I am pretty happy now - no more fighting with my mum! We have made up, have a new found respect for each other and even understand each other a bit more since coming across this hurdle.
I think it takes her a bit of getting used to how up front i have become over the last couple years, and how i don't hold back from speaking my mind now. I think she has gone from trying to prevent it/hold me back to appreciating it and actually feeling proud of it.
My fiance Will actually ended up getting on the phone to my mother and totally stood up for me as well. I wasn't there when he spoke to her, but from what i understand he really told her how it is and made it clear that by her striving so hard for my sisters affections, and pushing me aside because she thinks i will always be there is actually causing more damage than what she realises. No one has ever stood up for me, so for the man i plan to marry to actually do it without any hesitation really does prove to me that he truly is the one for me. Not that i ever doubted that, but a lot has happened in the past and for him to now show that he is going to man up and protect me, i can't even explain how that makes me feel...
As far as my sister, she's a lost cause and i have completely come to terms with it now. I need to be the bigger person for now on and not let her effect me. I saw my little niece last night though, and she came running up to me so excitedly and gave me a big smooch and kiss. It chocked me up, as i didn't think she would even remember me since it's been months since she has seen me since my sister refuses to let me have anything to do with her, and she's only 2 years old. She was in mum's care last night so when i dropped in to see her, i got to see my niece too!
She is such a darling little girl... i am so clucky. haha. Might have to get another puppy to tie me over for a bit longer... I already have 2. Oh geeze.
What a gorgeous day - i think it's time to take the kids aka dogs to the creek for a shwim!
Yeah i know, I have a boring blog.
sorry to those who cared to read it 
I think it takes her a bit of getting used to how up front i have become over the last couple years, and how i don't hold back from speaking my mind now. I think she has gone from trying to prevent it/hold me back to appreciating it and actually feeling proud of it.
My fiance Will actually ended up getting on the phone to my mother and totally stood up for me as well. I wasn't there when he spoke to her, but from what i understand he really told her how it is and made it clear that by her striving so hard for my sisters affections, and pushing me aside because she thinks i will always be there is actually causing more damage than what she realises. No one has ever stood up for me, so for the man i plan to marry to actually do it without any hesitation really does prove to me that he truly is the one for me. Not that i ever doubted that, but a lot has happened in the past and for him to now show that he is going to man up and protect me, i can't even explain how that makes me feel...
As far as my sister, she's a lost cause and i have completely come to terms with it now. I need to be the bigger person for now on and not let her effect me. I saw my little niece last night though, and she came running up to me so excitedly and gave me a big smooch and kiss. It chocked me up, as i didn't think she would even remember me since it's been months since she has seen me since my sister refuses to let me have anything to do with her, and she's only 2 years old. She was in mum's care last night so when i dropped in to see her, i got to see my niece too!
She is such a darling little girl... i am so clucky. haha. Might have to get another puppy to tie me over for a bit longer... I already have 2. Oh geeze.
What a gorgeous day - i think it's time to take the kids aka dogs to the creek for a shwim!
Yeah i know, I have a boring blog.
sorry to those who cared to read it