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Getting a date with an old friend who's drop dead gorgeous

psyfiend

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So I've known this girl for about 5 years now through a mutual friend. We used to go out at bars and get fucked up and chill randomly. She's close to impossible to get to. No social media (trust me she doesn't need it :)) anyways I managed to get her number a long time ago and she's not the type to just give it out. She's really nice and funny. We recently started texting again, her text as always sweet. From good morning to goodnight, call me later, we should party! :) etc.

Anyways she's beyond supermodel which doesn't worry me, we get along just fine. She's a different kind of party girl (what I'm used to) not like that matters. I'm in no way looking for a relationship ("that shit get's old fast") I haven't been in a real relationship for just over 2 years now. If it happens than sure none of that mind game garbage.. it's just not for me. She's real, doesn't have a fake name. We can talk about anything, nothing to hide. Just thinking about her is a wonderful thing. A part of me doesn't want to lose her as a friend either, but if I get a night with her I could die tomorrow.

I just seem to have trouble to get the timing right with her either I'm unavailable or she is. The parties I go to are usually secret ones invite only with short notice. I'm guessing I could always party with her close by, but there's not that much fun things to do. Any advice would be great thanks.
 
I don't really understand if you have a question? Nobody can help "get the timing right" to hang out with this girl other than you or the girl.
 
You should definitely make time for her! She's a friend & drop dead gorgeous! + She's cool as shit. What more could a man ask for?

You better pursue her or some other guy will! She's marriage material man, what are you thinking!?

Don't be a wuss!
 
I just seem to have trouble to get the timing right with her either I'm unavailable or she is. The parties I go to are usually secret ones invite only with short notice. I'm guessing I could always party with her close by, but there's not that much fun things to do. Any advice would be great thanks.
why do you have to party with her? do something else instead.

make a plan far enough ahead so that you're both available.

alasdair
 
Do you know she's also not looking for a relationship? If no, why limit your chances if she's not up for casual sex? Why not just go for it, and if she's into you, see where life takes you.

Unless you know 100% you don't want a relationship, in which case be up front about it.
 
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