Am sexy, but old fashioned, I guess... Jun 19, 2009 6:46 pm
I was checking out this one member's profile and he seemed pretty cool, you know a long haired, musician type. He stated in his profile not to contact him unless you were serious about hooking up. I need to talk to whoever first before I am really comfortable meeting them, especially since technically, this is a sex sight. Well what cracked me up, was that he said he was no bullshitter and if any women wanted verification, to read the testimonials. Okayyy, so I did, since he had sent me a flirt.
Well here's the thing. I liked his profile, his looks and what he had to say. We're pretty much looking for the same thing, but I stopped dead in my tracks when I came across these 8 or so testimonials from women about this guy, each one saying something like, "My God he had such a large, gorgeous, cock! Ladies he is very talented with his tongue, blah blah." LOL. I'm reading this and thinking, "Oh my God, it's like these chicks are sampling then advertising a product or something."
I'm not sure I'd want men making testimonials on my profile, even if they were meant as compliments. I can visualize reading, "Oh yeah TJ5 is a great fuck, guys." UGH! Of course if anyone wrote that I was a lousy fuck, then I'd have to go down there and kick his ass, haha. No seriously, while I got a laugh out of reading what the women had to say about this dude, I can't seriously imagine hooking up with someone, had a great connection, only to read about what great sex he is having with someone else.
Mind you, I'm not an idiot, of course guys fool around, but if I like him, then I don't want to know the details of his other adventures. Somehow, too, if a guy or guys wrote shit about that on my profile, I'd feel cheap somehow. It's probably the way I was raised, I guess. I had good folks, but there was definitely a double standard in full effect, that kind of stays with one raised in my generation or older.
That's one thing I like about my long distance boyfriend, he is extremely sexually adventurous, but was raised to treat a lady like a lady. I talked to him online for 3 months before finally meeting him, and by that time I was practically chompin at the bit. 5000 miles is a long way to travel for an affair, but he was worth it. We have a shared profile in his country, because his sexual fantasy is to hook up with 2 chicks. I tell you this, though, if he knew I was even just talking to guys on here, he'd be pissed.
I understand, because I know he fools around, but I told him I don't want to know the details. He's the perfect sex partner for me, but damn it I wish he didn't live so damn far. One thing I've noticed too about Adult FriendFinder, is that it sure as hell is A LOT easier to even talk to people in the USA than it is in Europe. In my opinion, it's slim pickens over there. That's why I told my bf to come to Cali, I can hook us up fast with another chick. This is mainly for him, as I'm not really bisexual, and it doesn't look like I'm gonna find a suitable 3rd at the rate this search is going, but it's all good. LA is the place to be for shit like that.
I was checking out this one member's profile and he seemed pretty cool, you know a long haired, musician type. He stated in his profile not to contact him unless you were serious about hooking up. I need to talk to whoever first before I am really comfortable meeting them, especially since technically, this is a sex sight. Well what cracked me up, was that he said he was no bullshitter and if any women wanted verification, to read the testimonials. Okayyy, so I did, since he had sent me a flirt.
Well here's the thing. I liked his profile, his looks and what he had to say. We're pretty much looking for the same thing, but I stopped dead in my tracks when I came across these 8 or so testimonials from women about this guy, each one saying something like, "My God he had such a large, gorgeous, cock! Ladies he is very talented with his tongue, blah blah." LOL. I'm reading this and thinking, "Oh my God, it's like these chicks are sampling then advertising a product or something."
I'm not sure I'd want men making testimonials on my profile, even if they were meant as compliments. I can visualize reading, "Oh yeah TJ5 is a great fuck, guys." UGH! Of course if anyone wrote that I was a lousy fuck, then I'd have to go down there and kick his ass, haha. No seriously, while I got a laugh out of reading what the women had to say about this dude, I can't seriously imagine hooking up with someone, had a great connection, only to read about what great sex he is having with someone else.
Mind you, I'm not an idiot, of course guys fool around, but if I like him, then I don't want to know the details of his other adventures. Somehow, too, if a guy or guys wrote shit about that on my profile, I'd feel cheap somehow. It's probably the way I was raised, I guess. I had good folks, but there was definitely a double standard in full effect, that kind of stays with one raised in my generation or older.
That's one thing I like about my long distance boyfriend, he is extremely sexually adventurous, but was raised to treat a lady like a lady. I talked to him online for 3 months before finally meeting him, and by that time I was practically chompin at the bit. 5000 miles is a long way to travel for an affair, but he was worth it. We have a shared profile in his country, because his sexual fantasy is to hook up with 2 chicks. I tell you this, though, if he knew I was even just talking to guys on here, he'd be pissed.
I understand, because I know he fools around, but I told him I don't want to know the details. He's the perfect sex partner for me, but damn it I wish he didn't live so damn far. One thing I've noticed too about Adult FriendFinder, is that it sure as hell is A LOT easier to even talk to people in the USA than it is in Europe. In my opinion, it's slim pickens over there. That's why I told my bf to come to Cali, I can hook us up fast with another chick. This is mainly for him, as I'm not really bisexual, and it doesn't look like I'm gonna find a suitable 3rd at the rate this search is going, but it's all good. LA is the place to be for shit like that.
