I just use my cards for myself at the mo. I find them quite revealing, Ive done some readings on myself that are accurate. They're less about telling you about what is going to happen in the future and more about guidance I think. Each to their own I say. I think some people have readings as a form of thereapy or counselling.
What I'm finding is when people know I'm learning they suddenly get a desire to have a reading done. Now, if they wanted a reading done that badly they'd sort it out for themselves. It's like any skill you have that someone else hasn't got, be it plastering or plumbing, freeloaders love a freebie. Especially with the arot, they don't realise that not only have I gone to the bother of buying my own cards, I have also invested my time in learning this skill and would then have to give time in doing a reading. But freeloaders love a freebie and they never see that your time is a resource. I have a mate who comes to my house and always does a see this want that on the most random of things that he couldn't possibly have been looking out for till he sees it there thinks it
s not in use and just wants it. I'm getting annoyed thinking about him to be honest, and I've always calmed down by the next time he comes round. Next visitation, we'll see.
I think it's very interesting, when it comes to tarot readings and things like that, the different ways in which people think. Some people still believe they're evil, some people, like you say, think you can give them an instantaneous reading and don't think that, that's your time you are giving away, some people think you're mental and what-not. I'm fascinated by different opinions and perspectives on the matter. Mine seem to change all the time. I believe there are the odd "psychics" who will use wording to make things that happen in the future appear like they have been telling you so - and when people are vulnerable and naïve this can be an extremely easy task. There are psychics who are real.
There are people, like yourself, who use tarot cards as a reading for "guidance" and not "to see what's in the future," there was a site that I once attended for a few years, where people would give readings of this nature. No "future readings" were allowed whatsoever, it was all on a guidance basis. Unfortunately I think the place is no longer around but it was nice to visit it at the time. They had classes of mediumship and so forth for £4 a month. I actually paid this though God knows why as I'm no medium but was fascinated in the stuff.
They all used to say I should be into philosophy as opposed to spirituality as I was always questioning things and I'd never let things lie and agree with them for the sake of it. Think I was banned eventually as they did not like this at all - I was told I was meant to have an open mind if things were to happen. But I find that extremely difficult. I like to question things. I like that there are never any real answers to certain things, only speculation and different perspective, that they can be debated but that there is no ever right or wrong.
Mind you, some people are very strongly opposed to beliefs of spirituality or religious (there's actually debates that religion and faith are two different things as, for instance, you could religiously sport a football team, whereas faith is to believe that something exists without actual evidence, for instance, God). Where was I? I told someone of my faith in God as this acted very strongly against this. Of course, this person had the right to their own opinion and differences of opinion is good as it makes us unique and makes the world go around (though I need to stop thinking others are attacking, when they are disagreeing with me), this person told me that I seriously needed help and was mentally ill because I believed in God and because I said I believed in the afterlife (which is faith, although somewhat hypocritical I find it extremely difficult to question the whole thing with God, though I respect that no everyone has the same faith/viewpoint as me re this and that is all good). But back to what I was saying, I find how strongly this person assumed that I had mental ill-health and needed to seek immediately help, because I had mentioned my faith in the afterlife, very fascinating and interesting indeed.
OK.... I've wrote a bloody novel again lol...
Evey xxxx