Chemical Samile
Bluelighter
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- Nov 20, 2010
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So I've been seeing this girl for the past couple of months. Everything seems to be going well but she told me recently that she’s never had an orgasm. Not just that I've never made her cum, she has never had one. Ever. She's 22 and including me she's only slept with 4 people and not once has she had an orgasm. Perturbed (and curious) I asked if the problem was simply the inability to cum with a partner and could she achieve climax through masturbation, but she apparently doesn't masturbate. It's odd, we fuck all the time, she initiates it a fair amount of the time, she gets wetter than any other girl I've been with - yet she cannot climax.
She doesn't seem too fussed by this, whereas I'm pretty gutted about it. Like most guys, one of the biggest turn-on's for me is watching my girl get off. I mean she gets into it and definitely enjoys it but to me it's pretty upsetting knowing that I'm not going to be able to push her over the edge...
Does anyone have any ideas what I can do here? Could the situation potentially be that no-one had pushed the right buttons yet and with some perseverance an orgasm is indeed possible? Or is this a lost cause as there are in fact some women out there who simply cannot climax?
She doesn't seem too fussed by this, whereas I'm pretty gutted about it. Like most guys, one of the biggest turn-on's for me is watching my girl get off. I mean she gets into it and definitely enjoys it but to me it's pretty upsetting knowing that I'm not going to be able to push her over the edge...
Does anyone have any ideas what I can do here? Could the situation potentially be that no-one had pushed the right buttons yet and with some perseverance an orgasm is indeed possible? Or is this a lost cause as there are in fact some women out there who simply cannot climax?