"Friends" (Blog theme)

I have only a few friends and recently ended a 15 year friendship due to it being toxic for me.
I hit 30 and realized I'm in a no bullshit/no drama zone now. I don't want people in my life who are only going to focus on the negative and not face what is real......I don't want secretive friends or people who lie to waste my time. I have a couple girls in my town that I have been working on developing a friendships with and I find myself hesitant to fully trust.....I guess it comes with time?
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Asclepius
Good for you! :D
It takes courage Ocean but you will benifit hun in the long run.
I also find it difficult to trust people.
I have a few aquaintances but no-one I feel I can open up to; the one person I did open up to, didnt understand or seem to put much value on the disclosure of my feelings.
Think time is a great, true judge of the truth and what works for you as an individual.
I had kinda given up on my own perceptions of what I needed in friendship and surrendered to a harsh reality but a councellor mentioned to me that I dont seem to have any dreams; where I immediately thought Pfft! 'Dreams' arent real so therefore they are a waste of time but sometimes, I guess having dreams is a way of validating one's self and can create a direction, hopefully this will lead me toward better choices on what I need rather than what I 'should' need.
No b/s and Drama zone is a good place to be! :)
 
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