Good Enough (Body)?

[Ninae]

Somehow I doubt that very much. I've never met you and already you give off that bat shit crazy vibe

Hahah...

You're kind of right, only I'm rather likely to leave at any moment regardless of their needs so it can come as a shock, rather than hang around to terrorise them.

My worst fear is being trapped in an unhappy relationship like my parents. I just run. Oh, how many times I've done that. Men aren't that indispensable. I'm a player.

 

[spacejunk]

So what are you worried about?

 

[Ninae]

What do you mean?
I just have bodily insecurities like everyone else.

I didn't mean I'm a deliberate player. Just that to a guy it can turn out to seem that way. I've had enough trauma in my life, so any hint of any more and I'm out of there.

I admit I can get pretty obsessive about a guy, though. But I know how to hide it well so he doesn't suspect it (that's also what I mean by being a "player") as I know that's a turn-off. So I don't run around making a guy's life a nightmare, relationships are better if you give each other some space.

 

[spacejunk]

We don't all have body insecurities.
They can be conquered, you know.
Especially the celebrity-worship variety.

 

[Mysterie]

my philosophy is that if you focus your attention on having a beautiful inner world, that will naturally reflect into a beautiful body.

 

[spacejunk]

Inner beauty can last a lifetime.
It's worth cultivating, if you can.

 

[Ninae]

It's kind of two different things, though.

Yes, a person beautiful on the inside will emanate a beautiful energy that is even visually visible, and it's the source of true beauty.

On the other hand, inner beauty can't do much about the actual forms of the flesh, and it's not like all good people are born beautiful and all bad people are born ugly. This seems more democratic, or like we have as many of each in each category.

 

[alasdairm]

Hmmmm.....I get that he's partly teasing me.....but there's a bit of a sting there.
Never said anything to offend him as far as I'm aware.

I guess he has a love/hate relationship with me, like many on this board.

i neither love nor hate you. i don't know you.

i agree with this:

I think alasdair has given you the most body-positive comment you could hope for, here.

seriously, i think you need to take my comments at face value.

alasdair

 

[Ninae]

i neither love nor hate you. i don't know you.

Finally a sane comment from someone.

Everyone thinks they know me based on my posts (with many written in withdrawal psychosis/delirium).

 

[421]

We love you but it's tough love.

 

[Tranced]

Who is this? I love her

All the woman you posted have amazing bodies. Personally I like all kinds, so long as they aren't chubby.

Curvy, slim, who cares as long as they are healthy? I think this is generally the same for most men.

Most have a preference, but when it comes down to it, we just like the ladies.

 

[Ninae]

Who is this? I love her

My body double (only a larger version). No need for anyone to see me nude now.

Including the big hands, wide waist and hips - which I don't like that much - just hoping the rest makes up for it.

That is her middle-aged though. Hope I look as good that age.

But seriously, must be one of the most beautiful women who's ever lived. Always makes me think of the myth of "Helen of Troy".

Watch her in the video-clip I posted (so beautiful it aches).

 

[alasdairm]

Everyone thinks they know me...

two wrongs don't make a right but you make a lot of assumptions about other people, myself included.

be the change and all that.

alasdair

 

[Ninae]

I've been on the receiving end of a lot of assumptions and hasty judgements too. "Everyone" wasn't meant literally. Just to refer to the all the ones that do.

Look at my thunder thighs, though.

That is more of a concern, or actual reality.

Hey, my feet aren't as large as that . My feet are probably the most beautiful part of my anatomy, or perfectly formed and not too big, just normal.

So are there any foot-fetishists here? You know when you see an advertisement for foot-cream, or something, and the foot looks too impossibly beautiful, too perfectly shaped, to be real? That's my feet. I reckon I deserve someone to lick them.

 

[Ninae]

Wow, her breasts were small there, like she was anorexic or something (guess she was, too). When I lose/gain weight the first place it shows is the breasts.

Guess I could potentially have breasts as small as that if I got skinny enough, funny.
(That is more like a "B" when the natural for that body is a "C/D"). And with the large bone structure, dreadful.

She must have been really anorexic, even the muscle mass in her arms is greatly reduced. Model-life is so abusive. One of my sister's friends looks just like a blond version of HC (no kidding) but never showed any interest in modelling. It can be a good way of making money, though. But I suspect there are a lot of "extra-curricular" services required to rise to the top (except maybe when you look like that).

 

[Tranced]

My body double (only a larger version). No need for anyone to see me nude now.

Including the big hands, wide waist and hips - which I don't like that much - just hoping the rest makes up for it.

That is her middle-aged though. Hope I look as good that age.

But seriously, must be one of the most beautiful women who's ever lived. Always makes me think of the myth of "Helen of Troy".

Watch her in the video-clip I posted (so beautiful it aches).

What's her name? I can't find the video.

She's got pretty much the exact same body as my ex-girlfriend (as of the other week). Breasts, nipples, stomach.

As if I didn't miss her enough already.

 

[One Thousand Words]

I've been on the receiving end of a lot of assumptions and hasty judgements too. "Everyone" wasn't meant literally. Just to refer to the all the ones that do.

.

Wow, her breasts were small there, like she was anorexic or something (guess she was, too). When I lose/gain weight the first place it shows is the breasts.

Guess I could potentially have breasts as small as that if I got skinny enough, funny.
(That is more like a "B" when the natural for that body is a "C/D"). And with the large bone structure, dreadful.





She must have been really anorexic, even the muscle mass in her arms is greatly reduced. Model-life is so abusive. One of my sister's friends looks just like a blond version of HC (no kidding) but never showed any interest in modelling. It can be a good way of making money, though. But I suspect there are a lot of "extra-curricular" services required to rise to the top (except maybe when you look like that).

You are an idiot. A hypocritical one at that.

Helena Christiansen is a professional super model. Why is it not possible for her body to be healthy and natural? We don't question althletes as being fake just because they can do things us mere mortals find impossible.

You are judging glamour shots that are edited before the hit the print, trying desperately to fit yourself into a fantasy world. You have issues that are far more worrying than fat hips and man hands. There is nothing wrong with illusion, everyone wears clothes or make up that flatters or deceives. The media isn't feeding you a lie, it's simple fulfilling and order you have asked for.

If you want an honest opinion of how you look post an actual photo of yourself or better yet approach a real man on the street you fancy and ask them if they find you attractive. Otherwise all you are doing is being bitchy and dragging another woman you have never met down.

 

[LearntYoung]

All these bodies are pretty damn good. Don't try to become more slim than this, because you'll go skinny and skinny is ugly.

 

[Ninae]

We love you but it's tough love.

But I respond so badly to tough love.

 

[Ninae]

You are an idiot. A hypocritical one at that. Helena Christiansen is a professional super model. Why is it not possible for her body to be healthy and natural? We don't question althletes as being fake just because they can do things us mere mortals find impossible.

She DID look really anorexic in that picture. There is actually such a thing. You're just using it as an excuse to take something out on me, there's no other meaning in that argument. I'm aware of and realise what a model's job is. She just looked twice as thin as her usual self with half her muscle-mass wasted and her bones sticking out. That's what made me react.

Otherwise, I have only been making positive comments about her (I called her one of the most beautiful women who have ever lived in this world), other than that her/mine built might not happen to be my personal ideal, but that's more about personal taste. But her larger muscle-mass made her normally look less skinny than most models, so she was actually a better role-model than most, most of the time.

And you don't have to read my threads/posts if you dislike them so much. By the way, I don't need to ASK a guy to know if he likes my body. Whether to post nude pictures of myself on BL or not is my personal choice.