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guys, do you prefer full figured women?

What about all the girls that can't help being really small. Everyone always tells me to eat because i'm so skinny. I'm 99-101 pounds (varies everyday) and I can't help it. My grandmas 91 pounds, my aunt is 97, and my mom is 107. Its just runs in my family i guess. It really gets to me though when people judge us skinny people , saying that we're anorexic or bulimic. I'm sick of it. I so wish that I was a size 29 or 30 instead of a 25 or 26. Then alot of people would stop thinking oh that girl needs to eat or whatever. One day some old man handed me $20 and said spend all of this on food and actually eat it for once. It hurts. But people being judged on their weight goes both ways, people judge skinny girls by thinking oh she just wants to look like all those super models, and people also judge bigger girls saying that they don't respect themselves and eat too much or they should start exercising. Alot of people just don't get that their weights run in their famalies and there is nothing they can do about.
I don't think the attractivness of a person depends on their weight, it depends whether they are healthy or not and how they carry themselves and how they act towards others.
Thats just my opinion in this whole matter
~*Jenna*~
 
Originally posted by *PoRn*sTaR*:
I don't think the attractivness of a person depends on their weight, it depends whether they are healthy or not and how they carry themselves and how they act towards others
yup. i fully agree :)
~*~kristen~*~
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i like girls to have some meat on them.. i think size 6-12 is ideal.. if they are like 5-4 to 5-10 in height.
i am on the bigger side of things.. lol the smallest pair of pants i can get into is size 10, and i have 36D's. i have been REALLY grossly fat too.. so my weight now doesnt bother me at all.. besides, i have great muscles and its not like i sit around eating all day i work full time (2 jobs) work out 5days a week for 2hrs a day, and eat almost no junk food. as long as u aren't obease, and just sloppy, you can look great being any size.
i have never had a problem getting dates or getting looked at when im out.. its all about confidence really and how u present urself to people. i will go out with my size 3 friend who is beautiful and pick up more guys then her just because she never smiles.. it depends on a lot of things... size is just one of the factors. and for some people plays more a part in chosing who to date then others.
 
*porn*star* ...i am right there with you...it sucks to have people all the time making comments about eating to me...iam 5'8 105...i am wee yesh...but i eat healty and take care of my body. I dont see that peoples wieght should be such an issue...all it does is further catagorize people...
 
I think skinny girls would suck to fuck, like all their bones poking into you and stuff. I myself am not at all fat, but i would hate to be that skinny that i had bones and ribs all poking out everywhere.
In my opinion i think both the girls in the pictures are very beautiful. Each to their own i guess. But i think perhaps the second one could lose a little bit of wieght and the first one could put quite a bit more on to be FUKCING AWESOMLY GOOD LOOKING. Like they are both good now, but yeah, maybe they'd be a bit better hey!!!
 
does lack of sleep cause hallunications
YES. A very common cause of hallucinations, in fact. The few times I've actually hallucinated were from sleep deprivation...that and/or being strung out on stimulants.
Melissa, other girlies -- I know, zorn, and now Zjabo, Kyk, and Jestefer's posts made me depressed too. Especially when zorn said " I must say I've never seen a girl who was too thin." Horrible! :(
And I'm even fairly thin, but you know how it is..if you have an self-image problem then you are never happy, it's a horrible evil cycle that perpetuates no matter what.
Grrr.
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the only qualities i really prefer in a womans body is 1) breasts 2)vagina 3)heartbeat. the rest is trivial.
 
Originally posted by StarTripper:
Skinny I can handle better than fat... most skinny girls, unless anorexic. can't help it.
Thank you startripper, I am glad that someone finally said this. Yes, there are girls out there who are skinny and work really hard to be super skinny, but there are plenty of girls out there who are not skinny by choice. I am 5'3", 105 lbs, and a 32b/c cup. I eat a lot of food and I just do not gain weight. Even when I was in college and ate junk food and crap (I eat healthier now) all the time the most I ever weighed was 115lb. I do not try and stay this skinny, it's just how my body is. However, I am very happy with how I look and with my proportions, so really, that is all that matters.
Just stop and think next time before you make a snide comment about your friends being skinny, they might not be able to help it anymore than someone who is overweight and just can't manage to lose any pounds.
Just some food for thought.
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: ~*Meg*~ ]
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hey there :)
i have no problem what so ever with people who are natrually thin. i have friend's of all different sizes but quite frankly what my friends look like doesn't really matter to me. because i don't love them for the size of the clothes.
i think the issue is that while some girls are always going to be thin almost no matter what they do, the opposite is also true. and because society deems that thin is attractive as well which has also been indicated by a high percentage of people on this thread. Girls who can probably never going to fit this ideal will end up feeling frustrated.
women's bodies haven't really changed much at all in thousands of years yet what in considered attractive in a woman often does.
i admit that i got disheartend when i read this thread as i dont think ill ever be truly thin/athletic/svelte. i'll always be top heavy no matter what i do and i suppose like every i want to be attractive. no one wants to feel unattractive and i hope that no one felt that were swipes at those who are thin, there is just a lot of frustration more that anything i think :) please lets not anyone start making moral judgements purely on the basis of one's size. by saying that heavier or thinner girls are always going to be unattractive almost feels in someone that has already been done
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: moonlight_blue ]
 
Yeah...my last GF was a bit bigger in
that regard, very full breasts and a
nice big butt... *sigh* :(
It's OK though....I like women in all
shapes and sizes. There is quite a bit
sexually that a more nimble girl can
do I'm finding out. ;)
 
starlightgemini i'm constantly surprised by how much people ACTUALLY weigh--whatever i guess is usually a lot less than their reality. but really--i don't even care to know #s.
EXACTLY!!!! I'm 5'3 and I weigh anywhere from 120-130 (my weight goes back n forth so much its not even funny...on friday I can weigh 128 and by monday weigh 121...its crazy). I dont look heavy...I've been told that I'm too skinny. Its all about bone structure, I have big bones (lol, its not an excuse for being fat, because i'm not fat...I'M JUST BIG BONED!). I have basically NO fat on my hips by they are still 36in. Someone said 36-30-36 is the perfect proportion, well, thats me. Even though I'm pretty much happy with my figure, I'm not happy with my weight...when it comes to guys trying to pick me up and shit--because they completely misjudge how solid I really am. I really dont let anyone pick me up because they'd be suprised by how heavy I am, not fat, heavy.
So, I'm pretty curvy, and I appreciate that on other women as well. I'm not attracted to really skinny girls, I think its nasty--I'd rather her have some meat on her...not fat, but healthy. I like small breasts (but big ones are okay too...), nice hips, proportioned waist... but again, it all depends on each girl individually--you cant limit yourself to a specific body type... I deffinately think girl #2 in the original post is much hotter than girl #1.
here are some links of women I think are hot:
Angelina Jolie--Score: 10!!! she's perfect :)
(and she deffinately doesnt fit my "type")
Nikki Cox--Score: 8... she's a little skinny, but still damn hot!
(to be continued... my sister needs the computer for homework, and unfortunately--i'm having a hard time finding pictures of REAL women and not celebs ;) )
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: jerzeezfinest ]
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I think the fashion industry is making itself obsolete in the vain pursuit of trying to forcibly alter thousands of years of biological hard-wiring in our brains that keeps us attracted to curvy, voluptuous, strong women due to their survival advantage.
Only recently have the tables turned and the standards for beauty shifted to the more unlikely evolutionary archetype, the waif.
It goes against every instinct in our bodies and brains. I don't know why designers choose these Ikea-esque bodies to drape their clothes on on runways; it is doing the clothes a huge disservice. Perhaps the conspiracy is that they're trying to save on fabric.
They may look good in a cocktail dress and that's it, and only for the first couple seconds.
Then your body gets this weak withdrawing feeling as you scan her figure and one of three messages gets flashed in your brain: First, that you might break her, and second, that she'll never last through the winter, and thirdly, that she'll never be able to nourish and deliver a child.
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: liquidocean ]
 
I simply cannot decide to lust after big women because I pity their inherited bone structure.
It has been made clear in this thread the diverse preferences of both men and women. Whining and pouting about someone else's preference will yield nothing.
This issue has absolutely nothing to do with being brainwashed by the fashion industry or spoonfed by the media. It's akin to defining your sexuality. You're either gay/straight/bi. In the same sense, you're also attracted to full-figured/slim/medium build of woman.
Capice?
 
Kyk is right, you're attracted to what you're attracted to. Some of us girls like men with huge muscles and six-packs, some of us like a leaner guy, or a softer guy. Anyway, I think there were as many guys responding that they liked "fuller-figured women" as there were men who liked more slight women, so what is the worry?
Actually, whenever I used to worry about ever getting a boyfriend, I reminded myself that even ugly people get married! :)
 
Originally posted by Schmacky:
*porn*star* ...i am right there with you...it sucks to have people all the time making comments about eating to me...iam 5'8 105...i am wee yesh...but i eat healty and take care of my body. I dont see that peoples wieght should be such an issue...all it does is further catagorize people...
no kidding. I used to be in the same boat as you.....as a freshman, I was like 5'6 and weighed 110! I didnt get many comments, I guess the women get the most comments, although some men said I need to workout and the women were supprised i weighed *less* than them! I told them I want to gain weight. I got my wish but still not happy. im 5'8 and 140 but I want to be 160! The best thing to do is dedicate time to eating. eat till yer stomach hurts then eat again in a few hours. dont exercise too much(for now)
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"Melissa, other girlies -- I know, zorn, and now Zjabo, Kyk, and Jestefer's posts made me depressed too. Especially when zorn said " I must say I've never seen a girl who was too thin." Horrible!"
sorry to hear, Fair. I can show these women pictures of women so thin they will never say that again. one time in college I saw an anorexic that looked like a corpse, yes she was that bad. I didnt even want to take another look at her. her legs and arms were like sticks, bones. she was like almost 6 feet but Id bet her weight was like 80! her eyes were sunken and cheeks were hollow. I was spooked and walked away quicky!
 
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