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Gibberings episode 0x000000c6(?) -- No in outs or butts about it. Anal fissure!

Up so late again. Think I'll be murdered if I make one more noise. Wish me luck. Not like theres much time before morning!
 
What holding you back, money?

I couldn't live with my parents, not many can but we can't tolerate each other for long. We love each other but by fuck do we piss each other off..

It may seem a long way off but it will all just be a memory when you're sitting in your own house, flicking paint about in your studio with music blaring out....
 
ScotchMist said:
What holding you back, money?

I couldn't live with my parents, not many can but we can't tolerate each other for long. We love each other but by fuck do we piss each other off..

It may seem a long way off but it will all just be a memory when you're sitting in your own house, flicking paint about in your studio with music blaring out....
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This. Tis been 9 years since I moved out of my parents house (I was 18) and while I love them dearly, I would never want to go back. My brother actually moved back in with my mum after 3 years of living by himself
 
Ive moved back in 3 times since first leaving in 1998. Ive never lived alone, only with girlfriends so the relative isolation of my parents abode was always a calm bolthole for me to lick my wounds.

Untill the most recent occasion, in which i walked straight into a family nightmare, relapsing onto heroin before i could get the money together to move on.

2 years down the line im still here, rapidly heading towards the age of 40.
 
I've moved back with my parents a few times since I moved out (it was two weeks after my 16th when I first got my own place so I think I banked a few years of going back there :p ), either because I was between jobs and needed a quiet place to work on my portfolio, or more recently because I was too sick to look after myself. I'm lucky that my parents are fairly tolerable, I actually enjoy spending time with them, so they've never been the cause of any frustrations about living there. But they do live in the middle of nowhere, I don't drive and it's not a place you can reach on foot or by public transport, so my main motivation to get out of there has always been a desire to have a bit more freedom to travel.
 
I really need to start saving. I really want to go on holiday in October though too :( maybe I'll just move to where I go! One way flights are cheaper like!
 
ScotchMist said:
What holding you back, money?

I couldn't live with my parents, not many can but we can't tolerate each other for long. We love each other but by fuck do we piss each other off..

It may seem a long way off but it will all just be a memory when you're sitting in your own house, flicking paint about in your studio with music blaring out....
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Definitely agree with this. The relationship with my parents improved quite a bit when I moved out! I wouldn't want to live with them again, part of me reverts to an angry 18 year old if I'm with them for too long!

Edit: Do you think you could live in a shared house GL? Would cut down the costs of moving out quite a bit I reckon.
 
No way to shared housing! I have zero social skills. I don't even have friends irl. There's a tiny violin playing for me somewhere.
 
gardenlane said:
No way to shared housing! I have zero social skills. I don't even have friends irl. There's a tiny violin playing for me somewhere.
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But perhaps shared housing could help you gain social skills or friends?

I wouldn't know, I was already a lonely git when I moved out at 17 (constant rows at home so I left as soon as I had wrapped up school), and living on my own only made me more isolated. I was very productive at my own appt, got fine grades studying in another town, while holding down a shitty student job, but emotionally it just wasn't good for me.
 
When I moved out of halls in London there wasn't much choice but to move into a shared place. It was definitely a bit daunting moving in with randoms (what if they were serial killers?!) but I actually ended up really enjoying it and and still in touch with the girls I lived with.
 
I moved in to a shared house last Saturday. I considered getting my own place but I knew I'd end up isolated, it's alright in there. If you don't want to be social you just go and do your own thing. There is no contract to be best friends, just civil will do... It saves a fortune on bills as they're usually all in. I'd be screwed if I had to pay for a flat for myself and all the bills, my mortgage and bills where my kids live and hotel bills when I work away..

What's the worst that can happen? Actually, the girl next door to me is moving out the end of the month. £95 a week all in, its even got a gym that I lie to myself every other day that I'm going to use :D it'll never happen..

Only problem is you would have to live not far from Birmingham... should be paying me to live here..
 
Shared housing isn't so bad. I lived with a bunch of people I mostly couldn't stand for a year but it was tolerable cos it was a big house and I kept to myself. Wouldn't do it again, mind, but wasn't the hell on earth I imagined. Am another one whose relationship with my parents improved vastly when I moved out, I lived with them for about four or five months while buying a house here and I could see stuff slowly slipping back to how it was by the time I moved out again. Fortunately shit's good now and I love going to see em <3
 
Ugh! Although I have just said "at least I don't need to water the garden tonight" to someone, so silver linings.
 
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