Getting harassed in school :)

Noahhatesme said:
Might have to try this method. /j
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The sad truth is that you can rarely ignore assholes like this.
They won't tire because you shy away.
They won't listen to reason and they won't care about how you feel.

All it usually takes is one punch to put an end to it. Even if he beats you up, he'll learn that you won't just back down and swallow his shit.
After that he'll move on to his next victim, someone who doesn't put up a fight.

Bullies are cowards at heart and most of them can't take a bitch slap without turning into petulant bitches crying for their moms.


The other option is to humiliate him. Make the rest of the class laugh at him. In other words, bully the bully.
 
tubgirl.jpg said:
The sad truth is that you can rarely ignore assholes like this.
They won't tire because you shy away.
They won't listen to reason and they won't care about how you feel.

All it usually takes is one punch to put an end to it. Even if he beats you up, he'll learn that you won't just back down and swallow his shit.
After that he'll move on to his next victim, someone who doesn't put up a fight.

Bullies are cowards at heart and most of them can't take a bitch slap without turning into petulant bitches crying for their moms.


The other option is to humiliate him. Make the rest of the class laugh at him. In other words, bully the bully.
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Yeah, honestly i wish i could fight him. But tbh he would prolly actually kill me. Im really weak because of my eating disorder, and he is 6'3 and on varsity wrestling. Plus, i cant afford a $300 ticket.

Just daydreaming about slitting his throat will have to be enough for me.
 
I'm sorry this happened to you.



It happened to me in middle school & highschool too. I came out way too early in 7th grade in a school that had k-12 all in one building because it was such a small town.

From 7th grade (8th grade twice) to 10th grade, I had to go every day being called a faggot, a girl, a this or a that. People would hit me too. I'm not transsexual but I am gay & kids back then automatically assumed that this must mean I wanted to be a girl or something.

It was horrible and traumatizing. It's part of why I dropped out.

One asshole use to do this to me when the teacher would leave the room too.
Later on in life another guy told me that him & this guy use fucked around when they were younger.

I really believe these people are acting out because of their own insecurities and sexuality.

One time we had off campus lunch at school & I went to the gas station across the street with my friend (in a car) and this asshole was standing outside by the door swinging large chains waiting for me to come out of the car, which I never did. But I couldn't believe I had to deal with it middle school & high school.


Hang in there & all the best to you. Don't let it affect your school work like I let did. And hopefully the staff at your school care more than mine did.

One day these people will be ancient memories hopefully (i'm in my 30's now).
 
Noahhatesme said:
Creative solution, wonder who he was calling. I hope he ends up breaking a hip when he is old and gets stuck in a neglectful nursing home. Karma comes 3 fold.
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Actually this person's first child had cystic fibrosis. Now he is a completely different person....very humble and kind. I hate to say this but I think it took the birth of this child...loving someone else more than you love yourself plus seeing them vulnerable to all the evil in the world...to change him
 
Noahhatesme said:
Kid has been making transphobic comments to me and my friends for weeks. Lucky me he is in my health class. We had a sub today and he got sent to the office for throwing tampons across the room and shouting. He was gone for a whole 10min if even before they sent him back 🙄. Eventually they had to send a school counciler in the room to keep him in check. She decided to start a game of hangman and i joined in, jokingly puting "you guys are so loud ahhhhh" as my sentance, and the majority of the class thpught it was funny... exept for the kid. He got up to go next, and as he was setting it up the counciler had to step out to deal with a disterbance in another classroom. In this time he decideds to write faggot and tranny over the board with me as the hangman. The sub told him to erase it and sit down and obviously he didnt listen. The counciler comes back in as he is arguing with the sub, and he finnaly erases it. But then replaces it with "kys noah" in huge letters across the board. I snapped at this point and stqrted packing my shit up to walk out, and told him "you will find it fucking halarious when i do cause imma put your name on the fucking note." And he starts laughing and says "ill look forward to it." At this point the counciler removed me from the room and told me to write down everything that happened. They want me to start keeping record of everything he sqys to me from now on.

I swear this kid is a sociopath wtaf. I swear to god if this shit keeps up i might just actualy do it.
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Yeah don't let that shit get to you. It's never about you, it's always the person that's being a jerks problem.

I've survived suicide attempts. It's never worth it, don't put any thought to it. There's always going to be assholes.

If you ever need to talk feel free to send me a message.
 
I really believe sadistic personality disorder is way more abundant then most realize. There's people out there that actually get off on hurting other people. Sadly anyone that's not like everyone becomes a target.

You are gonna have to stop letting these bullies occupy space in your head. They don't deserve to be there. You can't control other people. Because you are different you are gonna be vulnerable to people like this. But be glad you are. I mean...would you wanna be like them? Just think about what must be going on in their minds for them to want to invest their time into treating someone else like this. Like Deficit said. It's not any kind of reflection on you. They are projecting. It's about the ugliness inside of them. And tbh there's probably some jealousy because you are brave enough to be who you are. It really hurts my heart that they have hurt you so much that you've considered suicide. Please don't even ponder on that. Please! They definitely don't deserve that kind of power. Please don't give it to them.

I promise they are just wanting your reaction. They phene for it. Don't give it to them. Much love to you:heart3:
 
Noahhatesme said:
Yeah, honestly i wish i could fight him. But tbh he would prolly actually kill me. Im really weak because of my eating disorder, and he is 6'3 and on varsity wrestling. Plus, i cant afford a $300 ticket.

Just daydreaming about slitting his throat will have to be enough for me.
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I feel you man, I do. And I get it. It's not worth going to prison just to put a bully in place.
Fuck that guy. Life will get him. People like him eventually bark up the wrong tree, and somebody will step on him like the bug he is.
 
Kellsee said:
Actually this person's first child had cystic fibrosis. Now he is a completely different person....very humble and kind. I hate to say this but I think it took the birth of this child...loving someone else more than you love yourself plus seeing them vulnerable to all the evil in the world...to change him
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Thats really unfortunate for the kid, i have a cousin with cf and it is not pretty. But im glad he was able to change.
 
How long do you have left in school? My advice if you are just starting high school (find a group to share an interest that would loyally get your back) versus about to graduate (cut your losses and just have earphones in all day and be impassive) differ.

Either way, fuck that dude and feel free to reach out via pm if you need to vent.
 
Skorpio said:
How long do you have left in school? My advice if you are just starting high school (find a group to share an interest that would loyally get your back) versus about to graduate (cut your losses and just have earphones in all day and be impassive) differ.

Either way, fuck that dude and feel free to reach out via pm if you need to vent.
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Im a freshmen. And ye, these last few classes ive had with him i pretty much just ingnored him. Told him he better keep my name out his mouth or hes gonna have to stop drop and roll. Pretty sure he took me semi seriously cause hes layed off a tiny bit.
 
I think schools in this day and age in a Western country should have a zero tolerance policy for homophobic and transphobic bullying. I think in Australia that is pretty much the case everywhere already, and in the US I woild have thought schools would shut that shit down fast to avoid lawsuits.

On the other hand I got bullied a fair bit at school, and ultimately came to see it as character building and I found living well is the best revenge.

I like this perspective on it all:

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For a brief time when I was about 10 or 11 years old, I got bullied. On a daily basis, a much larger kid, along with a couple of his…
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nomorebenzos said:
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Wow !! That was great ! I will need to watch this series?
Bullies are a Very dangerous : for all people, but especially Children ( They can Be so cruel!!)
Beating the shit out ones Dad ??? Interesting??
The issue I do see is so much reliance ob (Spirituality,Mindfulness, Pray for the bully??WTF, REALLY)
I believe that God just got the Wiring Wrong on some people?? They can get better...? But THEY must do the work for themselves:, its an inside job.
I do not subscribe to the just Do not engage, and it will go away!!??
 
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