Nocturnal7
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Aug 14, 2010
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Someone I know is moving to a new city. She is a pretty, white female moving to Los Angeles from the mid-west. She has lived in LA in the past and has made a lot of friends in the area. She tells me, many of her friends have moved on and left the city/state since the 3 years she's lived out there. She has thought about seeking-- in certain areas of the city when she moves back. But she tells me she has too many fears especially being a single, white female, trying to score. She has never done this before since she has always known the right people. She does not know the right people anymore. She wants to know if the risk is more against her favor, especially being a female. She knows many men who successfully finds the right people in areas and 9 times out of 10, men seem to be successful. Males constantly tell her to never try for herself only because she is female and she would probably have worse luck.
So here is my question:
Would you think a female trying to seek would have more risks, more dangers of being ripped-off or assaulted than a man would?
This is my first thread/post. I have been a member of Bluelight for 4 years now but only as a reader. I have read many threads on here from members who are seeking areas. Most threads I have found were all male 'lighters'. Could we get thoughts on this from a females perspective? Anyone (male/female) can give us your thoughts. Thanks.
So here is my question:
Would you think a female trying to seek would have more risks, more dangers of being ripped-off or assaulted than a man would?
This is my first thread/post. I have been a member of Bluelight for 4 years now but only as a reader. I have read many threads on here from members who are seeking areas. Most threads I have found were all male 'lighters'. Could we get thoughts on this from a females perspective? Anyone (male/female) can give us your thoughts. Thanks.