I lived with my mum for 3-4 years until my early 20s. During this time she started socialising, drinking (I don't mean alcoholism or anything, just a weekly-fortnightly piss up with her work mates) and taking a much more liberal stance towards drug use. She moved in with her new partner and sub-let the house to me and a few friends. It became almost routine that she'd come round on a Friday on her way to the pub and have a few drinks with us. There were times she'd walk into a mess of MDMA, amphetamine, booze and weed, never judged us for it haha. On a few occasions she'd smoke a few drags on a joint, which might not seem like a massive thing, but from conservative extreme Jehovahs witness type to what she became was amazing!
 
I have two friends who's parents are awesome. One of my friends, her family does MDMA all together. My other friend's mother does psychedelics regularly and even partakes with her son lmao. Two very cool people.

Get this:So I dropped by the family to give them their present and there's this middle age woman working on the lawn right by their house. I pull up and ask my friend if we should hand-off somewhere else. She's like "She knows who you are, she's chill and partaking". I just thought it was funny seeing an upper middle class family do molly together.
 
I smoked weed with my Dad once... it was really uncomfortable.

He's a lifelong hardcore alcoholic and it was another attempt to get him to quit... maybe just smoke some weed and chill.

It failed... he just gets even more belligerent and drunk.

I'd give him some LSD or something but he describes the time he took LSD in the NAVY when he was young and it doesn't seem like a good idea.

I gave up on trying to get him to be sober. Sadly, he's going to die from alcoholism and I've accepted that in a way...
 
Wilson Wilson said:
You are acting like if parents pretend drugs do not exist, their children will remain ignorant to their existence.

This is utterly false.

When we were growing up all my mum told me my whole life was scare stories about how drugs are evil and cut with rat poison and you'll die if you do them even once.

Didn't exactly work out as a way of stopping me from trying drugs did it?

In fact I'd say that attitude made things worse because it was such obvious hyperbole. Once I looked around and saw people casually doing this stuff without all this crazy shit my mum said would happen, I just ignored everything she told me on the topic and experimented with everything.
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I fully agree with you on this. The more you demonise drugs, the more intriguing they appear. My mum was heavily anti-drugs/sex/alcohol for the vast majority of my childhood and teenage years. What did it lead to? I started smoking weed, munching pills, and snorting piles of 'phet, not to mention fucking every girl I knew and drinking more days than not. I don't want to say that my mums attitude cause my drug use, but it certainly encouraged it.
The same goes for education. Shes a teacher and would always push me to the extreme when it came to school. Private tutors, almost a years worth of prep for my SATs/GCSEs, constant pushing and homework (set by my mum, not the school) Even took me out of school for a year and home schooled me at the age of 11 because she wasn't happy with the standards they taught to... I left school with 2 GCSEs in Maths and Graphic design... I was easily capable of doing well, but had been over worked for the years leading up to it and just didn't care anymore. My childhood was spent revising for pointless exams, by the time I was 15 I'd had enough. Since then I went back to school on my own accord, got 5 additional GCSEs, 4 A-levels, and a first class bachelors degree. Not really about drugs, but it highlights the issues with over parenting and pushing your kids too far.
 
What if the spirit or energy that many of us have communed with are actually just aspects/avatars of my Dad 😐
 
ashwolf22101 said:
I have two friends who's parents are awesome. One of my friends, her family does MDMA all together. My other friend's mother does psychedelics regularly and even partakes with her son lmao. Two very cool people.

Get this:So I dropped by the family to give them their present and there's this middle age woman working on the lawn right by their house. I pull up and ask my friend if we should hand-off somewhere else. She's like "She knows who you are, she's chill and partaking". I just thought it was funny seeing an upper middle class family do molly together.
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This honestly sounds amazing, I'd love to do MDMA with my mum in particular, we'd open up so much to each other and I bet it would change our relationship forever in a very good way.

Shame she would never in a million years do it though.

Here's a funny family drugs story from a mate of mine. He took a delivery of oxy and benzos for me. I'm talking over 50x OC 80's and over 100 pills of various benzos. His mum thought it was a package for her and opened it by mistake. Her response? She literally apologised to my mate for accidentally opening his package and gave it to him no questions.
 
Wilson Wilson said:
This honestly sounds amazing, I'd love to do MDMA with my mum in particular, we'd open up so much to each other and I bet it would change our relationship forever in a very good way.
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Lately I’ve thought about the wisdom of doing an MDMA session with my troubled teenage son. I know he takes it to get fucked up but I think longingly of the positive conversation and engagement we might have if were both on it together. The problem is that green lighting MDMA makes it hard to red light all the other sketchy drugs he gets fucked up on.
 
ashwolf22101 said:
I have two friends who's parents are awesome. One of my friends, her family does MDMA all together. My other friend's mother does psychedelics regularly and even partakes with her son lmao. Two very cool people.

Get this:So I dropped by the family to give them their present and there's this middle age woman working on the lawn right by their house. I pull up and ask my friend if we should hand-off somewhere else. She's like "She knows who you are, she's chill and partaking". I just thought it was funny seeing an upper middle class family do molly together.
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omg that's sum pretty crazy story haha! a whole family doing mdma, that definitely has made their bond stronger.
 
With my mom I think it would be wicked cool and eye-opening for both of us. Id say she has a very anxious, cautious disposition so it would be difficult for her. I have thought about getting her to smoke with me (she never has), but I worry it would be too much.

Tripping With My Father, the One-Man Play

Me: Papa, are you there Papa?

Me: Yes son, Im here. I have learned so much from this mutual psychedelic experience.

Me: Really Papa?

Me: Ive always loved you so much Son. I guess, (starts crying) I never knew how to tell you because my Dad never showed me.

Me: (Both Sobbing) Oh Papa, this has been so great.

Me: Interrupts... Also, son, dearest Ry-Ry, Im proud of your work in the HR community and of your career choices. I dont care that youre sports-retarded either!

Me: Oh Papa, Im just so happy!

Me: Me too son, me too...

(Father and son embrace, sobbing)

(Fade to Black)

Thunderous applause from inside a packed Fenway Park. Where they never even do shit like this, so obviously it must be pretty good.
 
Keif' Richards said:
With my mom I think it would be wicked cool and eye-opening for both of us. Id say she has a very anxious, cautious disposition so it would be difficult for her. I have thought about getting her to smoke with me (she never has), but I worry it would be too much.

Tripping With My Father, the One-Man Play

Me: Papa, are you there Papa?

Me: Yes son, Im here. I have learned so much from this mutual psychedelic experience.

Me: Really Papa?

Me: Ive always loved you so much Son. I guess, (starts crying) I never knew how to tell you because my Dad never showed me.

Me: (Both Sobbing) Oh Papa, this has been so great.

Me: Interrupts... Also, son, dearest Ry-Ry, Im proud of your work in the HR community and of your career choices. I dont care that youre sports-retarded either!

Me: Oh Papa, Im just so happy!

Me: Me too son, me too...

(Father and son embrace, sobbing)

(Fade to Black)

Thunderous applause from inside a packed Fenway Park. Where they never even do shit like this, so obviously it must be pretty good.
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did you really trip with your father or it's just a story from your imagination? if it's true that's awesome.
 
I did cannabis, coffee, ethanol, and dextromethorphan with my mother.
 
My dad has done drugs for 45 years. He has good undestanding about them and when he caught me doing them he's chill. He has taught me lots of things, street code, respect, how to behave and much other stuff. We have done ketamine, lsd, heroin, coke, speed, bupre just about everythin expect benzos together, because of he hates benzos. I think me doing drugs was a way for him to communicate with me We have had fun and i remember many times talking to him when i have aten acid or something it's really cool because he knows so much about the world and religions and just so much stuff. i'm a grown up man, so i can't blame him. I respect him and he has been more honest with me than any of his women or other children about his past. We are really close and i love him. He is the only one who has taken care of me when i was down, he really cares about me and i can speak with him. I have learned so much from him. He has never IV'd for me, that's something i wouldn't help him to do and usually i don't want to see that.
 
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