My boyfriend took benzos and he was a little different, and I like him much better without them, honestly, now that he manages his anxiety in other ways.
I would agree with others that benzos aren't the best for a long-term solution for anxiety, and would recommend getting off of them, but be sure to taper. My boyfriend didn't do the right thing, was taking more than his dose, ran out without enough to taper and had a withdrawal seizure, and that's a pretty awful thing, honestly. Plus, hospital visits aren't cheap and one is always necessary at that point to straighten out the situation. Be safe!