There is this girl I hooked up with that I won't bang due to the number of partners she has had. Her body count is in the 80s which is way too high for me. Aside from the risk factor I also don't want someone that just anybody can get which is another reason I've been turning her down for sex.
Well she was telling me that she was looking at her vagina in the mirror and that she thought it looked good since it looked like some porn stars vaginas, to which I thought it probably looked bad since porn stars have some big lips aka beef curtains. So the other day I was telling her about one of my new favorite porn stars [Christy Mack ] but that my only issue with her is that her 'lips' are way too big for my liking, so she told me I wouldn't like her vag then since hers looks like that too.
This girl always has to be with a guy at all times. If she's not dating someone she's bouncing around between several guys that she's messing around with so I just couldn't bring myself to F her even when she straight up asked to spend the night with me to have some meaningless sex. Another thing was that she told me that she has never had an orgasm from sex so I would feel like I'm just using her vag to get off and would be leaving her unsatisfied which is never something a guy wants to do.
The other day when we were messing around a bit I told her friend that I still couldn't bring myself to sleep with her due to the amount of guys she's been with, which I meant more that she's way more experienced than me so I wouldn't feel confident going into it as opposed to meaning she's slutty since I'm not going to judge her if she wants to go out drinking a lot and banging dudes when doing so.
Well her friend told her what I said (bitch move IMO, and I think she just told her that to start shit since if she really thought it was messed up for me to say she should have told me that to my face as opposed to staying silent in front of me and then telling the girl what I said later) and a few hours later I got a text from her saying how dare I say that and that I have no idea how many men she's been with, etc...
Yea I don't know the exact number but just going by the stories she has told me the amount of different guys from those stories alone is too high of a number for me, as well as me realizing that she's always gotta be with a guy. I was able to straighten things up with her, telling her that if she wants to do her thing then more power to her, no judgement here, but she's on another level of experience compared to me and that's what I was basing my statement on.
I'm really cool with her and she got over it so we are back to normal with talking and messing around a bit with sexting and touching eachother here and there and going out drinking every few months to hook up and a possible BJ, but no sex if I can help it. Another way I put it was that I like to be with girls that haven't been with many men because that makes it easier for me to be at the top of their list in terms of performance, compared to being with a girl that's been with a ton of guys that might have me ranked as an 'also ran' as opposed to cracking the top 10 haha.
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