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Gay tendencies

ishq said:
Right, well if you paid any attention at all you'd see I used 'stereotypical faggots' to describe what drove me away from gay clubs

I don't have a problem with gays and I don't think it's inherently wrong to be gay or anything. I just never imagined myself to be in such a position.

In re-reading my post, I now realize I meant to say the men which I find sexually arousing (not gay bears, necessarily) are hardly attractive by the social norm - the norm here being rational thinking. I'd expect that as most people grow up, they aqcuire certain standards about what to look for in a partner. Handsome, fit, smart, funny, sexy, successful and the list goes on. So what I'm saying is, the qualities which I find sexually arousing are completely opposite to what I've learned to look for.

In the end, I just want to know why it'd be justified if I were to commit to being gay. I know I've come off as a jerk, but if you can see past any personal insults (which are not so personal tbh, just saying the truth), I'm really just seeking some kind of confirmation. It's quite sad I admit, but at least I have the priviledge of anonymity online (although it's not too hard to find out who I am if you cared enough).

Anyway, thanks again to anyone who bothered to read any of this
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My replies led you to think I was not paying attention ? How was that ? If your simply looking to throw insults - then Im not going to waste any more of my time talking to you.
 
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serotonin-system said:
How can you be so sure he's gay? He could be bi/tri-sexual for a start.
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I'm just going by what he's said so far; he's never mentioned any attractions to females just sucking cock. and he enjoyed hus father sticking a finger up his ass
 
he hasn't mentioned liking women which seems kinda gay, but stuff up your ass fetish doesn't make you gay. its having sex with men that does it
 
Just because he hasn't broken his bum virginity doesn't mean he's not gay
 
Do you have sexual attraction to women at all? If you do then you are bisexual. If you do not at all then you are gay.

I have some gay male friends who told me how they have had sex with at least one woman or a few when they were closeted, or younger and did not know they were gay and men were not available and they said that sex with women just showed them how they are not sexually attracted to women or the female gender at all.

Oral sex and anal sex, and other vanilla sex acts are not fetishes at all.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Do you have sexual attraction to women at all? If you do then you are bisexual. If you do not at all then you are gay.

I have some gay male friends who told me how they have had sex with at least one woman or a few when they were closeted, or younger and did not know they were gay and men were not available and they said that sex with women just showed them how they are not sexually attracted to women or the female gender at all.

Oral sex and anal sex, and other vanilla sex acts are not fetishes at all.
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what I can't understand tho especially for gay men is how can they even have sex with a woman if there not physically attracted to them? its like a straight person having sex with a man to find out if he's gay or not it just wouldn't happen cuz you'd have to want to first imo
 
dieseldog1 said:
Op , I don't suppose you live anywhere near Chicago , do you ?
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LOL I'm not sure where you were going with that, but I live in europe

deano88 said:
I'm just going by what he's said so far; he's never mentioned any attractions to females just sucking cock. and he enjoyed hus father sticking a finger up his ass
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Why are you insisting on this point when I've made it clear that he was teasing me on purpose because he knew that I didn't like it?

Also, I am definitely attracted to women, just in a very naive, almost non-sexual way. I mean ofc I wouldn't mind staring at a nice pair of tits, but I don't really get crazy ideas about what I would do if said tits were being offered to me.

Anyway I don't think I'll pursue this any further, just lock it up somewhere inside my perverse mind and hope it never has to surface. You can close this thread if you want.
 
deano88 said:
what I can't understand tho especially for gay men is how can they even have sex with a woman if there not physically attracted to them? its like a straight person having sex with a man to find out if he's gay or not it just wouldn't happen cuz you'd have to want to first imo
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See my earlier post when I wrote about how they did not know they were gay at the time, sometimes they were closeted or in denial, and sex with a woman just helped them realize how they're gay/homosexual and not sexually attracted to women at all.

They told me how when they had sex with a woman they could not get hard or do much of anything without thinking about men constantly the entire time.
 
I'm so incredibly grateful that it's not all that uncommon to be sexually attracted to bears/daddies. I'm 24 & my partner is 53. We might not be together forever but for now we love each other and he loves me fucking him!(guys always want to fuck me) and he blows like Noone I've ever seen. There's some cool things 2 fellas can do. As long as your safe! I'd go the internet route if I were you.
 
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