Bearlove
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The parents have no issue with it. They are two of the ones who respected my decision, as I said it bares no relevance on how much I care for the child.
How does it deny me being a part of their lives, after the 5 minute ceremony of me standing there saying ill protect the lad from the devil it'll all return to exactly how it was 10 seconds prior.
It doesn't deny 'you' anything at all and if that is what you want, then that is your choice. Of course the parents respect your decision - they probably think too much of you (hence the request) to say - what do you mean no.
ScotchMist - I personally do not agree with your decision. Your points and your thought process on this is 100% correct for you.
You asked the question - I'm giving you my POV.