Forgot to introduce myself!!

[BadHero]

Hi everyone,

I seemed to have joined this forum and forgotten my manners!!!

Bad Hero... BH for short.

I stumbled across BL whilst looking for answers and I'm glad I found it. I have found some great things on here which have helped me, mainly the members!

Don't know what to say about me. I'm human, abnormal, quirky, straight talking, totally honest (I took a vow of brutal honesty) and a pretty easy going sort of person.

I have tattoos, piercings and I shaved my head for charity a couple of months ago... Shouldn't have done it so close to winter!!

I am, what my friends call, a fixer. People talk to me about things because they know I will be straight with them. I don't sugar coat things.

I like meeting new people and finding out about them and what they have done, are doing and what they want to do.

I like to read anything that isn't a romance novel. I like to write but I have never shared anything that I have written.

And that's pretty much me.

Nice to meet you all

 

[Smoky]

Hi, Welcome aboard !!

Thank you for stopping in to make an intro. I agree about romance novels. Yuck! Great to have you with us.

 

[Boku_]

Welcome to bluelight badhero. You sound quite worldly. Perhaps a career as a motivational speecher is for you

 

[BadHero]

Welcome to bluelight badhero. You sound quite worldly. Perhaps a career as a motivational speaker is for you

Hey Boku.... Don't know about motivational speaker... Probably more sat nav than anything!!!! I can advise but people will always choose their own path!!

I have realised my place in this world is for me to truly understand and continuously learn about appreciation, acceptance, forgiveness, patience but mostly understanding. I appreciate the small things in life, like a sunny day. I accept there are things I cannot change. I forgive those who have doubted, wronged and hurt me in the past. I learnt how to control a very violent temper. But the best thing for me is that now I understand that each day will bring challenges to test me and not punish me. I understand that sometimes, you have to be cruel to be kind. I understand that it'[s easier to forgive and forget than to be angry. But most importantly, I have learnt that sometimes, you spend so long bending over backwards for people only to get nowhere so you have to learn to bend over forwards and tell them to kiss your arse!!!

 

[BadHero]

Hi, Welcome aboard !!

Thank you for stopping in to make an intro. I agree about romance novels. Yuck! Great to have you with us.

Romance novels will never be for me.... I'd rather read the ingredients of toothpaste!!!!

Glad to be a part of BL!!