Goodbye?

[EvoldicA]

I don't know why it's so hard to make you happy
or why it's so easy to make you sad..

I hope no matter what happens you'll remember
only the good times we've had...

and It's not so easy to let go of the things we've shared
but I don't know what to do.. because I'm so scared

The eclipse of heartache seems to overshadow the good we've had...
so now I think it's time to say goodbye..

Goodbye...goodbye to what we've had..
and please don't remember when I made you sad

 

[bisKi]

Saying goodbye is always the hardest. Getting over that goodbye is even more so. No doubt memories of what's been lost will always hurt, but sometimes, more often than not, it's the memories of what had been that makes the hurt ease a little.

Short but straight to the point - a phase which I guess most people would have experienced at least once in their lives.

 

[PsychoKitten]

Saying goodbye is hard, letting go is hell... it destroys or strengthens and in most cases does both. When it's fresh the heartache and sad memories seem to stick out the most, yet slowly the good times creep back in.

Much love

Kitty

 

[Yoyi]

HUGZ E. I promise you in a year you will look back and look at things in a different way. Keep your head up and move forward...as hard as it may seem.

 

[E-girl]

i really feel you on this one, because lately, i've felt this way with my boyfriend of a year and a half. We are the most compatible couple in the world, and there's nothing wrong with US... the problem with our relationship lately is that, as he puts it, "life happened to us." meaning, we didnt plan for our lives to go in such opposite directions this far down the road. we dont blame each other, but i'm having a hard time accepting it. its not goodbye yet, but everyday feels like it more and more. i'm scared of the future. but at the same time, i'm happy for him, that all he's worked so hard for is finally paying off for him. i'm trying so hard not to be bitter.

i went out with a friend last night after work, and we got in a very deep convo about relationships, life, love, etc. and he made me have a totally different perspective -- a positive one, on all this. he told me, just be happy today... maybe you WONT be with him tomorrow, but be happy today to be with him. and that seems like such a trivial piece of advice, but when you think about it, that's all there is... be happy for what you have now, or for what you had.... dont be sad that it might not be there tomorrow. tomorrow something better might come along to fill the void. ya know?

 

[femmme fatal]

^ i so know what you mean....

i think the most important thing is knowing when it's time to say goodbye.... and having the strength to do it

much love billy!

aj the femme

 

[shal]

Touched me..

Your writing touched me.

I recently had to say Goodbye to a Girl I loved as I watched her walk out of my life for something which to her must have been better and bigger then what I could ever offer her.

Saying Goodbye was hard, and I hid away from it. The even worse experience is the after effects, now that shes left me I feel lonely and lost, and it's been hard to cope with. My heart has been broken and lessons have been learnt.

Maybe together we can stay strong? I know Im not the only one feeling what I feel in the world... I wish I was a better person with more benefits to someone..

*Hugs*

Shal..