Getting myself back after a long relationship

[Need4speed]

Well we were togther for about 4 years, long story short ive agreed to be the one to move out of our apartment in about a month

since i seee her everyday im still stuck in a rut until i move oout

during this last month at the apartment i want to show her to great side of me that she will not have anymore, because of her bullsh*t i was constanly angry unhappy

she can blame me for 30 things that it was my fault ect ect

i know im a good person and treat people with care and well manners, ( unles they cross or bs me)

i need to get my swagger back and not leave the apartment like a chump

im willing to try other drugs to boost myself thats how desperate i need something , maybe some adderal or ritalin to get my mind up and runnning and not stuck in 1st gear

i want her to be attracted to me even though its over, sounds selfish but so is 100% of other humans, i want to leave on a positive and upbeat note

tips ?



doctors and scripts for meds is not an option

 

[Busty St Clare]

Taking drugs might make you feel better but it won't make you appear more attractive. In fact depending on what you take you will only appear like a tweaked out loser.

Much healthier (and probably cheaper) option would be to get a fresh new haircut, buy yourself some new, sharp clothes and start living and enjoying your life again. Being happy and successful is a far better form of revenge, if that is what you are trying to achieve.

 

[nowdubnvr6]

Bring another girl home and let her hear loud animalistic sex.... hahah no prolly dont do that someone might end up in jail.

 

[ocean]

Taking drugs might make you feel better but it won't make you appear more attractive. In fact depending on what you take you will only appear like a tweaked out loser.

Much healthier (and probably cheaper) option would be to get a fresh new haircut, buy yourself some new, sharp clothes and start living and enjoying your life again. Being happy and successful is a far better form of revenge, if that is what you are trying to achieve.

Excellent advice. (And it made me laugh)
Be confident in who you are, focus on moving YOUR life forward......
Don't worry about making her regret.....if she is going to, she will.
If she's not, you got a new haircut, look like a badass and you're looking ahead, not back so it doesn't matter what she's thinking

 

[Tude]

Don't worry about what she thinks. What do YOU think of yourself?

 

[llama112]

Taking drugs might make you feel better but it won't make you appear more attractive. In fact depending on what you take you will only appear like a tweaked out loser.

Much healthier (and probably cheaper) option would be to get a fresh new haircut, buy yourself some new, sharp clothes and start living and enjoying your life again. Being happy and successful is a far better form of revenge, if that is what you are trying to achieve.

Agreed, good advice
Instead of drugs, maybe you want some vitamins, that can help your health and whatnot. That's always good

 

[Lysis]

If your whole goal is to get back at her and make her jealous, you'll just make yourself more miserable. Especially if she's doing fine and is really over you.

 

[lman_15]

Look I just got out of a year and a half relationship, I know 4 years is much longer than that but since me and my girl broke up
I've fucked her 3 times (my ex)
Got head from a next girl twice
This was all in a 4 week period since we broke up.. You can get next pussy you can get other girls!! Put yourself out there, get some new clothes, clean yourself up a bit, your prob used to living with your girl of 4 years and not having to try anymore.. so start trying, new hair cut, new clothes, new shoes, get fresh looking
Then put yourself out there, start going to bars and clubs, and places where you can meet other single people.. talk with you buddy's who are single and start having "boys night out" every night (or at least friday & saturday) and start working on your game, it can only go up
Get numbers, plant seeds, then fuck the plant

LASTLY, be confident girls love confident men, and although you've been out of the game for 4 years, get back on it, the first night at the club/bar could be a disaster but you can only improve from your current position, so get your wheels rolling

Oh yea hit the gym