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Greenlighter
First, I would like to say that I am pretty well versed in general medical terms etc, so if any of you guys have to speak technically please do. We are going crazy and need ideas, help, something. I came here because I need to hear experienced opinions.
My father-in-law, 71, severe alcoholic, walked into an ER 13 days ago with shortness of breath. He already has severe COPD, but discovered he had bilateral blot clots and of course needed admission. Upon admission he was already suffering from Alcohol Withdrawal. I specifically asked for ativan for his stabilizing drug. They used it with no problem. His condition deteriorated and they weren't doing much to help. I am not a hospital basher but this got totally out of hand.
At some point we realized that they were not treating symptomatic lung conditions but their focus had turned to withdrawal. This is not what we wanted (yes, we like him dry but one thing at a time please). He has mild dementia, but is fully functional at home with ZERO assistance for anything except driving and complicated paperwork (I think the latter was laziness). When he is in the hospital the dementia mixes with AWS and causes a perfect storm. We wanted him home if the medical end was stable.
We had to force their hand to get him home but he is an invalid and even non responsive at times. His DTs seemed to have passed some 48 hours ago, at least as far as we can tell. I don't understand where we are now. His labs were done and I am assuming that I am getting the full truth when Magnesium and Vitamin K were the only labs down. Thyroid function is abnormal but no emergency flags were thrown up.
Thanks
My father-in-law, 71, severe alcoholic, walked into an ER 13 days ago with shortness of breath. He already has severe COPD, but discovered he had bilateral blot clots and of course needed admission. Upon admission he was already suffering from Alcohol Withdrawal. I specifically asked for ativan for his stabilizing drug. They used it with no problem. His condition deteriorated and they weren't doing much to help. I am not a hospital basher but this got totally out of hand.
At some point we realized that they were not treating symptomatic lung conditions but their focus had turned to withdrawal. This is not what we wanted (yes, we like him dry but one thing at a time please). He has mild dementia, but is fully functional at home with ZERO assistance for anything except driving and complicated paperwork (I think the latter was laziness). When he is in the hospital the dementia mixes with AWS and causes a perfect storm. We wanted him home if the medical end was stable.
We had to force their hand to get him home but he is an invalid and even non responsive at times. His DTs seemed to have passed some 48 hours ago, at least as far as we can tell. I don't understand where we are now. His labs were done and I am assuming that I am getting the full truth when Magnesium and Vitamin K were the only labs down. Thyroid function is abnormal but no emergency flags were thrown up.
Thanks