frustrated:an angry letter to my husband

dear j,

you bitch that i do not eat healthy, so when we go shopping i grap lots of veggies and fruit. then you have the nerve to bitch that i am buying expensive food because i refuse to eat spaghetti-os and other assorted overly processed cheap food. you complain that i buy low fat/low sodium soups because they cost more than the $1/can crap you have.

i am sorry that i refuse to eat the crap you put in your mouth. its nasty, high in calories and fat and offers next to no nutrition. i'd rather buy healthy, tasty food for home and the processed crap when unhealthy stuff when i go out. mcdonalds once in awhile is way better than eating like you do on a daily basis.

furthermore, if i am cooking for the both of us, i am going to make veggies i like. you aren't a fucking child, it won't kill you to try new things. then you have the nerve to say that i am pikcy because i think veggies are an important part of a meal. wtf is wrong with you?

don't even get me started about money. i have barely touched our savings account, you have drained it buying idiotic things we do not need. then you complain that i want to have a nice couch since we have no furniture. to me that is way more important than a stupid shiney router even tho the old one worked just as fine. then you go buying all these other gadgets which we don't need, spending money from the savings account. or rather, spending your money but taking money out of the savings account for "essentials" that you don't have the money for.

my car is broken and you can't be bothered to loan me your car. you are complaining that i didn't have it towed to the dealership to be fix, where it would cost an arm and a leg more than waiting for my dad to look at it. unlike you, i figure living on budget means doing so. not just doing what is convenient.

i am so pissed of right now and almost wish i never moved back. FUCK OFF is about all i have to say to you.

 

to be fair, my husband could prolly write an equally angry/frustrated letter and me and my habits. but including that wouldn't be very useful for my venting

 

{{{hugs}}}

Hopefully this is just stress related to adjusting to the move, hon. Maybe the two of you can use this as an opportunity to set up a budget with which you both can live.

 

I think what you are feeling is normal.
You guys have to get used to each other all over again.....
Vent all you like to us though!
I'm all ears! (or eyes)

 

Veggies >> all else. Real food >> processed crap. I'm with you a_c.

Which reminds me, I need to go do my dishes.

 

dave: i like crappy food too, but i prefer it to be in the form of bacon cheese fries or a greasy burger, not spaghetti from a can. and i try to limit it to once a week or so, as opposed to making it my main diet.

ocen: i think you are right. we always had seperate banking accounts and sharing money is a new thing.

mariposa: it is stress. i am annoyed at how hard finding a job has been, j is annoyed that i do not have one and we have different ideas of what is needed.