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Has Your Lack of Success with the Opposite Sex Contributed to Your Drug Use/Addiction

adder definitely... I have never had much success with women or even just successfully socializing in larger groups in general unless I was actually on something (Kratom is the one for me). After having quit for the past 2 1/2 weeks and having relapsed with a dose just tonight... because of being at a college grad party with a few cute girls plus the fact that it is my birthday night - I resisted relapsing for 3 hours while enduring relentless anxiety and a perception of feeling totally isolated and separate from everyone there until I finally gave in and relapsed on both Kratom and alcohol - I realize that these feelings of anxiety, paranoia, low self-esteem, insecurity, etc are something that most people may normally experience periodically but be able to recognize it and overcome it when the need and situation arises. I however, have grown comfortable using Kratom and/or whatever to alleviate any uncomfortable feelings at any given moment because I am just tired of having to deal with those feelings. I always have been for as long as I can remember, even before I started using drugs/alcohol as an escape. It's good that you can recognize the paranoia, hopefully you can deal with it better than I can with my feelings and symptoms.
 
I got into a bad alcohol habit because I thought it helped me talk to women. It worked for five minutes then turned into my primary intention.
 
Well it's a double edged sword..like my peen.

But on the real, drugs give me the confidence and shit to actually approach girls and shit.

I used to be painfully shy, still am kinda, but a good 100mg of hydro, maybe a bump of blowcaine and i'm a motherfucking pimpish mofo.
 
llama112 said:
No, not all drug users are unsuccessful in relationships or sexually. I have an amazing boyfriend and I am often hit on in clubs, on the street, whatever. I don't think it's just because of the drugs.

However, if you are irresponsible with them, maybe. Do they make you look super sketched out and weird? If so, maybe that's a reason people don't seem to be attracted to you. Do you skip out on work, school, events, etc. because you're using drugs? That could be a reason.

I have found many people who say they are unsuccessful with the opposite sex don't actually ask out females/males and just expect to always be hit on. That's not the case. If you haven't actually initiated anything, you can't say you're unsuccessful, because you haven't even tried. (that's an IF, not saying that's what the OP is doing)
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You are right, dear. But,according to my experience, most of the folks approach to the drug and alcohols, if they get unsucess in their life regarding the opposite sex. My most of the friends are the best example for me. They became nervous and got frustrated from their life. So,I would like to say that love/sex can make the life as well as spoil the life.
 
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